The year I turned attractive

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How old were you when you turned attractive?

  • Under 12

    Votes: 2 14.3%
  • 12-13

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 14-15

    Votes: 2 14.3%
  • 16-17

    Votes: 1 7.1%
  • 18-19

    Votes: 1 7.1%
  • 20+

    Votes: 2 14.3%
  • I'm a sadly unattractive ugly duckling

    Votes: 5 35.7%
  • I've always been attractive - nobody can resist me!

    Votes: 2 14.3%

  • Total voters
    14
I forgot to mention that I received a best looking baby trophy around the time I was born....so I guess I've been attractive since birth...lol
 
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I forgot to mention that I received a best looking baby trophy around the time I was born....so I guess I've been attractive since birth...lol
Aw.
I definitely was not. I was a cry baby!
Not only that, but ugly crying.
Mum was always trying to make me laugh, but the only thing that made me laugh (she couldn't say anything that did not sound like she was yelling at me) was to tickle me.
 
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I've sort of made this unisex because I don't think its fair on females to say their only attractive feature is their looks (turning pretty) although being easy on the eyes is probably an immediate advantage. How many times do men say they like a girl that is blonde? have lost count.

Maybe the whole magnetism/charisma thing is 'je ne sais quoi' meaning the 'I don't know what.' ?!
Turns out that my wife, JesusLives, is a blond.
 
gentlemen prefer blonds, totally true!!!! but you never hear the real reason why: it's because blond colored hair matches skin color better than any other color.
Really?
Huh what if your skin isn't pale.
I thought it was more the blue eyes, blonde combo.

But then Britney Spears wasn't blonde, she dyed her hair, her eyes are brown, and then she shaved it all off.

I'm very sad about skin colour, because that's something you can't always help, though I suppose I can always get a tattoo? And be multicoloured.
 
My wife is legally blond. Really, it's a good thing.
Is she...Martha Stewart? I.e domestic goddess.
Nigella Lawson was brunette.

I wonder if cooking skills make you attractive. Maybe it's better than cleaning skills.
 
Really?
Huh what if your skin isn't pale.
I thought it was more the blue eyes, blonde combo.

But then Britney Spears wasn't blonde, she dyed her hair, her eyes are brown, and then she shaved it all off.

I'm very sad about skin colour, because that's something you can't always help, though I suppose I can always get a tattoo? And be multicoloured.
sure, blue eyes certainly are part of the package. tattoo: so phunnneee! why sad about skin color?
 
sure, blue eyes certainly are part of the package. tattoo: so phunnneee! why sad about skin color?
It's not something you can totally change. I mean you can go to a tanning salon if you are pale, and bleach your skin if you are dark, but to change the color of your skin to be more attractive I guess is a huge expense and you shouldn't need to take such drastic measures. If someone is attracted to you, it shouldn't always be about skin colour, or the colour of your hair. Or what clothes you wear. I mean not all the time, clothes you can change, but its skin color is something that's very personal to each individual, though most people don't care too much, I've noticed it's important in certain countries that have colour barriers like the US

Not too long ago it was against the law to date someone of a different colour skin to yours. I think that's very sad. People absolutely count or discount you because of this. Even if you are attracted/attractive to someone, people around you can be like ew your gf/bf is .... insert skin colour here.

And they will shun you because of this. It happens more than people admit.
 
Different cultures I think people can handle, and accomodate but different skin colour seems like it's important. Maybe because it's the first thing people notice....?
It doesn't somehow develop as you grow older, you sort of remain the same colour you were born with. Although I have noticed there is a preference for 'white' over 'black' nobody cares about the 'pink' people or the 'grey' people, and if you are rainbow coloured, well you are a freak that doesn't deserve anyone...or maybe you just attract other rainbow coloured people.
And 'yellow' people aren't actually yellow like the Simpsons.

Those who are mixed race can probably tell you all sorts of stories of how they are unaccepted by others.
 
It's not something you can totally change. I mean you can go to a tanning salon if you are pale, and bleach your skin if you are dark, but to change the color of your skin to be more attractive I guess is a huge expense and you shouldn't need to take such drastic measures. If someone is attracted to you, it shouldn't always be about skin colour, or the colour of your hair. Or what clothes you wear. I mean not all the time, clothes you can change, but its skin color is something that's very personal to each individual, though most people don't care too much, I've noticed it's important in certain countries that have colour barriers like the US

Not too long ago it was against the law to date someone of a different colour skin to yours. I think that's very sad. People absolutely count or discount you because of this. Even if you are attracted/attractive to someone, people around you can be like ew your gf/bf is .... insert skin colour here.

And they will shun you because of this. It happens more than people admit.
i never thought about skin color being an issue concerning dating. by course, in the summer, people are more attracted to tan color.
 
i never thought about skin color being an issue concerning dating. by course, in the summer, people are more attracted to tan color.
Not if you are dark - already tanned, year round.

Not to be a downer but racism is real.
 
I had no bother attracting biting and stinging insects in my youth.

Some older women had a thing for me when I hit my early teens, but my shyness made their advances as unwelcome as the nuisance of wasps or mosquitoes on a camping trip.

I praise God, for my apprehension around the opposite sex in my adolescence, because I never knew Him back then, and the reservedness in my behaviour protected me from a whole lot of trouble.