You are disinterested

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arwen7 said:
hahaha this chick? most people on here know this chick enough to know thats not who I am
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This is funny.....I should probably keep my married backend out of the singles forum. :D I don't even know when a joke is being made anymore. (Pls don't attribute that to marriage :p) Go Singles!!
 
arwen7 said:
Hi, I'm Arwen. I'm a 29 year old female and the proud owner of 5 cats whom I've named after characters from LOTR. Some people think that I am possessive, but I think I just love strongly. I will check to make sure that you are not cheating on me. I know I've been dating you for two months, but I'm pretty sure you are my soul mate. In fact, now that you are in my life, I don't see how I could live without you. I know you're not THAT good looking, not like some of your friends, but dating you is proof that I'm not shallow. When we marry, you will not be allowed to be friends with any girls, I will allow you to go out with the guys one night a week though, after I know exactly where you will be. I will keep tabs. Sex will only be allowed twice a year, on our anniversary and valentines day... if I don't have a headache. You better be able to provide for my needs and treat me right. You should be grateful that you have a woman like me.
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Oh arwen7, I'm in awe; you are too funny! Man, I wish I was as funny as you! Hey everyone, arwen7 is a quality girl, just putting it out there. Her wit is incomparable, not to mention her humility!
 
arwen83 said:
Oh arwen7, I'm in awe; you are too funny! Man, I wish I was as funny as you! Hey everyone, arwen7 is a quality girl, just putting it out there. Her wit is incomparable, not to mention her humility!
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I was hoping that you and her were the same person. I miss Arwen7. :( No offense, Arwen83.
 
Some man somewhere is going down his checklist and ending in saying "yup, she fits the bill."
 
arwen7 said:
Hi, I'm Arwen. I'm a 29 year old female and the proud owner of 5 cats whom I've named after characters from LOTR. Some people think that I am possessive, but I think I just love strongly. I will check to make sure that you are not cheating on me. I know I've been dating you for two months, but I'm pretty sure you are my soul mate. In fact, now that you are in my life, I don't see how I could live without you. I know you're not THAT good looking, not like some of your friends, but dating you is proof that I'm not shallow. When we marry, you will not be allowed to be friends with any girls, I will allow you to go out with the guys one night a week though, after I know exactly where you will be. I will keep tabs. Sex will only be allowed twice a year, on our anniversary and valentines day... if I don't have a headache. You better be able to provide for my needs and treat me right. You should be grateful that you have a woman like me.
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...and the even sadder part is that there are couples who actually live this way...

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There is no checklist, qualification, beauty, intelligence, wisdom or wealth, that can add up to all that simply falling in love accomplishes.

No matter how high and dry the wood is piled, without a spark there will be no fire, simply potential.

If this character were to actually get married, I'm not sure it would have anything to do with love.

Love does not ask, it believes all things.
Love does not seek out darkness, it hopes all things.
Love does not fight, it endures all things.

I don't think Love cares about the appearance of things. It simply is.Similarly Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen. Its appearance is unnecessary, only its persistence.

The strange intimacy schedule is telling of a deeper issue. Perhaps there is a wound that needs healing and has not been addressed properly (5 cats) leading her to keep emotional/sexual intimacy at arms length, due to the fear of getting hurt during any feeling of vulnerability. Such deeply rooted guarded mistrust, is desperately hard to overcome, but with help, even this person can experience a healthy life long intimate relationship/marriage.
 
Liamson said:
The strange intimacy schedule is telling of a deeper issue. Perhaps there is a wound that needs healing and has not been addressed properly (5 cats) leading her to keep emotional/sexual intimacy at arms length, due to the fear of getting hurt during any feeling of vulnerability. Such deeply rooted guarded mistrust, is desperately hard to overcome, but with help, even this person can experience a healthy life long intimate relationship/marriage.
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Nice psychoanalysis :p
 
Liamson said:
I don't think Love cares about the appearance of things. It simply is.Similarly Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen. Its appearance is unnecessary, only its persistence.
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I'm going to be honest with you, I do agree with what you say, but I firmly believe that God has no intention of having us falling in love and spending our lives with someone we have no physical attraction too. I don't mean that to sound shallow or anything like that, it just seems common sense to me.
 
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