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Angela53510

Huh?

First you say:
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I was in Arminian or "free choice" churches the first 15 years I was saved.


Then you say:
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I gave up the Arminian heresy,
How can one be saved following a heretical teaching?
 
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p_rehbein

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Because this person posted three different threads on this subject on two different Forums.......to assure that my friends that I am speaking with see my comments, I am having to post my comments on multiple threads........sorry.......but I believe it necessary.............anyway...........

Look at Scripture............

Romans 8:29) For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
30 .) Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.
31 .) What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?
32 .) He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?
33 .) Who shall lay any thing to the charge of God's elect? It is God that justifieth.
34 .) Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.
35 .) Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?
36 .) As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.
37 .) Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
38 .) For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
39 .) Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.


So, a couple of questions.............1) Do people fully understand the concept of "for whom he did foreknow?" 2) If predestination is Biblical certainty, why, pray tell, is Jesus Christ at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.................

Why are those who from the beginning were "predestined" to salvation/eternal life IN NEED of an intercessor?

(just FYI............. :) )
 

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Refer you to "Comment # 106, this thread, first sentence............."

And, not for nothing, but IF posting the Word of God is NEVER a GOOD IDEA, then what purpose does the Word of God

I would certainly hope you by this time in your life know what Eisegesis is and that you can use verses out of context to create damaging results.

Uh, ok, so IF YOU deem a Scripture to be quoted "out of context" then it is so! Is that about right? Goodness............

Sister Angela asked for Scriptures used to support "free will." I provided them. You disagree that they support free will?

Well, goodness, as YOU disagree, then it must needs be that I am completely wrong, and a horrible person, suffering from an incessant desire to delve into Eisegesis behavior............gee, thanks for your correction...........
Eisegesis or elephantitis behavior? :)
 
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Refer you to "Comment # 106, this thread, first sentence............."

And, not for nothing, but IF posting the Word of God is NEVER a GOOD IDEA, then what purpose does the Word of God

I would certainly hope you by this time in your life know what Eisegesis is and that you can use verses out of context to create damaging results.

Uh, ok, so IF YOU deem a Scripture to be quoted "out of context" then it is so! Is that about right? Goodness............

Sister Angela asked for Scriptures used to support "free will." I provided them. You disagree that they support free will?

Well, goodness, as YOU disagree, then it must needs be that I am completely wrong, and a horrible person, suffering from an incessant desire to delve into Eisegesis behavior............gee, thanks for your correction...........

I would have to find the context in verse, chapter, book, testament, Bible

Calm down, if it struck a nerve, and you are replying in a childish manner, that's something completely different - i know when I reply immaturely which do sometimes, I am using emotionally charged language like this, there is usually something more going on in me. I can't say that for you, you have to solve that between you and the Lord

I just know that scripture isn't for private interpretation, and that it transcends my feelings in the moment.

I also know that even in saying that - Holy Spirit goads me for the silly things I do, and act on based on feelings in the moment, and that there might be things in scripture that I eiseget - i don't know the proper spelling in my own life based on my feelings rather than truth
 
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2Thewaters

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This is a topic brought about by confusion of the meanings of words in the BIBLE

there is no eternal security for you while you keep sinning
and you have not been predestined to be saved or lost

that is not tin the Bible

read the Bible
everyone chooses

Josh 24:15 choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.


WE CHOOSE GOD

ohterwise the whole Bible becones nonsense
read genesis to revelation

ignore philospher liars who twist two bible texts out of contet to throw away HUNDREDS OF BIBLE VERSES that tell us to struggle fight and choose the way of righteousness,

and even when they make a mistake and reject God

he keeps sending prophets one after another

to get us to repent and dchoose the right

whole topic is silly

go home
read your Bible

and when you hear anyone say
once saved always save or you have been predestined

just ignore them and go read the truth

no where in my bible does it say

IT DOESNT MATTER HOW YOU LIVE GOOD OR BAD ITS WHAT YOU CLAIM to be!

that is totally crazy
cant anyone see how crazy that is?

It does not matter if you live like the devil do right or wrong
its just claiming to be good that counts?

if our courts went that crazy wasy no one would ever be put in jail and your family would have been all raped long ago

it DOES MATTER HOW YOU LIVE it DOES NOT MATTER WHAT YOU SAY OR CLAIM

get real here.

