Jahsoul Hi
I think you may have misread or I did not explain myself properly.
Of course the child is in the correct mind set when he comes back or they would not come back. But there has to be time to settle back in first before things start to be discussed.
When things bad happen there is always a little strain to start. But their repenting is done by their deeds so you shall know the truth.
What you state can happen that is why things will be strained for a while. You will not have the same person come back who left.
You have to make sure the person has not come back for a short holiday before going again. YOU SHALL KNOW BY THEIR DEEDS
This is what guidelines are for. You let them know straight away. You give them the option and the chance. But you still take them back even it does happen again. Read the bible when Jesus was asked "how many times do I have to turn my cheek Lord" and Jesus replied " 70 times 7 ". You are also advised to be discerning You are not expected to be a fool.
But you still leave your door open. You could just turn them away take no notice of what Jesus said. But remember in my last post? "What someone does is their Karma" How you retaliate is your Karma." A person will stumble and possible stumble a few times. It will not be easy for the forgiver or the forgiven you will have to take things one step at a time.
But please bear in mind when all one can do is quote the bible and threaten hell to those who wish to live their own lives is to give a BURDEN TOO HARD TO BEAR.
And you know those words are so true "One step at a time" Prayer does not bring about miracles it only brings hope of one.
I have no idea how old your children are mine are grown up and trust me it does not improve with age the only difference is the problem is larger. Kids can tear you pear shaped believe me.
If someone as stupid as me knows that " DON'T YOU THINK GOD DOES' Don't you think he knows none are perfect all your asked to do is to try your very best. And believe me he knows that too.
The bible also says your not given a burden too heavy to carry.
Do you honestly think all that stuff from years gone by can be adhered to in the year 2013?.
All that stuff cut and pasted in words they cannot even spell never mind understand written and translated from other languages. The King James version is derived from the old testament and a lot of it has been changed your not even getting Gods words the communication was lost long ago. How can a book that has been changed re-written by 47 different people possibly be Gods word.
But people cannot even remember them never mind abide by them. But as soon as someone comes in states they are Gay or other minority group. People are running to the bible and cutting and pasting.
If you need to consult the bible as you do a dictionary do not even bother you do not know Gods word anyway.
All that is wanted of anybody is to do their very best your not asked to fall under the burden.
It would be like asking me to do the job of Goliath then saying there is no forgiveness when I collapse
When someone falls and gets up the whole of heaven rejoices.
Now you know what I mean when God will open his arms and say MY CHILD HAS COME HOME.
Now you know why I go by the dictates of my soul and the guidelines of Karma.
And thank you for your words of kindness.
HootOwl
I think you may have misread or I did not explain myself properly.
Of course the child is in the correct mind set when he comes back or they would not come back. But there has to be time to settle back in first before things start to be discussed.
When things bad happen there is always a little strain to start. But their repenting is done by their deeds so you shall know the truth.
What you state can happen that is why things will be strained for a while. You will not have the same person come back who left.
You have to make sure the person has not come back for a short holiday before going again. YOU SHALL KNOW BY THEIR DEEDS
This is what guidelines are for. You let them know straight away. You give them the option and the chance. But you still take them back even it does happen again. Read the bible when Jesus was asked "how many times do I have to turn my cheek Lord" and Jesus replied " 70 times 7 ". You are also advised to be discerning You are not expected to be a fool.
But you still leave your door open. You could just turn them away take no notice of what Jesus said. But remember in my last post? "What someone does is their Karma" How you retaliate is your Karma." A person will stumble and possible stumble a few times. It will not be easy for the forgiver or the forgiven you will have to take things one step at a time.
But please bear in mind when all one can do is quote the bible and threaten hell to those who wish to live their own lives is to give a BURDEN TOO HARD TO BEAR.
And you know those words are so true "One step at a time" Prayer does not bring about miracles it only brings hope of one.
I have no idea how old your children are mine are grown up and trust me it does not improve with age the only difference is the problem is larger. Kids can tear you pear shaped believe me.
If someone as stupid as me knows that " DON'T YOU THINK GOD DOES' Don't you think he knows none are perfect all your asked to do is to try your very best. And believe me he knows that too.
The bible also says your not given a burden too heavy to carry.
Do you honestly think all that stuff from years gone by can be adhered to in the year 2013?.
All that stuff cut and pasted in words they cannot even spell never mind understand written and translated from other languages. The King James version is derived from the old testament and a lot of it has been changed your not even getting Gods words the communication was lost long ago. How can a book that has been changed re-written by 47 different people possibly be Gods word.
But people cannot even remember them never mind abide by them. But as soon as someone comes in states they are Gay or other minority group. People are running to the bible and cutting and pasting.
If you need to consult the bible as you do a dictionary do not even bother you do not know Gods word anyway.
All that is wanted of anybody is to do their very best your not asked to fall under the burden.
It would be like asking me to do the job of Goliath then saying there is no forgiveness when I collapse
When someone falls and gets up the whole of heaven rejoices.
Now you know what I mean when God will open his arms and say MY CHILD HAS COME HOME.
Now you know why I go by the dictates of my soul and the guidelines of Karma.
And thank you for your words of kindness.
HootOwl