yeah and I tell you I know of women who have stalkers who used to abuse them and the only way they have not been kidnapped and murdered is because they carry a handgun in their purse because they have told me more than once of their ex husbands finding them and threatening and only leaving when threaten with a gun.
yeah the police is useful but not they normally aren't there all the time.
I don't advocate murder but i do believe if you carry a gun you should be willing to shoot to stop a person from committing a worst crime, especially if murder is in the heart and lips of the other person.
I disagree with violence completely. I really do believe that Jesus committed none of it, as Isaiah says.
And I do understand that the world is a pretty rough and harsh place. And it really does suck, especially to be a follower. It's so easy for people to take advantage and see us as weak.
I would never say that your friend doesn't have her reasons, even excuses, even valid ones. Because she is afraid for her life. And I believe that God will understand that.
It's tough, and what choice did she have? She's scared.
I am not saying that there is never a reason for these things, guns and the like.
I'm just questioning whether being REALLY true, and really going the extra mile and really living a Godly life is something more than the standard norm.
And this isn't me putting it on you or your friend. I'm actually asking myself 'Is there a way that I could actually forgive a person, or turn the other cheek when someone tries to murder me? How could I do that?
I suppose by taking away my fear. Finding out how God is really there nomatter what. Letting go of my worries. 'Giving up my life for God'. Killing the thoughts that lead me into violence, into retribution and vengaence.
This is me examining myself. And I am sure, confronted with the situation of someone trying to kill me, that I would try in some way to stop it.
But similarly, I then look at people like monks. Who will pacify and forgive even until their beheading. And I think 'wow, there must be the ability within a man to be like Jesus was. Able to stay non-violent even until their own end'.
And I don't see many modern day examples in Christianity. there are a few, but they are far and wide.
I wonder 'how can my forgiveness extend as far as that?'