I often find that scientists simply want to avoid the spirit within them. When I sat and had a detailed discussion with an academic one thing was abundantly clear, he wasn't willing to discuss his feelings and even give his feelings the place to flourish and be recognised
Well in general they are not feeling oriented people at all. I mean it's like building up one arm and not the other. I'm quite guilty of this myself. Mostly because my heart leads me to be an ass really. I don't put too much stock in that part of me. Men perhaps have evil hearts, they certainly shouldn't lead the way with them. At least in my experience. There is love and there is anger, I prefer peace.