WHAT YOU DO OR SAY YOU WILL BE SAVED OR LOST ANYWAY

that is just anti-Biblical
anti
word of God

and revelation says christ is the word of God
 
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2Thewaters

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Some of the most evil criminal people I ever met claimed to be saved
they are satans best tools to make people lost,
no one repents and changes when they hear this false doctrine, and they will be lost
whoever teaches this stuff will be held accountable for all the sould lost plus their own sins plus sins they are ministers of unrighteouness all their punishment is twice multiplied

a fearful thing to teach the false gospel.
repnt
follow th Bible
change your life or you WILL BE LOST
that is the facts in the word of god

how many HUNDREDS OF VERSES DO YOU WANT?

"Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent." -Revelation 2:5.


"Repent; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will fight against them with the sword of my mouth." -Revelation 2:16.


"And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not." -Revelation 2:21.


"Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds." -Revelation 2:22.


"Remember therefore how thou hast received and heard, and hold fast, and repent. If therefore thou shalt not watch, I will come on thee as a thief, and thou shalt not know what hour I will come upon thee." -Revelation 3:3.


"As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent." -Revelation 3:19.

God told you to repent and change your life

over and over and over and over and over

and if you dont
you will only have your self to blame.

go home and read your Bible with prayer
 

SolidGround

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People can not be objective completely, it is impossible to separate them from their own agenda's, bias, feelings, background, and iniquity(though freed in Christ)

We should probably ask questions of our own selves

Why do I stand so strongly on this view?
What experiences may have led me to believe this?
Am I putting on Scripture something I want to be true?
Is my view true to the overall of Scripture?
Is this a Major doctrine of Scripture that everyone has to believe - in this case No
Can I still argue this point and love the person - in my case usually not!


I would assume there is more questions, and these are hard to ask ourselves, as we like to fire then aim
This is great advice. These types of questions bring humility to the one asking them,
and bring us to confidence in God once we've been able to answer them.

It is impossible for humans to truly be objective in anything,
but "all things are possible with God".
 

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Some of the most evil criminal people I ever met claimed to be saved
they are satans best tools to make people lost,
no one repents and changes when they hear this false doctrine, and they will be lost
whoever teaches this stuff will be held accountable for all the sould lost plus their own sins plus sins they are ministers of unrighteouness all their punishment is twice multiplied
Assumes that people are criminals because of doctrine.
Assumes that the doctrine is false because an adherent is a criminal.
Both are a logical fallacy.

The form of the Bulverism fallacy can be expressed as follows:
You claim that A is true. Because of B, you personally desire that A should be true.Therefore, A is false.
or
You claim that A is false. Because of B, you personally desire that A should be false.Therefore, A is true.
 
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SolidGround

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Upon diagramming, I realized the intent of the argument falls more under the "slippery slope fallacy" rather than "Bulveric Fallacy".
The point was that accepting the doctrine of eternal security is accepting the most extreme version of that doctrine,
which is 'licence to sin'.
 

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Mark 10:27 New International Version
Jesus looked at them and said, "With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God."
 
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"Calvanism" Is it a label added to a doctrine we are scared of? A doctrine that may just be true? I'm not a Calvanist, but I do think there's some truth to the fact that God "Selects"
What are we going to create next "Titheism" "Prosperitism"?
 

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Angela53510

Huh?

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Then you say:

How can one be saved following a heretical teaching?
I was was saved by the grace and mercy of God. He called me BEFORE I ever stepped into a church.

i was deceived by the heresy of Arminianism when I attended a certain denomination. It paralyzed me, and I did not grow as a Christian, until I left that denomination, and started sitting under better teaching. But even more important, I started reading my Bible and God showed me the truth as I studied, came to understand the Word of God, and grew through the power of the Holy Spirit.

It is quite simple, really, if you don't get the time line in the wrong order!
 
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I was was saved by the grace and mercy of God. He called me BEFORE I ever stepped into a church.

i was deceived by the heresy of Arminianism when I attended a certain denomination. It paralyzed me, and I did not grow as a Christian, until I left that denomination, and started sitting under better teaching. But even more important, I started reading my Bible and God showed me the truth as I studied, came to understand the Word of God, and grew through the power of the Holy Spirit.

It is quite simple, really, if you don't get the time line in the wrong order!
First, there is no salvation outside the church, the body of Christ.

Secondly, can a person be "saved" while believing in something that is supposedly "heretical"?

Thirdly, was it your free will to change you mind in what you believed?
 
