Where to take a church girl out on a date to

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zeroturbulence said:
Disney..

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"...I must be living in a fantasy world."
 
Art84 said:
There's this girl at my church that is single and in her 30's like me. She's 31 years old and I want to ask to her out but not sure where to take her on a date to. At first I was thinking the movies but I really wouldn't want to see a chick flick and find the movies not be interesting as your sitting in the dark for 2 hours. I was thinking of taking her to a festival in April where I wan to see a rock concert with POD and Skillet performing for $20. This of course would mean I would need to buy 2 tickets then there's parking and food. The concert starts at 7:15 and P.O.D plays till 8:30 p.m. Skillet is the last band and plays at 9:30 till 11:00 p.m. I think a rock concert would be great as we would be out in public then you have your food vendors and rides, etc. The only thing is it might be over crowd as its' at a universality. I am just not sure how to ask this girl out on Sunday. I am not really good at talking to girls and we are both shy around each other.
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Yikes. You are a red flag. You should go where she would want to go- you're treating her, not yourself. I always tell my daughter it's a red flag when a guy's root focus is Himself. That she can tell by his compliments- if he always says you're pretty- he's thinking of how you look to him. But if he says things like you're smart, you're fun, you're good at certain things- then he cares about who you are as a person. A relationship based on looks don't last, because looks don't last.

Boys look for someone to take care of them, men look for someone to take care of.
Boys live off of others, men build homes.
Boys shack up, men get married.
Boys won't even take care of their own children, men will take care of their own and someone else's as if they were his own.

Gentlemen look to the good of their lady over the good of themselves. I don't see evidence of a gentleman in what I read. If you don't have patience for a movie, how will you have the patience to be a husband and father?

-just sayin
 
OneFaith,

Take it easy on him. If he doesn't know her well, he may not know what things she likes. He may want to go to the concert anyway, and is thinking of taking her. Why would he schedule a date that he knows he won't enjoy. It's better to choose something they both like.

I think getting to know the other person should be the priority, rather than the fun activity.
 
A dark alley would be suffice.

Ha, jk. Try to get her interests involved in your date. I think the only guy that really took my interests and planned a date surrounding all those interests was several years ago.
 
Being too romantic on a first date could show a lack of consideration and love. If he found out everything she liked and set up a first date to play her heart strings, and she fell in love with him by the end of the first date, but he decided by the end of the first date that they weren't compatible and that he would move on to someone else, he might break her heart. He should focus on their getting to know each other a little bit, IMO, or on breaking the ice if that is a big issue. A light entertaining activity might break the ice.
 
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