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Mmm sorry been there done that. The worst that happened ? Well nothing BAD as such, but I had an uncomfortable feeling about it. Also I was not in the headspace for it. And I pretty much had to decide after only 3 dates, whether I was going to partner up with someone, though he lived in another town on another island. Yea, travelling would be expensive.

It's not gonna happen.

And the last time I was on a christian singles actual dating site I was scammed of $2000 and had to go to the police.
Sounds like a horrible experience. Years ago, when I was single and frequented the AOL chat rooms, I allowed myself to get scammed out a $1000. I'm older and wiser now. Sorry to hear your discouraging experiences.
 
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Sounds like a horrible experience. Years ago, when I was single and frequented the AOL chat rooms, I allowed myself to get scammed out a $1000. I'm older and wiser now. Sorry to hear your discouraging experiences.
I wasn't so much scammed as he was a thief. He took my bag, got my card, and sneakily viewed my PIN as I was making a purchase over my shoulder. He pretended and said he would hold my bag for me, as if I couldn't hold it myself.
I got the bank to check the ATM for when he withdraw the money, but they couldn't ID him because he hid behind an umbrella. But I knew it was him.

Later he revealed that he had a drug problem (marijuana) and was also seeing this other girl and sleeping with her. I know cos she told me. So I don't really trust anyone esp anyone who's from Christchurch and wants to get with an Auckland girl.
 
He also had a restraining order.
I had no idea, because he didn't tell me these things of course. And I didn't know any of his friends or family that could vouch for him.

Anyway, that's over now and why I don't do the online meet-a-random person dating thing anymore.
The last I heard of him he was in rehab and joined the Salvation Army.
 
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He also had a restraining order.
I had no idea, because he didn't tell me these things of course. And I didn't know any of his friends or family that could vouch for him.

Anyway, that's over now and why I don't do the online meet-a-random person dating thing anymore.
The last I heard of him he was in rehab and joined the Salvation Army.
This idiot will probably get a dishonorable discharge from the Salvation Army.
 
He also had a restraining order.
I had no idea, because he didn't tell me these things of course. And I didn't know any of his friends or family that could vouch for him.

Anyway, that's over now and why I don't do the online meet-a-random person dating thing anymore.
The last I heard of him he was in rehab and joined the Salvation Army.
I’m sorry. That’s terrible I didn’t know any of that. Some people are truly just liars and manipulators.
 
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He also had a restraining order.
I had no idea, because he didn't tell me these things of course. And I didn't know any of his friends or family that could vouch for him.

Anyway, that's over now and why I don't do the online meet-a-random person dating thing anymore.
The last I heard of him he was in rehab and joined the Salvation Army.

For the next guy, make sure you do a background check on him before you say "yes" to a date. No, I'm not kidding! 🧐


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Yea I'm like I am not going to give you $2000 today, just because you asked for it.
 
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What do you attribute your finding your match on CC to?
I attribute it to an act of God. Much prayer was said beforehand. God said that it was not good to be alone. Apparently, I took that to heart. God causing my path to cross with JesusLives was the best thing that ever happen to me.
 
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Why did Greta Garbo famously say 'I vant to be alone'? It's not good for a man to be alone true. But a woman needs to be left alone or the guys keep harassing her right?
I don't quite understand the rationale...Was there initially an imbalance in the ratio between the sexes or something. I mean according to the Bible, women don't count in the geneology unless they were prostitutes. It's all men.