If you understand love, then you know it must be evoked rather than forced. Seven Scriptural "pearls" teaching divine omnilove include: 1 John 4:7-12, Rom. 5:8, Matt. 5:44 & 48, Gal. 5:6 & 14, Eph. 3:17b-19, Eph. 5:2 and 1 Tim. 2:3-4. It is love rather than fear that motivates genuine faith and love both at the moment of conversion and during a lifetime of perseverance.
If I understand love!? As if you do? You have a really great handle on love, do you, especially God's love? You FWers remind me of the world and how the ungodly will very often appeal to God's love to support and advance their political agendas. But since you have appealed to love -- even inferring that love surpasses and is superior to the godly disposition of Fear of the Lord -- then let's look briefly at love to see if you know of what you speak. I say you absolutely do NOT! And that by appealing to love, you have unwittingly placed yourself between a rock (Fear of the Lord) and a hard place (love).
But first a very quick review of the critical importance of the Fear of the Lord. As we have seen previously, the Fear of the Lord leads to life, and this Fear is actually a fountain of life to all who possess it. And this should come as no surprise because those who Fear God will keep his commandments, shun evil and this Fear of God is the key that unlocks the great treasure of God's salvation, wisdom and knowledge. And this Fear of the Lord is a unilateral New Covenant promise which proves its critical role in the salvation of all lost souls.
What YOU do not understand about love is that no sinner loves God! Sinners have rebellious, prideful and arrogant hearts, which is why the Psalmist wrote what he did about the nations of this world (Ps 2:1-3), asking why to the nations rage, and the peoples plot in vain, not wanting the King to rule over them. Doesn't sound from this Psalm that the world has a love affair with God or his Christ. It's for this reason that Moses predicted what God would do for his covenant people to correct this fatal moral deficiency -- fatal because anyone who doesn't love God is under a curse (1Cor 16:22). Therefore, God, through Moses, unilaterally promised his covenant people the day would come when he would provide an eternal, spiritual remedy for this damning spiritual condition:
Deut 30:1-6
30:1 When all these blessings and curses I have set before you come upon you and you take them to heart wherever the LORD your God disperses you among the nations, 2 and when you and your children return to the LORD your God and obey him with all your heart and with all your soul according to everything I command you today, 3 then the LORD your God will restore your fortunes and have compassion on you and gather you again from all the nations where he scattered you. 4 Even if you have been banished to the most distant land under the heavens, from there the LORD your God will gather you and bring you back. 5 He will bring you to the land that belonged to your fathers, and you will take possession of it. He will make you more prosperous and numerous than your fathers. 6 The LORD your God will circumcise your hearts and the hearts of your descendants, so that you may love him with all your heart and with all your soul, and live.
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This circumcision of the heart, not made with human hands, is every bit as critically important as the sovereign and gracious gift of the Fear of the Lord since only those who truly love God will inherit the kingdom of God (Jas 2:5).
And only those who love God are known by Him (1Cor 8:3). And this explains the major reason behind why Christ will tell many self-deceived professing believers on the the last day that He never knew them (Mat 7:23).
And this lack of love for God also explains Jesus' words in Mat 25:41 when on Judgment Day, he will tell all those on his left to "Depart from me you who are cursed into the eternal fire..." (again cf. 1Cor 16:22).
Moreover, all "agape" love comes from God himself (1Jn 4:7).
Paul totally understood the above truth, which is how he could write that grace, faith and love were all poured out on him abundantly by God (1Tim 1:14; Rom 5:5). This is the only way sinners can truly love God! They receive the gifts of grace, faith and love which empowers them to freely reciprocate God's love back to him!
So, why do you despise these indispensable gifts God has graciously given to his chosen ones? Why do you blaspheme God by heaping upon all manner of insults upon Him, e.g. monster, tyrant, bully, etc. (When you and other FWers do such things you sound like the pagans described in Ps 2 who rage against God, and whom God mocks and holds in derision.) Why is your heart so hardened that you cannot see the helpless and hopeless spiritual condition of mankind? Why can't you rejoice in God's amazing grace, mercy, compassion and incomprehensible love for his chosen people? Why is that you persist on untethering yourself from God efficacious, saving grace, and instead insist on your all-powerful, self-sufficient "freewill" as THE KEY to unlocking God's treasure of salvation, wisdom and knowledge? Why can't you be ever thankful that God, through the Holy Spirit, has circumcised all his people's hearts (Rom 2:28-29)? Why can't you rejoice that God's elect will offer themselves freely (willingly)
on the day of his power (Ps 110:3)?