God hating you before you're born?

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miknik5

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GOD knew the end from the beginning
HE knew our fall

but more importantly HE knew the victory in HIS SON

GOD knew HE would have a set apart people called and marked by HIS NAME who would glorify HIM as GOD
 
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Yes, we know we are elect, aka saved to those that have removed the word elect from their bibles along with other verses that make them uncomfortable. Your question went further in stating that if we can know when we are saved, why don't we recognize all the elect. As if we have some crystal ball showing us those God has saved or will choose to save. God saves the rest of the world (aka his ELECT) by means of the Gospel. It really isn't that hard to understand.
The more the talk the more you are contradicting your own beliefs.

You state out of one side of your mouth the elect are chosen by God alone and that only the elect will make heaven and those not chosen to be elect will burn and fry, because they are dead in sin. You also state that the elect have no knowledge they are the elect, because no one really knows if they are elect/saved.

You now state out of the other side of your mouth
Yes, we know we are elect, aka saved
you also now state that
God saves the rest of the world (aka his ELECT) by means of the Gospel.
which is it now?
 
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To glorify THE ONE and ONLY
whom satan also knew of

why do you think Satan rebelled?
he was a covering angel...he didn't want to (temporarily) cover imperfect man until the fullness would come
No ma'am, Satan fell because he made a actual decision and exercised his own free will that he would exalt himself above God.
 

miknik5

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No ma'am, Satan fell because he made a actual decision and exercised his own free will that he would exalt himself above God.
Read revelation 12 and tell me why Satan fell
GOD knew the outcome from the beginning

who did you think was in the garden of GOD as a covering angel?
 

ForthAngel

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The more the talk the more you are contradicting your own beliefs.

You state out of one side of your mouth the elect are chosen by God alone and that only the elect will make heaven and those not chosen to be elect will burn and fry, because they are dead in sin. You also state that the elect have no knowledge they are the elect, because no one really knows if they are elect/saved.

You now state out of the other side of your mouth you also now state that

which is it now?
No contradiction. The elect are chosen by God, have been since before the foundation of the world (Eph 1:4), and the means by which they are reconciled with God is the Gospel. How is this so difficult to understand? Therefore, we get the command "Go and preach the Gospel to all creatures". The elect are made capable of receiving the Gospel by God's gifting of faith (Eph. 2:8-9), while the carnal man is incapable of understanding it because it is foolishness to him.

I never said no one knows when they are saved either. Every Christian knows they are saved because of the change of nature that occurs.
 
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Yes, we know we are elect, aka saved to those that have removed the word elect from their bibles along with other verses that make them uncomfortable. Your question went further in stating that if we can know when we are saved, why don't we recognize all the elect. As if we have some crystal ball showing us those God has saved or will choose to save. God saves the rest of the world (aka his ELECT) by means of the Gospel. It really isn't that hard to understand.
Careful! Swapping words around like that, you are coming dangerously close to agreeing with John 3:16 that He came with the hopes of saving ALL men.

No one needs "saving" if they are saved before they are even born.
 
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So, fruit isn't an external sign of the internal condition? You make judgments based on...? Some esoteric knowledge of someone based on your super spiritual ability to judge hearts?
I cannot discuss this meat with you since you get choked up on powdered baby milk.

Fruit is for character. This tiny piece of ground beef will cause you discomfort, so I would suggest not trying to talk about it.

True sons of God, have no esoteric knowledge, they have the Spirit of God living in them and leading them, guiding them, showing them, teaching them of things to come. This is not limited to some, but available to all and is one of the great and exceedingly precious promises we receive as a partaker of the divine nature as a Son/Daughter of God.

You cannot see this and will not until the current scales come of your eyes and the veil is removed from your heart by the Lord.
 

miknik5

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And yes he exercised his spiritual will against GOD's WILL knowing full well it was against GOD's WILL

And he did not have flesh as an excuse of his disobedience
 

ForthAngel

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I cannot discuss this meat with you since you get choked up on powdered baby milk.

Fruit is for character. This tiny piece of ground beef will cause you discomfort, so I would suggest not trying to talk about it.

