Only Believe (and stop the negative)

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psychomom

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However, there are times we pray with the attitude that God may or may not answer my request and that request is filled with doubt and unbelief, with no humility and it is being double-minded.
Here's what I think you fail to see...
if someone asks God for something, acknowledging that He is God and they are not...
that His plans and purposes and thoughts are largely mysterious to us...

That's not double-mindedness. That is humility.

You make God waaaay too small, Red.
 
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psychomom

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Oh, and also, if you have figured out how to know the mind of God; to know what His thoughts and plans and purposes are,
don't you think it would be kind to pass that along?
 
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Abiding

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Red Jesus prayed 3 times to have the cup taken from Him.
Paul prayed 3 times also
When we pray at least some of us, that the will of the Lord be done.....it is not doubting or doubleminded at all period.
God is not playing some game with us.
Faith is honoring Him for who He is and what He wills ...not a physical/mental/brainwash excercise.
 

loveme1

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A child may ask his mum for peanuts and the mum knows ahead of time her child is allergic.....

We will get what we need which is not always what we want, yet trusting Heavenly Father is Faithful and True and Good all the time.. even if i'm sick he is Good and Loves me.

Each journey home encounters different experiences.

Matthew 6

And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward. 6But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.

7But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking. 8Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.
 
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psychomom

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A child may ask his mum for peanuts and the mum knows ahead of time her child is allergic.....

We will get what we need which is not always what we want, yet trusting Heavenly Father is Faithful and True and Good all the time.. even if i'm sick he is Good and Loves me.

Each journey home encounters different experiences.

Matthew 6
Thanks, loveme1. :)

I was just thinking of those very words. ♥
 
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I like what you said, and I agree fully.

But what of those believers who live in a place where this is not even an option?
(we have friends who work as missionaries in very remote areas of the world.)

What about the members of Christ's body who have no access to clean water, balanced nutrition, and toothbrushes and showers? :)

Will the Lord condemn them?
(silly idea, right?) :)
When a believer is under chastizement from God, we don't pray for them to be healed from God's affliction, we discern and if we are lead to pray, we pray in the Spirit that God will finish His course with them and restore them back to fellowship, because that is the fruit and hope of God's chastening.

Do we have (Ps 91) as a promise from God for those who abide under the shadow of the Almighty? Read the Psalm and see the protection of the believer and that would be good from any demographic, poor or rich, deprived or robust, civilized or not. What does it mean to really abide under the shadow of the Almighty, to have that protection that has been promised? We have to go and seek that out and then take God up on His promise, knowing by faith, with no doubt, that He is faithful to what He has promised. Faith is not presumptuous because it rests in the promise of God who will bring it to past.
 
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Abiding

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Of coarse we trust in His promises.
Make sure you understand what is promised. And what is not.
And when.
 
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Red Jesus prayed 3 times to have the cup taken from Him.
Paul prayed 3 times also
When we pray at least some of us, that the will of the Lord be done.....it is not doubting or doubleminded at all period.
God is not playing some game with us.
Faith is honoring Him for who He is and what He wills ...not a physical/mental/brainwash excercise.
When our Lord prayed to the Father at this time in His life, great thick drops of blood was coming from His pours because of all the demonic pressure that was upon Him causing this tremendous grief of sorrow and of being exceedingly heavy (or troubled with distress in His humanity) to the point of death (which would have been premature of the cross). There are two things that you have to consider in His request to the Father that revealed His heart and the focus He had upon the mission for why He came (Mt 26:37-45)...

(v.39) ...if it be possible let this cup pass from me, but nevertheless not my will be done but thine.

After the third time the cup had past and they came to betray Him in (v.46ff). This cup was a cup of great atmospheric pressure upon His body to kill Him premature of the cross so that He could not be able to shed His blood and deal with the sins of man before the Father. It was a great temptation that came upon the flesh of His humanity, almost too much to bare, but it did past and the Father did let it pass from Him because if not, then he would not have been able to be betrayed and make it to the cross as the Lamb of God. If don't see that the cup had past, then you have a problem.

