"normal" relationships

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Ha ha ha, Zero... Maybe what you really mean to tell us ladies is that the guy we are looking for has the first name of Non and the last name of Existent... :)

Yes Kim, that's one of his alias'es :) There's also his friends: Big Lie, Pipe Dream and Pure Fantasy. :D
 
I know just the perfect guy for you! His first name is Prince, his last name is Charming. :p

Why do I get the feeling I'm about to be shunned again.

LOL! Prince Charming would be a little too fluffy for me LOL

Robin Hood would be cool tho :p
 
Hmm...its gotta be the tights. Women dig guys who wear tights.

*ponders* There might be some truth to that... I've always dug Superman... But I always thought is was because he comes from another planet, can shoot laser beams from his eyes, and can fly... However... maybe it REALLY IS the tights. (On second though... nah... :)).
 
Normal, to me at least, implies some sort of stability. Stability is really good. My last girlfriend was pretty fickle and I never knew what to expect so that was pretty stressful. That doesn't mean there can't be some spontaneity, though. You should be able to surprise your partner with loving gestures. If that's not a "normal" part of the relationship, then something is wrong.
 
I think that a "normal" relationship between 2 christian ppl is a very different thing than a "normal" relationship between 2 non christian ppl so i think it depends on who told you that.....

Non-Christian marriages have a 50% divorce rate. Guess what Christian divorce rate is? 50%... American Christians are sick for the most part in this generation.

I looked up the word "normal" this morning and found these synonyms:

average, common, commonplace, cut-and-dried (also cut-and-dry), everyday, garden-variety, ordinary, prosaic, routine, run-of-the-mill, standard, standard-issue, unexceptional, unremarkable, usual, workaday

That doesn't sound like the sort of relationship anyone would want, so why do people keep telling me that I need a "normal" relationship? Ugh.... What's a normal relationship anyway?

I want something abnormal. :)

Julianna, if I was your age I would totally be hitting on you. You're like the perfect catch!
 
Non-Christian marriages have a 50% divorce rate. Guess what Christian divorce rate is? 50%... American Christians are sick for the most part in this generation.

Well, i wasnt talking about the % rate of divorces, i wrote that because in a marriage of 2 christians they have inside the holy spirit and i thought about this :

John 3:8 "The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear the sound of it, but cannot tell where it comes from and where it goes. So is everyone who is born of the Spirit.”

So being a christian is kind of unpredictable because you dont know what God will do in your life in the next minute, so i think that if you even try to act the most possible similar of the rest of the marriages in the world or around you according with the "rules" of the society, your relationship will be abnormal anyway in the eyes to non christians but at the same time this will be completely "normal" for a christian.
 
*ponders* There might be some truth to that... I've always dug Superman... But I always thought is was because he comes from another planet, can shoot laser beams from his eyes, and can fly... However... maybe it REALLY IS the tights. (On second though... nah... :)).

Well, imagine if superman wore fishing waders a trenchcoat or baggy pants with his boxers showing instead. Would he still be just as hot to you? I think not!
 
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Non-Christian marriages have a 50% divorce rate. Guess what Christian divorce rate is? 50%... American Christians are sick for the most part in this generation.



Julianna, if I was your age I would totally be hitting on you. You're like the perfect catch!


LOL Brandon. Should I just wait til you catch up? :)
 
It's definitely the tights.......
 

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I don't care if women think men in tights is attractive, I'm not wearing them. *thinks this thread has been derailed* :D
 
if i didn't know better, i'd say you were bored and playing semantics.
love yah.
A/ you're looking around
B/ gotta be a "nice guy"
C/ your Really Bored on a Monday night.
Just make sure he's really a nice guy, and your mama likes him. :)
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