True sons of God, have no esoteric knowledge, they have the Spirit of God living in them and leading them, guiding them, showing them, teaching them of things to come. This is not limited to some, but available to all and is one of the great and exceedingly precious promises we receive as a partaker of the divine nature as a Son/Daughter of God.

You cannot see this and will not until the current scales come of your eyes and the veil is removed from your heart by the Lord.
K............
 
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Do you understand that in this situation the produced fruit is the outside sign
sorry that is not what the Bible teaches at all. The Bible says it is what is inside of man that defiles or honor him, not the outside appearance. God looks at the heart not on external signs.
 

miknik5

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sorry that is not what the Bible teaches at all. The Bible says it is what is inside of man that defiles or honor him, not the outside appearance. God looks at the heart not on external signs.
How does what is inside of a man made manifest for others to see that fruit?

you thought I was taking about outer flesh?

Its what comes out of a man that manifests the issue conditions of the heart (before other men)
 

miknik5

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And if you want to say leave it to GOD to test the man's works, I agree
 
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How does what is inside of a man made manifest for others to see that fruit?

you thought I was taking about outer flesh?

Its what comes out of a man that manifests the issue conditions of the heart (before other men)
Don't Trump haters say he "appears" to help poor people and gives away millions, strictly for his own benefit? Of course they do. Yet, no matter what you think of the man, money given to the poor is an outward sign. It looks like good fruit. And it may be, despite the fact some want to assign an ulterior motive to it.

So, I would say, just from that example, that we cannot judge, one way or another, by what we see.

Or DON'T see.......... Because I am probably one of VERY few people on the face of the Earth who knows the good a certain crusty old man in our congregation does for the homeless. Most people just see a bitter-looking old hermit. They judge him because they do not see the fruit they have decided he has to show them in order to be a righteous person.
 

miknik5

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The more the talk the more you are contradicting your own beliefs.

You state out of one side of your mouth the elect are chosen by God alone and that only the elect will make heaven and those not chosen to be elect will burn and fry, because they are dead in sin. You also state that the elect have no knowledge they are the elect, because no one really knows if they are elect/saved.

You now state out of the other side of your mouth you also now state that

which is it now?
Actually sir. In speaking with you only twice it is you who misconstrue what is being said
And I apologize but i don't even have the energy to clarify what you have misunderstood here
 
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It's we Christians together who are the "elect"….the chosen people of God. (1 Peter 2:9, Col. 3:12)
 

OneFaith

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Hi everyone! I am reading the Why does God hate Esau post and ForthAngel mentions this: I think it's interesting that many are saying it was because of something Esau did or because of the condition of his heart. Paul refutes this in Romans 9 and makes it clear that God hated him before he had done anything good or bad and before he was born.

I would like to understand this a little better...

I have read Romans 9 and it indeed says we all depend on God's mercy no matter what we do, if we are loved we are loved, if we are hardened by God, we are hardened. Does this means that if we are not chosen by God before birth all we can do is struggle in life like worms crawling on the floor, as He watches our struggles with indifference or contempt?

On the other hand, I was raised a Catholic and taught sins and evil deeds bring God's punishment. I am at a moment right now in which I feel a lot of self-loathe for some bad mistakes I made in my past, I confessed them but I still feel scruples, they haunt me a lot. But this stated in Romans 9 could mean that there was nothing I could do to escape this destiny and not commit these mistakes because if I am not chosen by God before birth my life won't be full of grace it will just be a heap of darkness and disgrace and full period.

I have to say this idea of being rejected by God already before birth and not being able to do or be anything to change this fact terrifies me a little bit.

Does God doom some of us to a life of disgrace because he hates us even before birth? Are some of our prayers unanswered because of that? What is the point of praying then, or going to church, if doing things won't make a difference in God's eyes? Is faith then an option or it doesn't matter whether you have faith or not?

What could you tell me about it? I am still learning. Thank you for your answers I truly appreciate your time, wisdom and guidance, may God bless you.
God foreknowing the choices we would make with our freewill, does not mean we do not have freewill. Therefore, God can say, even before someone is born, that He hates them, just as He can say that after they've lived a full life and died. Foreknowing does not take away someone's freewill. For example...

