I've read all of these posts, & most of them are true about finding a "christian" boyfriend/girlfriend. There are many singles in the church that are messed-up-from-the floor-up. But it's not just singles. It's plumb near impossible just to find a friend in church to go fishing with, let alone find that special someone.
Speaking of messed-up-from-the floor-up, STAY AWAY from the Biffs & Courtneys. They're no different than rock stars & their groupies in the world, except they are very christianese. They're into the same sins.
2 Timothy 3:1-7 (KJV) [SUP]1 [/SUP]This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. [SUP]2 [/SUP]For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, [SUP]3 [/SUP]Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, [SUP]4 [/SUP]Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; [SUP]5 [/SUP]Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. [SUP]6[/SUP]For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, [SUP]7 [/SUP]Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
Silly - weak, foolish
*They will lead away weak men also.
Those "houses" in today's society are church houses as well as homes.
Those Biffs & Courtneys are in the church for one thing, & it's not God. Satan uses them to steal souls.
In all honesty, I'm telling you if I were in your position today with what I've learned the hard way, I would fast & pray for a soulmate & if I couldn't find one, I'd get fixed. That sounds rough I know, but know this: times are going to get worse.
Matthew 24:24 (KJV) [SUP]24 [/SUP]For there shall arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders; insomuch that, if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect.
This isn't what we always what we think it is. Not just the big leaders at the top of the leadership chain......... but those like Biff, with charisma & charm, wooing the elect while performing on the church stage. And like Courtney, leading others to be popular like them & that it's ok to go hunting for Biffs in church.