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Zachias

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am a faithful follower of christ 35 years old looking for a wife live in british columbia
 

cinder

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And what have you been doing to meet and get to know some candidates for the position?
 

Lanolin

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He put in an online order and expects speedy delivery.
 

Dino246

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He put in an online order and expects speedy delivery.
The last I heard, Jeff Bezos rejected the "God" franchise, so speedy delivery on a spouse is not an option, even for Prime members.
 

Dino246

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am a faithful follower of christ 35 years old looking for a wife live in british columbia
Welcome to CC!

While the title of this forum is "Singles", and some individuals have found a spouse hereabouts, this isn't a dating forum. That said, best wishes in your search.
 

2ndTimeIsTheCharm

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am a faithful follower of christ 35 years old looking for a wife live in british columbia

Aw, I feel bad for you. I will pray that the Lord brings her to you! In the meantime, inquire of the Lord what you should do to prepare yourself for her. Pray also for your future wife as well, that she will prepare herself too to meet and marry you! :)

 

kinda

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Nothing wrong with optimism. It takes courage to put yourself out there into the interverse.

Behind a anonymous screen name in CC, doesn't seem to daring, but I get your point.


My advice for the Canadian, would be to work hard, increase your net worth, then your chances of a wife will drastically increase. I'm not entirely sure why that is though. :)

Just a reminder, there are many divorce people in the world, so don't think marriage is necessarily a destination. it's just might be a pit stop before being single again,
 

Cameron143

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Behind a anonymous screen name in CC, doesn't seem to daring, but I get your point.


My advice for the Canadian, would be to work hard, increase your net worth, then your chances of a wife will drastically increase. I'm not entirely sure why that is though. :)

Just a reminder, there are many divorce people in the world, so don't think marriage is necessarily a destination. it's just might be a pit stop before being single again,
If net worth is the determining factor then we're all in trouble. The best dating advice I ever got was Matthew 6:33 and Psalm 23:1.
 

kinda

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If net worth is the determining factor then we're all in trouble. The best dating advice I ever got was Matthew 6:33 and Psalm 23:1.
What do you mean, we're all in trouble? Being single is how you stay out of trouble. lol


But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want


Good verses, but I think this verse is more appropriate. lol


A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it. Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long.

Proverbs 31:10-12

Can one conclude, that a bad woman is easy to find, or am I reading into this to much? You tell me!
 

Cameron143

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What do you mean, we're all in trouble? Being single is how you stay out of trouble. lol


But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want


Good verses, but I think this verse is more appropriate. lol


A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it. Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long.

Proverbs 31:10-12

Can one conclude, that a bad woman is easy to find, or am I reading into this to much? You tell me!
See, that's the problem. You are concentrating on the spouse. I believe the best way to prepare for marriage is to concentrate on God.
 

kinda

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See, that's the problem. You are concentrating on the spouse. I believe the best way to prepare for marriage is to concentrate on God.

That's where you have me wrong, I'm concentrating on not having a spouse. It's entirely a different mind set. lol

Marriage needs a lot of preparation (a lot), we agree there! Well, I don't have enough time to prepare, that's the problem. Now if we still lived 700 years like Noah and Adam, I could possibly be ready by years 200-300. It's a shame really.

Where did you meet your wife? (Yes, I looked on your profile, it says, married)
 

Cameron143

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That's where you have me wrong, I'm concentrating on not having a spouse. It's entirely a different mind set. lol

Marriage needs a lot of preparation (a lot), we agree there! Well, I don't have enough time to prepare, that's the problem. Now if we still lived 700 years like Noah and Adam, I could possibly be ready by years 200-300. It's a shame really.

Where did you meet your wife? (Yes, I looked on your profile, it says, married)
Ok. An easy way to stay single is just stop bathing.

I actually met my wife online. I was married previously and that marriage ended in a divorce after nearly 29 years.
I wasn't sure if I wanted to marry again especially as I was raising 7 children and was just trying to minimalize the damage in their lives. But God was very gracious to both myself and my kids and has brought a very wonderful woman and stepdaughter into my life.
 

kinda

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Ok. An easy way to stay single is just stop bathing.

I actually met my wife online. I was married previously and that marriage ended in a divorce after nearly 29 years.
I wasn't sure if I wanted to marry again especially as I was raising 7 children and was just trying to minimalize the damage in their lives. But God was very gracious to both myself and my kids and has brought a very wonderful woman and stepdaughter into my life.

7 kids! Brother you are a busy man!

Thanks for the advice. Stop bathing and don't talk to woman on the net.

Message received and understood!


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Cameron143

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7 kids! Brother you are a busy man!

Thanks for the advice. Stop bathing and don't talk to woman on the net.

Message received and understood!


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I should also mention that you have a wonderful sense of humor. That's a very attractive quality as well. So you have been thoroughly warned.
 
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Gojira

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If net worth is the determining factor then we're all in trouble. The best dating advice I ever got was Matthew 6:33 and Psalm 23:1.
Agreed. If I have to work to buy a woman's love, there's another word for that, and that is certainly not the kind of woman I'd ever want.
 

RodB651

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How long must I wait
How much more must I take
Before loneliness
Will cause my heart, heart to break

No, I can't bear to live my life alone
I grow impatient for a love to call my own
But when I feel that I, I can't go on
Well these precious words keep me hangin' on
I remember mama said

You can't hurry love
No, you'll just have to wait
She said love don't come easy
Well, it's a game of give and take..