I am in the other room, and hear the cookie jar rattle. I know that when I go in the kitchen that I will find my daughter eating a cookie. Does that mean I forced her to? Of course not. Or again, let's say I'm at the train station, and see a train about to pass by. If I foreknow that the person driving that train will pass me, does that mean he had no freewill to do so? Of course not. Foreknowing what another will do does not take away their freewill decision to do it. God foreknew Judas would betray Christ, it was prophesied, but it was his freewill decision. And God can say He hates him before God even created the world.

Now another mention...

When God hardened Pharaoh's heart, it does not mean Pharoah was a puppet with no freewill. Example; if I throw a ball up in the air, and it bounces off my head, I can make the statement "God bounced a ball off my head." How so? God created gravity, physics, cause & reaction, me, the earth, etc. God set reaction in nature. It is human nature, when someone wrongs you, to react with revengeful thoughts, and to close off your vulnerability so that people can't hurt your heart again. The heart becomes hard and callused, and mean "I'll hurt you before you hurt me."

BUT a heart led by the Spirit does not have natural human reaction. When hurt, it forgives, and even cares for the one who hurt it. "Father please forgive them, they don't fully understand what they are doing."

So whether a heart responds with hatred or with love, is that heart's freewill decision. But both choices are put there by God. I can throw a ball up in the air, and quickly move out of the way, or block it with my hand to keep it from bouncing off my head. My point is we do have freewill choices to make- which will determine which reaction God has set in place.

Cause: If we do not obey God, Reaction: we go to hell.
Cause: If we obey God, Reaction: we go to heaven.

Just because God created both of these causes and reactions, does not mean we do not have freewill choice.
 

preacher4truth

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But, this would violate my free will.
Hey, just a thought while you're dealing with the recent troll who joined.

People mock the Gospel call to the elect, and then come up with the free will gospel. Their argument is that since it is left up to us and our free will concerning salvation, then that is true love on the part of God and on the part of the one coming to God by their own free will. They did it because they love God so much. That's pure Pelagianism by the way.

But that is how dangerous the free will gospel is. They come to God out of their own love for God that is inherent within them and shows forth their true love. Just the thought of that makes me want to puke. Yet this is all contrary to Scripture - the lost hate God and are hostile toward Him. So rather than this truth, their false gospel paints a lovely picture of themselves, where they can pat themselves on the back because all along they really loved God and then came to him out of their true love in spite of Scripture showing this to be a deceptive lie.

This false free will gospel is what could derogatorily be described as the belief system of an elitist, self-righteous, entitled group. It is smug arrogance, it is in the face of God and it is against true revelation in Scripture.
 

ForthAngel

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Hey, just a thought while you're dealing with the recent troll who joined.

People mock the Gospel call to the elect, and then come up with the free will gospel. Their argument is that since it is left up to us and our free will concerning salvation, then that is true love on the part of God and on the part of the one coming to God by their own free will. They did it because they love God so much. That's pure Pelagianism by the way.

But that is how dangerous the free will gospel is. They come to God out of their own love for God that is inherent within them and shows forth their true love. Just the thought of that makes me want to puke. Yet this is all contrary to Scripture - the lost hate God and are hostile toward Him. So rather than this truth, their false gospel paints a lovely picture of themselves, where they can pat themselves on the back because all along they really loved God and then came to him out of their true love in spite of Scripture showing this to be a deceptive lie.

This false free will gospel is what could derogatorily be described as the belief system of an elitist, self-righteous, entitled group. It is smug arrogance, it is in the face of God and it is against true revelation in Scripture.
Yeah. Pretty disheartening to see so many professing Christians reject half of what is written. What it comes down to is the rejection of the God of the bible and the creation of a new god in their image. They don't see God in scripture, they see him in the mirror.
 
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Yeah. Pretty disheartening to see so many professing Christians reject half of what is written. What it comes down to is the rejection of the God of the bible and the creation of a new god in their image. They don't see God in scripture, they see him in the mirror.
I forewarn you to be careful of what you accuse others of, every idle word will be judged.