Hi Hoot,
You wrote a LOT..lol..but I will try to address the major points.
*I kinda felt that you wasn't a follower of Christ with the last response but I didn't want to just assume without first hearing it from your mouth. That makes a lot of your post more understandable.
*Actually, God sees everything we do as filthy rags because we are covered in sin. Because of sin nature, no amount of good equals the debt of sin. Also, you would be hard pressed to find a true believer who lacks compassion. The Bible says that our faith shows through our actions.
*Christians who condemn without getting the mote out of there own eye is a huge issue that we face today. And Christians shouldn't tell a sinner how to live there lives but we do tell them what is sin and not. The is also more prevalent when those who claim to be a believer are also celebrating a sinful lifestyle. You can't do things God way and your way. Something has to give. Now once you proclaim to to be a believer, the Bible sets the guideline and your are now under God's jurisdiction. He tells you how to live your life.
*"I am trying to tell you not to." When you are stating a personal belief and begin with that phrase, that is always the start of a contradiction. I can't have feeling about something but other's can? That all flows into the oxymoron of "tolerance."
*Contrary to modern belief, there is no "their own way" to following God. The Bible tells us as plain as day that we die to self.
*Most wars started by "religion?" SO the Revolutionary War, War of 1812, Civil War, Spanish/American War, World War I & 2, Korean and Vietnam Conflict, Persian Gulf, and 9/11 was caused by religion??? Most wars are caused by geopolitical issues. And I am one of those who stand out against war.
*What testimony have I jumped on anybody with. A question was asked and I answered according to scripture. THE END.
*If my kids tell me to get lost, then that is the sign that no longer need me as a provider and if they leave home, then it is them fending for themselves. I'm not saying that my kids jump at everything thing that I say but because they love and respect me, they obey me. I can show my kids a scar and tell them don't do this because you will end up with that. If they want to learn by experience, so be it, but my instruction is not there to harm them in any way, shape, or form and I believe at least my oldest understand that..lol. I discipline my kids but I don't berate them because, yeah, the Bible tells us not to anger our children unto wrath. I discipline in love and never anger. Also, if you read the prodigal son, when he realized the state that he got himself into, he went home.
See the thing that you fail to realize is I have nothing again a person. If a homosexual is harmed because of their lifestyle, then that is wrong and I would stick up for the individual, but not a lifestyle. But this goes both ways. You have homosexuals who look to incite (see New Mexico photography incident) to play the victim. You can't have your cake and eat it too. But with that being said, do you stand up and fight for all injustice or do you just pick and choose. See as Christians, we believe in justice. Now to be truthful, if you look at the politics of SSM, you would understand this is a fight for benefits and not rights. Tax breaks and insurance are not rights. Also, if you feel so strong about who you say you are (not you personally), then why do you feel the need for you lifestyle to be accepted? I'm just saying.