Hi Oz
Because of this thread i went to the thread in question. I didn't see anything wrong in what you said. I see no reason to have it deleted (i'm not a mod, so it's not my choice, just expressing my opinion). And you're right, there is a lot of judgment on this site against women in your position, but there is also a lot of support. I chose not to respond in that thread so it would let it fall down the list. I tried to PM you, but you have them blocked. Anyways, don't feel bad about your response. I think it was fully justified, and honestly it was Much more tame than i expected considering you want it deleted.
But its true, it's quite difficult to get a thread deleted. They rarely will even delete a single post. Hope you can find the support you need.