I am not confusing anything, Lovette ... here is your question to which I replied (bold mine):Your argument confuses not knowing the exact wording of the Corinthians' original letter with being unable to identify the issues Paul addressed. In 1 Corinthians 7:1, Paul explicitly refers to their letter, and the rest of the chapter discusses sexual relations, celibacy, marriage, separation, mixed marriages, and remarriage. Although we cannot reconstruct every detail with certainty, these textual clues provide substantial evidence. Historical inference is not the same as baseless speculation.
I understand Paul was responding to specific matters the Corinthians had written about (1 Cor. 7:1). But what, specifically, were those matters?
my reply:
We don't know.
That you now want to change "what, specifically, were those matters?" to generally "the issues Paul addressed" supports my assertion that you engage in fallacy for reasons only God knows and of which He is fully aware.
Please provide the post submitted by me wherein I (or anyone else) claimed "everyone must marry".Proverbs 18:22 affirms the goodness of marriage; it does not establish that everyone must marry.
1 Corinthians 7:6-7 But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.Paul explicitly recognizes different gifts (1 Corinthians 7:7), recommends singleness (vv. 8, 26), and says marriage is not a sin (v. 28). He distinguishes what is permissible from what may be preferable. You cannot emphasize the goodness of marriage while ignoring Paul's equally explicit endorsement of singleness.
What Paul spoke "by permission, and not of commandment" was that Paul "would that all men were even as" he (unmarried).
You have indicated your "proper gift of God" is to remain single "after this manner" ... i.e. what Paul preferred, which was "not of commandment".
for others, their "proper gift of God" is to marry "after that manner" ... i.e. what God commanded all the way back in Genesis 1 and confirmed in Genesis 9.
I am not "ignoring" anything. I have already fully acknowledged that single or married is the "proper gift of God" ... have you done the same? ... have you allowed that being married is "proper gift of God" for some?
already discussedSecond Corinthians 6:14 and Exodus 34:12–16 concern avoiding spiritually compromising relationships; they do not command believers who are already married to unbelievers to divorce them. That is precisely why Paul addresses existing mixed marriages separately in 1 Corinthians 7:12–16. Instructions about entering a relationship do not automatically determine how an existing relationship should be handled.
As indicated previously ... it wasn't just Paul's preference ... Jesus also instructed not to "put away" the spouse. And Jesus made clear that Moses "suffered you to put away your wives" because of "the hardness of your hearts" (Matthew 19:3-8).Furthermore, Paul's preference for preserving marriage is not an absolute command to preserve it at all costs. In verses 10–11, he acknowledges the possibility of separation, and in verse 15, he instructs believers to let an unbelieving spouse depart. Whatever the implications for remarriage, Paul does not require believers to prevent abandonment at all costs.
And in verses 10-11, Paul's instruction is for the wife who departs to "remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife" ... clearly, Paul's emphasis was to have the marital relationship restored.
In verse 15, Paul tells the believing spouse that if the unbelieving spouse departs, let them depart. At that point, the believer is released. In a marriage, each spouse vows a vow ... sometimes the vow works to the hurt of the one who vowed but he or she still honors the vow out of reverence and respect to God before Whom the vow was made. The verse continues ... "God hath called us to peace" ... the abandoned spouse is not required to live in continuous conflict chasing after the departing spouse ... nor is the abandoned spouse required to remain in a relationship that no longer exists because the other spouse has departed.
We know from the text what Jesus was dealing with because Scripture tells us:Your own qualification that Jesus and Paul prohibited divorce “in the situations about which they were discussing” acknowledges that context matters. We cannot know every detail of the Corinthians' original letter, but we can identify the subjects Paul addresses and reasonably infer the concerns behind them. If you dispute a particular inference, demonstrate why the textual evidence does not support it. Simply labeling all reconstruction “pure supposition” does not refute the evidence.
Matthew 19:3 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
We do not know "the context" of the letter the Corinthian church wrote to Paul, even though we have the advice and counsel of Paul in response. For you to continue to claim you know because of what Paul wrote is speculation on your part.
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