Paul had a thorn in his flesh that constantly buffeted and beat him up, a demon and messenger of Satan. In this case it was most unbearable and Paul wanted it taken away because he had no power over it. But God left it for a season, so that Paul would learn how to receive grace and have that grace be his sufficiency for his weakness in the will of God. He prayed to God for himself in relationship to this nagging minister of Satan and God worked grace into his life personally, a fellowship with His sufferings, like the Lord suffered in the garden when He bore that cup.

grrrrrr - are you angry with me and are you going to charge me of handling the word of God deceitfully?
 
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Thanks, loveme1. :)

I was just thinking of those very words. ♥
Concerning God's chidren that may just fall under this application...

Jm 4:2,3

2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.
3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.

Would any of you like to interpret the meaning given here above by a Jewish man named James?

And how would you come to an understanding concerning this...

Mt 7:7-11

7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
9 Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
10 Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
11 If ye then, being evil (poneros), know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?

Interesting passage, is it not? Where is the practicality and application for this passage that has come from the lips of our Lord Jesus Christ? Marvel!
 

loveme1

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Concerning God's chidren that may just fall under this application...

Jm 4:2,3

2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.
3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.

Would any of you like to interpret the meaning given here above by a Jewish man named James?

And how would you come to an understanding concerning this...

Mt 7:7-11

7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
9 Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
10 Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
11 If ye then, being evil (poneros), know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?

Interesting passage, is it not? Where is the practicality and application for this passage that has come from the lips of our Lord Jesus Christ? Marvel!

I would consider the Messiah teaching us patience with Prayer.. not to keep asking over and over for he knew before you asked.

Not sure why you would put the word against the word though.... could understand if i had just made it up myself....
 
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Abiding

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When our Lord prayed to the Father at this time in His life, great thick drops of blood was coming from His pours because of all the demonic pressure that was upon Him causing this tremendous grief of sorrow and of being exceedingly heavy (or troubled with distress in His humanity) to the point of death (which would have been premature of the cross). There are two things that you have to consider in His request to the Father that revealed His heart and the focus He had upon the mission for why He came (Mt 26:37-45)...

(v.39) ...if it be possible let this cup pass from me, but nevertheless not my will be done but thine.

After the third time the cup had past and they came to betray Him in (v.46ff). This cup was a cup of great atmospheric pressure upon His body to kill Him premature of the cross so that He could not be able to shed His blood and deal with the sins of man before the Father. It was a great temptation that came upon the flesh of His humanity, almost too much to bare, but it did past and the Father did let it pass from Him because if not, then he would not have been able to be betrayed and make it to the cross as the Lamb of God. If don't see that the cup had past, then you have a problem.

Paul had a thorn in his flesh that constantly buffeted and beat him up, a demon and messenger of Satan. In this case it was most unbearable and Paul wanted it taken away because he had no power over it. But God left it for a season, so that Paul would learn how to receive grace and have that grace be his sufficiency for his weakness in the will of God. He prayed to God for himself in relationship to this nagging minister of Satan and God worked grace into his life personally, a fellowship with His sufferings, like the Lord suffered in the garden when He bore that cup.

grrrrrr - are you angry with me and are you going to charge me of handling the word of God deceitfully?

No Red, not angry. But we have need to see the whole council of God in these doctrines.
Yes i agree when im sick i go to the Lord and surely in faith i make my request to me healed.
That we can teach. But there are other dynamics. Some we dont know.

The Father just didnt leave Pauls thorn...He sent it. Jesus simply was facing death, all I was
pointing out there was a rebutal to you while you were saying we cant pray having any
doubt to receive what we ask for.....that is wrong Jesus was perfect and He received a big
NO! If praying in faith as you were saying was any guarantee for getting what we want then Jesus
would have received what He requested.

