the not kissing before marriage game
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Re: the not-kissing-before-marriage game
Like, wait until marriage before you embrace, smooch, cuddle on the couch, "make out", etc. etc. etc.
Like, wait until marriage before you embrace, smooch, cuddle on the couch, "make out", etc. etc. etc.
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Golfaholic30
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I actually embrace this idea. I know it's not for everyone, but this is how I want my future relationship to be
oh and then she shares with you that she unintentionally went a little too far with just a few of those guys.. just went a little too far (kinda unintentionally "crossed the line" and had sex) with just a few of the 20 Christian guys that she made out with
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Golfaholic30
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haha, ya something like that. I mean I understand that sometimes people do make mistakes, but I also believe that if you play with fire you eventually get burned.
Hahaha Robo....this is hilarious!!
As for the waiting till marriage thing...4 of my friends did it! Their first kiss was at the alter!! Sooooo cool! ;-)
So yeah....it would be worth the wait I think!
As for the waiting till marriage thing...4 of my friends did it! Their first kiss was at the alter!! Sooooo cool! ;-)
So yeah....it would be worth the wait I think!
Looking back at the mistakes I've made in my own life, Robo... I can't say this is a bad idea!
I've gone on some dates but haven't kissed anyone (except on the cheek in greeting, if that counts) for over six years... general anxiety and fear of getting close to someone because of bad relationships and poor choices... so if that counts in any way, it looks like I'm headed down that path!
I've gone on some dates but haven't kissed anyone (except on the cheek in greeting, if that counts) for over six years... general anxiety and fear of getting close to someone because of bad relationships and poor choices... so if that counts in any way, it looks like I'm headed down that path!
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SamIam
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Thats a good idea robo, maybe we should also impliment the rule of not talking before marriage either
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MusicalMe
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hehehe Sam...
I was friends with a couple that didn't kiss until their wedding day, and it worked for them, but I don't think it works for everyone. I would never base a relatioinship solely on chemistry, but I do think it has to be there (see the various threads about attraction) - and some guys have chemistry-killing kisses. You think you like them, until they slobber all over your face. If I want that, I'll just get a puppy.
I was friends with a couple that didn't kiss until their wedding day, and it worked for them, but I don't think it works for everyone. I would never base a relatioinship solely on chemistry, but I do think it has to be there (see the various threads about attraction) - and some guys have chemistry-killing kisses. You think you like them, until they slobber all over your face. If I want that, I'll just get a puppy.
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minnesotablu
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LOL okay well i'm sorry but PERSONALLY... i wouldn't want my first kiss to be in front of 200 people................ *awkward* 
haha
haha
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Jennifleur
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Well, minnesotablu, you could always get in a lot of practice at the rehearsal the day before..... 
Man o man... the thought that you have to find out how somebody kisses before you can marry them.
Let me tell you something more important... how somebody performs in the bed is a whole lot more important than just how they kiss. So better test that before you marry, too, huh?
What a comparison.
As if physical intimacy is no more sacred -- or reserved -- than chatting.
But that is a common mentality of today.
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Jennifleur
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I think that's the line of logic many people follow, sadly...
But I've always been of the opinion that, if you've never been with anyone else, how will you know they're bad at it, or that even you are? It shouldn't matter if you have nothing to compare it to. And, at least with kissing, I've been told you can improve. But I'll have to take their word for it, because I wouldn't know.
But I've always been of the opinion that, if you've never been with anyone else, how will you know they're bad at it, or that even you are? It shouldn't matter if you have nothing to compare it to. And, at least with kissing, I've been told you can improve. But I'll have to take their word for it, because I wouldn't know.
Lol...If I ever am standing at a wedding alter and never kissed the girl..I will go out side and start flapping my arms until I fly....
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christiancollegegirl
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Does it matter that I've already kissed 2 guys? Not kissing another guy till I'm married is gonna be real hard