Why do christian women want only tall guys?

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seoulsearch

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Don't you mean plenty of hair in( Tempted to post a pic of my leg hair as an example but I won't)
Girl!

If you wanted me to leave the forum, all you had to do was ask!

No need to take such drastic measures, honest. 😳🤣🤪
 

Karlon

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women desire tall men in a psychological way also. it is conditioned & ingrained in women that men are protectors of women in family, feud, fun & all else. women know that almost all men are tougher than women so that fits the equation for women wanting to feel secure in being protected. it helps them with a "supportive" attitude in how they treat men. & by course, there ind the worldly "looks" category: a beautiful woman walks into a restaurant with her tall man & what happens; people look! the whole spiritual, mental & physical characteristics embellish a woman's desire for a tall man.
 
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George0115

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Or they could want a tall guy for another reason lol. Just sayin.
 
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Holy crap, this again?

If you can't find a date, move on and do something else. Life is too short to sit around crying all the time.

And if you think men are not shallow, go back and read some of your own posts. You should be doing something with your life instead of whining on a forum interminably.
im not shallow, i would accept a woman who is 2m and have no hair and is toothless
 
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women desire tall men in a psychological way also. it is conditioned & ingrained in women that men are protectors of women in family, feud, fun & all else. women know that almost all men are tougher than women so that fits the equation for women wanting to feel secure in being protected. it helps them with a "supportive" attitude in how they treat men. & by course, there ind the worldly "looks" category: a beautiful woman walks into a restaurant with her tall man & what happens; people look! the whole spiritual, mental & physical characteristics embellish a woman's desire for a tall man.
yes and this is why short men will never get married, wont dont want them
 

HealthAndHappiness

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yes and this is why short men will never get married, wont dont want them
One of my former martial art and fitness students is a teacher in Parks and Recreation. He's short, married one of his significantly taller students of around 40 year gap. They have children and are happily married. Most would think she is quite pretty too. I doubt if either one of them cares what others might think about their hight difference or any other. They are married and friends with each other, not living to please the immature 7th graders that might raise an eyebrow.
 
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Your attitude is enough to produce that effect. None of us have needed to see you. Which means that you could look like the hottest Hollywood actor and you'd still be unattractive to a lot of ladies simply due to your attitude. No one wants to be around a constantly negative and accusatory person.

Why don't you do something awesome and positive with your life instead of obsessing over what you don't have?
its not something i can stop caring about just like that, there is no off-switch. its in my biology to not want to be single my whole life. why did God give me desires to have a wife, when i never will get one? it makes zero sense.
 
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Proof of you dating the 2m, bald, toothless woman you said you would accept in post #44.
i would date her. but i dont think she would like showing pics of her online behind her back. i must ask her for approval. but its not like a woman like that would want to date me anyways, even women like that want a guy who is handsome and tall
 

HopeinHim98

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its not something i can stop caring about just like that, there is no off-switch. its in my biology to not want to be single my whole life. why did God give me desires to have a wife, when i never will get one? it makes zero sense.
6 feet is not short.

And even if it is to "most" women, do you want a woman who cares about that so much?
 
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One of my former martial art and fitness students is a teacher in Parks and Recreation. He's short, married one of his significantly taller students of around 40 year gap. They have children and are happily married. Most would think she is quite pretty too. I doubt if either one of them cares what others might think about their hight difference or any other. They are married and friends with each other, not living to please the immature 7th graders that might raise an eyebrow.
yes but its very very rare. 99 % of all women want a guy who is 190 cm
 

seoulsearch

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i would date her. but i dont think she would like showing pics of her online behind her back. i must ask her for approval. but its not like a woman like that would want to date me anyways, even women like that want a guy who is handsome and tall
That's the most ironic thing of all.

You think women reject you over looks and height - and some might.

But if you hold the same attitude of stereotyping and accusing all women of being shallow for not dating you in real life, I can pretty much guarantee you that yes, you will always be alone.

The assumptions you keep going on about are a giant red flag to run away screaming right off the bat.

And if you feel you can't or won't change, you might as well prepare yourself for that life of solitude.

How can you expect to attract anyone with such an unattractive frame of mind?
 

HopeinHim98

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maybe not puke, but you would think im very ugly. objective ugly means being very ugly in everyones eyes
"Some people are pretty on the inside and ugly on the outside,
Some people are ugly on the inside and pretty on the outside,
And others are ugly both inside and out!"

(to quote a former coworker)