But as He said that a servant will never rise above his master....i will follow His lead
and example and pray "thy will be done"
 

loveme1

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James 4


4 From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?

2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.

3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.

4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy?

6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.

7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.

9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness.

10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.

11 Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge.

12 There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy: who art thou that judgest another?

13 Go to now, ye that say, To day or to morrow we will go into such a city, and continue there a year, and buy and sell, and get gain:

14 Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.

15 For that ye ought to say, If the Lord will, we shall live, and do this, or that.

16 But now ye rejoice in your boastings: all such rejoicing is evil.

17 Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.

I would say this teaches well against the prosperity Gospel...
 
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psychomom

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I am openly admitting that there have been times in the past when I did wonder if I was being presumptuous.
It was definitely a struggle, for a while.
So I have to agree on that point. :)

But what do we do with this?

When He got into the boat, His disciples followed Him.
And behold, there arose a great storm on the sea, so that the boat was being covered with the waves; but Jesus Himself was asleep.
And they came to Him and woke Him, saying, “Save us, Lord; we are perishing!”
He said to them, “Why are you afraid, you men of little faith?” Then He got up and rebuked the winds and the sea, and it became perfectly calm.
The men were amazed, and said, “What kind of a man is this, that even the winds and the sea obey Him?”

Do you see what I mean?
There was no faith there to be 'acted upon', yet the Lord knew His plan and purpose, and He did what was best...

Do you see how there's more than one way to see this issue?
(I'm pleading with you, now ♥)

Of course, faith is what pleases God. :)
But where does it come from?
Is it a gift from God?
Is each person given a 'measure' of it?
That's what I can't understand...
It increases, naturally. (and it increases naturally :) )

I don't want to quarrel, and I do want us to be friends.
I have been so blessed by what you share.
Please don't let this cause a rift?

♥


 

loveme1

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You know what the time will come when he will:

Revelation 21

And I saw a new heaven and a new earth: for the first heaven and the first earth were passed away; and there was no more sea. 2And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. 3And I heard a great voice out of heaven saying, Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God. 4And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.

Until then let us worship him in Spirit and Truth and Trust in him always and forever.
 
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psychomom

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Concerning God's chidren that may just fall under this application...

Jm 4:2,3

2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.
3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.

Would any of you like to interpret the meaning given here above by a Jewish man named James?

And how would you come to an understanding concerning this...

Mt 7:7-11

7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
9 Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
10 Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
11 If ye then, being evil (poneros), know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?

Interesting passage, is it not? Where is the practicality and application for this passage that has come from the lips of our Lord Jesus Christ? Marvel!
Well...this is just my understanding, but
if my son asked me not to make him do the dishes when it was his turn,
and I always did that, would that make me a good mom?

Does a good gift from the hand of God always have to appear good to me?
If the Lord had ever given me absolutely everything I wanted, I'd be in bad shape.
Because I was too young to know what was best for me.
(still am, in many ways)

I think I just must be less...good than you are?
(I mean that in all sincerity, and no harm or sarcasm intended.)
It seems you've already discerned that, anyway. :)

So, if the Lord has to give me things I don't like to help me,
to cause me to seek His face, and not His hand,
I am incredibly grateful for it.

I just want to grow up to look like my Dad. :)
 
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Abiding

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When our Lord prayed to the Father at this time in His life, great thick drops of blood was coming from His pours because of all the demonic pressure that was upon Him causing this tremendous grief of sorrow and of being exceedingly heavy (or troubled with distress in His humanity) to the point of death (which would have been premature of the cross). There are two things that you have to consider in His request to the Father that revealed His heart and the focus He had upon the mission for why He came (Mt 26:37-45)...

(v.39) ...if it be possible let this cup pass from me, but nevertheless not my will be done but thine.