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Mark 10:27 New International Version
Jesus looked at them and said, "With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God."
Is it possible for God to lie, possible for God to break His promises?
 
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"Calvanism" Is it a label added to a doctrine we are scared of? A doctrine that may just be true? I'm not a Calvanist, but I do think there's some truth to the fact that God "Selects"
What are we going to create next "Titheism" "Prosperitism"?
I call it Calvinism for it is based upon the teachings men (John Calvin being a main one) and not based upon the gospel of Christ.

God pre-selected/foreknew/predestined a GROUP that would be called "Christian" but God never pre-selected/foreknew/predestined what individual would or would not b e in that group, each individual must decide that for him/herself.

So the bible teaches predestination (group) but not the Calvinistic idea of predestination (individual)
 
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Because this person posted three different threads on this subject on two different Forums.......to assure that my friends that I am speaking with see my comments, I am having to post my comments on multiple threads........sorry.......but I believe it necessary.............anyway...........

Look at Scripture............

Romans 8:29) For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
30 .) Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.
31 .) What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?
32 .) He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?
33 .) Who shall lay any thing to the charge of God's elect? It is God that justifieth.
34 .) Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.
35 .) Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?
36 .) As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.
37 .) Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
38 .) For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
39 .) Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.


So, a couple of questions.............1) Do people fully understand the concept of "for whom he did foreknow?" 2) If predestination is Biblical certainty, why, pray tell, is Jesus Christ at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.................

Why are those who from the beginning were "predestined" to salvation/eternal life IN NEED of an intercessor?

(just FYI............. :) )
I repeated this GREAT passage ,so others would read it again.! It is so clear, That all God's plan will be done, His purpose is to chose millions for salvation and NONE of them will be lost. Do YOU believe this? MY question to YOU is , what is your definition of "FOREKNEW"? Rom. 8:29 11:2 acts 2:23 1 Pet.1:2 ESV, R.C. Sproul, The Reformation Study Bible. I am reading this thread backwards, SO, If you answered my question before, PLEASE forgive my stupidity. To ME, it seems that you are mocking God's Election , because it is all based on God's foreknowing the persons actions, SO, foreknowledge to you would only mean "knowing beforehand". Is this true? FOR Me, I define "foreknew' as meaning "to LOVE before hand". I know my definition is not common to Reform thinking. But, I think it is more Biblical. WHY does Jesus pray for HIS elect? Please read page1627 Ref, Study Bible, "The regenerate are saved through persevering in faith and Christian living..." Love to all, Hoffco
 

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Mark 10:27 New International Version
Jesus looked at them and said, "With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God."
Is it possible for God to lie, possible for God to break His promises?
Only you can take a verse of Scripture and challenge it...who else would want to.
 
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Hoffco

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I was was saved by the grace and mercy of God. He called me BEFORE I ever stepped into a church.

i was deceived by the heresy of Arminianism when I attended a certain denomination. It paralyzed me, and I did not grow as a Christian, until I left that denomination, and started sitting under better teaching. But even more important, I started reading my Bible and God showed me the truth as I studied, came to understand the Word of God, and grew through the power of the Holy Spirit.

It is quite simple, really, if you don't get the time line in the wrong order!
GREAT testimony, THANKS. I was first deceived by the "free will" heresy, then God taught me His truth by my studying His word. Now, I know, God chose me in His LOVE First and then I chose God ,after He opened my heart to Jesus. Love Hoffco
 

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I call it Calvinism for it is based upon the teachings men (John Calvin being a main one) and not based upon the gospel of Christ.

God pre-selected/foreknew/predestined a GROUP that would be called "Christian" but God never pre-selected/foreknew/predestined what individual would or would not b e in that group, each individual must decide that for him/herself.

So the bible teaches predestination (group) but not the Calvinistic idea of predestination (individual)
Groups don't get saved, individuals do.


Acts 13:48 *And when the Gentiles heard this, they were glad, and glorified the word of the Lord: and as many as were ordained to eternal life believed.
 
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Only you can take a verse of Scripture and challenge it...who else would want to.
Just want to point out to Calvinists that the "all things" in the verse are all things within God's nature. Sure, God is Sovereign but even His Sovereignty is limited by His own nature. There are some things Calvinists cannot give an explanation, as why/what basis did God use before the world began to unconditionally choose "Joe" and not "Bob", so they simply says "It's God's Sovereignty". Again, just showing God's Sovereignty has limits.