I spend most of my days working around atheists... and a few of them are good friends. I get to communicate Christ often to them in a very mutual and respectful manner in the course of a week, or a month whenever the opportunity presents itself...Living in a marine environment (that has 90% of the men here being from very hard backgrounds, and put up with no BS what so ever), us Christians are a minority (and also the Christians here are just as hard edged) so getting along is imperative... My pier is known as the God dock, because we have several Christian boats here that house Christians on them, and the Atheists here (which are the majority) call it The God Dock with a friendly timber in their voices, not discourse... MY POINT is this, a loving respectful heart isn't just found in a Christians chest...Having said that...Ministering is something we do with atheists, and agnostics, not Christians, they already know Christ, well, hopefully anyway...how could I do that if I felt discourse in my heart for them?...The idea that Christians can take a stand against them contradicts what Christ teaches, (and yes I am aware that we are to shake the dust off our feet when its time). Where is the Love in condemnation? How can you bring someone to Christ with hate? Spreading the Word means dealing with non believers, not fellow believers...Christianity's not a self-service station...I was a foul minded, hot tempered thug that needed Christ in the worst way, if Christians turned their backs on me, where would I be? This is our Job, to Love our brothers, and bring the light of Christ to them...It can sometimes take years to bring a man to Christ...Cant do it with discourse brothers...