After the third time the cup had past and they came to betray Him in (v.46ff). This cup was a cup of great atmospheric pressure upon His body to kill Him premature of the cross so that He could not be able to shed His blood and deal with the sins of man before the Father. It was a great temptation that came upon the flesh of His humanity, almost too much to bare, but it did past and the Father did let it pass from Him because if not, then he would not have been able to be betrayed and make it to the cross as the Lamb of God. If don't see that the cup had past, then you have a problem.

Paul had a thorn in his flesh that constantly buffeted and beat him up, a demon and messenger of Satan. In this case it was most unbearable and Paul wanted it taken away because he had no power over it. But God left it for a season, so that Paul would learn how to receive grace and have that grace be his sufficiency for his weakness in the will of God. He prayed to God for himself in relationship to this nagging minister of Satan and God worked grace into his life personally, a fellowship with His sufferings, like the Lord suffered in the garden when He bore that cup.

grrrrrr - are you angry with me and are you going to charge me of handling the word of God deceitfully?
Posts like this are really impossible to respond to. Most of it is a fairy tail, and nowhere to be
found in scripture and in doing that misses the intent of the passage, along with the implications
and applications.
 
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lesjude

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With all due respect, I disagree with you.
You are disagreeing with God and His word, not me.
The Lord is our Great Physician and still performs healing miracles however experience has shown that not everyone who prays, even Christians, will receive healing. Will you now conclude that they lack faith or are not under the covenant of God? If everyone with faith will be healed then no Christian with faith would ever die.
Now you multiply your sin by changing God's clear word based on carnal experience.
No, they just do not understand God's covenant of healing with His saints. Please click on the link and read why Christians fail to receive healing: http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/53578-why-many-fail-receive-healing.html
Some will not die and 2 already did not. However most will but they do not have to die sick. Moses and Aaron did not. A gentle transition to be with Jesus is quite possible. Be it to you according to your faith.

I bet you'll call God a tyrant whenever you don't receive healing. As for me, I will praise Him regardless, I will recognize the work He is doing in my life, I will thank Him for His sustaining grace, my salvation, the air I breathe, the food, clothing, shelter, friends and family, and everything else He provides.
The prayer of faith ALWAYS receives healing, Mark 11:24. We have for 35 years raising 7 children to adulthood.
He provides healing as well. He did a work in us by training us to trust Him alone for healing. He started with me healing severe burns instantly and healing our children. Then we learned to trust Him even when nothing looked better and even got worse while time went by, sometimes quite a bit of time. Read Hebrews 11:1 and then read Mark 11:24 noting the tenses. He will do the same for anyone who will submit to the training. It seems most will not. How about you?


I am not surprised that you made such conclusion that Paul’s thorn was not a physical illness because according to your premise any Christian that does not receive healing is faithless or perhaps unsaved and course you wouldn’t want to put Paul in that category. Did Job lack faith? Why did God not heal him right away? If God failed to answer King Hezekiah’s prayer would He have become a tyrant? Why was Epaphroditus at the point of death before God showed mercy? What stopped God from healing him the very moment he became sick?
Job was involved in the highest form of spiritual warfare which is explained in chapters 1 and 2. Most Christians would NEVER trust God alone in a trial one tenth as severe even though they have 66 books, the Acts 2:4 experience, the word, name and blood of Jesus, the armor of God and more. Job trusted God alone right to death's door, Satan was proven wrong, Job's friends received a lesson, and Job was healed and restored.
I have no doubt that Paul had physical trials but nowhere does it say he was not healed. The thorn was not sickness but a demon personality sent to buffet him i.e. persecution.
Here is the purpose of trials that some time may passes before what is received by faith is manifested to our sight. This includes fiances like a new vehicle WITHOUT going into debt, physical trails, persecution. Faith receives the answer and waits in faith until it comes. It does.
James 1:2-4

New King James Version (NKJV)

Profiting from Trials

2 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4 But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.



1 Peter 1:6-7

New King James Version (NKJV)

6 In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials, 7 that the genuineness of your faith, being much more precious than gold that perishes, though it is tested by fire, may be found to praise, honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ,


So God can never permit infirmity to display His glory, eh? What about this:
John 9:1-3
1 And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth.
2 And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this man, or his parents, that he was born blind?
3 Jesus answered, Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him.


John 11:4- When Jesus heard that, he said, This sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God might be glorified thereby.
God displayed His glory in each instance by the healing/dead raising not the illness/death. If someone dies today there is not one Christian in 10,000 that would pray for him to be raised. 0 people prayed for equals 0 people raised. We have seen it 3 times, but also failures. How about you?

Some people are not healed because they are under chastening for disobedience or under a test.
Some may be reaping what they sowed. If you sow bad eating habits, bad hygiene, etc, you will reap bad health.
http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/53578-why-many-fail-receive-healing.html Please read this.
God does not play mind games and will clearly show what the issues are and give GRACE to change them and endure in FAITH trusting Him alone until the answer is manifested. Most just assume He does not care, not is His will, or does not hear them, so why bother seeking Him for the reasons.
Wrong thinking!
We shouldn't just sit there in despair but pray to God for healing however we should also be
aware that not everyone with faith will be healed
or healing will be delayed. Also, some people's healing is God calling them home. God is sovereign over every creature and knows what's best.:)
You are calling God a liar AGAIN! STOP IT!!! No, at death the body dies, is buried, and healing is no longer needed. Death is death not healing.
 

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We have to look at other instances: John the baptist was beheaded only because he had served his purpose. Stephens mission was
accomplished and he was stoned to death, not to mention the other apostles.
 
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hopesprings

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First, don't get me confused with what others have said on this subject because it is easy to do. I will clarify this, I have never said that it is stated in the scriptures that God has promised to heal or give us everything we ask for.
I apologize Red, for lumping you in with lesjude...it was wrong of me to assume that...please forgive me :eek: So...are you saying that there is no promise of guaranteed physical healing (in this life)?


Has there ever been a time when doubt, skepticism, wavering, double-mindedness or unbelief has ever pleased God in any way? If so, please take the time and show me.
i can't think of a time when any of these things pleased God. but i was never referring to any of these things as a justifiable excuse for one not being healed. i just don't think God HAS to do anything, including healing us of our physical ailments. He promised to mold us into the image of His Son...and if He chooses to use a physical ailment to do that, then that is entirely His choice and He knows best. Besides, some physical trials help purge us of the above mentioned list that you provided.

Faith pleases God and a pure faith is one that does not have the leaven of these other things infecting it. If we have come to a place where we consider it to be an evil thing to believe and expect God to give us what we have asked and petitioned without wavering or staggering as a drunkard, then our faith has been leavened and our expectation of Him is not of faith. Some of us are most definitely going to have a problem with that because we already have for a long time.

The only 'problem' that I have with your statement is where you say that we can expect God to give us what we have petitioned...it seems that there is a stipulation there that He must answer us in the way that we deem necessary. If that is what you are saying, then I don't agree with that at all. If I get sick and pray to be restored...am I only praying for physical restoration, or is my hearts desire to experience spiritually healing, to be made more like Christ? My body may not experience this 'restoration' that I have prayed for, but my spirit has, and quite honestly, when I go to be with the Lord, He will have answered my prayer...I will be restored. Like I said, this happens all the time...and I do agree with you that sometimes, probably more then we care to admit, people can experience healing yet don't, because of unbelief. Lord I believe, help me with my unbelief. We cannot turn a blind eye to the stuff that happens around us, pretending that we have all the answers and know God's will in each person's life. We should pray that those who are sick among us, are healed by God. We should pray it AND we should believe it. We also have to recognize that sometimes that healing may come in a way that we didn't expect...and that, even IF God says 'no' to a physical healing, He will still provide the real healing that our souls crave. I would just like to mention (and this isn't specifically for you Red) that Jesus never dealt with the superficial ailments that people had...He was always dealing with something deeper.