God's Commandment For Women Not To Speak In Church

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Zen

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Yeah its when women got the vote that it all went to crap. :rolleyes:
Exactly. Women are more emotional and vote for liberal policies such as mass immigration and policies which suit them.
 

proverbs35

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I apologize P4T

I did miss your point.

I wasn't reading along and maybe shouldn't have gotten involved...
No worries. Any of us could have done the same. Thank you for being gracious enough to acknowledge it - classy.
 
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This conversation has now passed the point of stupidity....does anyone besides me think it's time to end it? At least this misogynist misandrist part? There are thiings about women that I hate but mostly I love them. There are things about men that men that women can easily hate. But most women like men. (I hope)
 
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It's fascinating to see people react to this.

So you believe it's OK to physically strike ("spank") a child to correct them?
Why is it not OK for a man to physically strike a woman to correct her?
Surely it's hypocrisy if you are in favor of correction but not towards yourself.

Women are told to be in obedience to the man, and that it is not a shameful 2nd class thing.

Proverbs 13:24
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

Notice the word rod here, it doesn't say "light touch of the hand", being hit with a rod hurts. It's supposed to leave bruises.



I can provide scriptures of people stoning a wife to death, if you like? I know it's a little more harsh than beating her until she receives wisdom.

How about we use God's correction of His bride as an example?

2 Kings 21:
[SUP]12 [/SUP]Therefore thus saith the Lord God of Israel, Behold, I am bringing such evil upon Jerusalem and Judah, that whosoever heareth of it, both his ears shall tingle.
[SUP]13 [/SUP]And I will stretch over Jerusalem the line of Samaria, and the plummet of the house of Ahab: and I will wipe Jerusalem as a man wipeth a dish, wiping it, and turning it upside down.
[SUP]14 [/SUP]And I will forsake the remnant of mine inheritance, and deliver them into the hand of their enemies; and they shall become a prey and a spoil to all their enemies;

Notice how God didn't say 'I will stop the rain from coming for 7 days' or some small punishment like that. People died. It was violent and bloody.


A child and a wife are two different people. Apparently you dont want a partner in life you want a child to beat. It really annoys me when men misuse the Bible to propagate abuse of women. Because when men abuse women and use the Bible as their excuse it changes womens view of God,of His love for them,of His calling for them.And I'll tell you this,when a man has been found to have beaten his wife I believe the men of the church should get together,take him out behind his home and give him a good thrashing. Then they can understand that beatings hurt and they are humiliating. Dont use the Bible to propagate your own beliefs. You want to beat women,go be a Muslim.
 

Zen

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A child and a wife are two different people. Apparently you dont want a partner in life you want a child to beat. It really annoys me when men misuse the Bible to propagate abuse of women. Because when men abuse women and use the Bible as their excuse it changes womens view of God,of His love for them,of His calling for them.And I'll tell you this,when a man has been found to have beaten his wife I believe the men of the church should get together,take him out behind his home and give him a good thrashing. Then they can understand that beatings hurt and they are humiliating. Dont use the Bible to propagate your own beliefs. You want to beat women,go be a Muslim.
Another person who misses the point.

Chastening isn't abuse. Also you've just come up with nonsense about me desiring to have a child as a wife so I can abuse her with physical violence.

Maybe you're so emotional that you're unable to think clearly.
 
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kaylagrl

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Maybe she should have took the hint.




Or maybe the husband should've stopped acting like a jerk and be Christlike. Thats a possibility too.
 
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Another person who misses the point.

Chastening isn't abuse. Also you've just come up with nonsense about me desiring to have a child as a wife so I can abuse her with physical violence.

Maybe you're so emotional that you're unable to think clearly.
I'll say it again Zen...It's not your place to chasten your woman. Or any woman
 

Zen

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Or maybe the husband should've stopped acting like a jerk and be Christlike. Thats a possibility too.
I think I understand now. It's basically Babylon syndrome.

So many Christians are living according to the world that they are offended by scripture.

When you see a man exercise authority over a woman, which is biblical, you are offended.

When you see the word "chasten" you read it as "abuse".

When you see the words "weaker vessel", you read it as "Men oppress women, women are just as strong as men or even stronger".

When a man tells his wife to stop answering back and being grievous, you think that it's the man's fault and he should shut up.
 
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kaylagrl

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No but I think being in a godly Christian marriage would be great.

Well I sure hope you are honest before you put that ring on her finger.I dont know a whole lot of women that will be willing to lay down and take a beating,you may have to start looking in the middle east. But be honest with her and let her know she'll be beaten and treated like a child.Thats the least you can do. Its rather funny that you're spouting off about marriage and yet have never found a women thats willing to put up with your view of a "Godly marriage".Perhaps you ought to be married a few years and get back to us on how that works out.
 
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Exactly. Women are more emotional and vote for liberal policies such as mass immigration and policies which suit them.
XD
I have to ask....
Are you serious? This is what you really believe?
 
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No it's because of bullies like sevenseas and Angela. I got given rep in this thread for 'standing up to her' because 'she is one of the biggest bullies on the site'. Lol.



And if her husband believed Lord Jesus then he would only do that if she was an adulterer, and he would have stuck around. So either she was an adulteress or her husband was not following scripture. If he wasn't following scripture why are you blaming me for saying women should obey their husbands when it's actual scripture?



So an adulterer caused your family harm, it wasn't women being under authority of men which caused the harm.


No, this sounds like projecting.



Men not following scripture hurt your family so you believe that modern men are horrible? You're entitled to any of your opinions, I'm not going to judge you.

Maybe this should serve as a reminder to all of us not to marry people who don't take God's Word seriously.
You made me laugh Zen,

You said:

So an adulterer caused your family harm, it wasn't women being under authority of men which caused the harm.

Actually that was the problem...
The secy WAS under the authority of men!

You're Young. Did you know that years ago some women would have to QUIT their jobs because of man-Handling??

Nowadays the guy gets into trouble.
GOOD !!!

When men start acting like real men, maybe women will act like women??
 
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kaylagrl

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I believe 2 people walking in Christ would make any sacrifice necessary for each other.

Should a man stop having authority over the woman he loves, just in case she complains and might be offended? That would be a sacrifice. What about when she starts having an affair and says she's leaving with the kids because only Chad treats her right?

Cuts both ways,what does she do when he leaves her with the kids for his secretary? You see your side but there are two sides to that street.
 

proverbs35

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You want to beat women,go be a Muslim.
Well, that is what Pat Robinson recommends.

[video]https://youtu.be/DoHdO2rwGwE[/video]

One the one hand Pat Robinson says that God doesn't permit men to divorce their disrespectful wives, but he has absolutely no problem advising another man that it's okay for him to divorce his sick wife.

[video]https://youtu.be/vsaqfP87Z58[/video]

Absolutely shameful.
 

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No it's because of bullies like sevenseas and Angela. I got given rep in this thread for 'standing up to her' because 'she is one of the biggest bullies on the site'. Lol.
If someone thinks that Angela is a bully, I'd have to call them a snowflake. She doesn't mince words, and for that (and many other reasons) she has my respect. I haven't seen anything remotely "bullyish" from sevenseas either. Perhaps you can't handle strong women... that's your problem, not theirs!

And if her husband believed Lord Jesus then he would only do that if she was an adulterer, and he would have stuck around. So either she was an adulteress or her husband was not following scripture. If he wasn't following scripture why are you blaming me for saying women should obey their husbands when it's actual scripture?
Sure, just toss the blame and judgment instead of offering compassion and rethinking your position. More revelation of your heart, sadly.

Exactly. Women are more emotional and vote for liberal policies such as mass immigration and policies which suit them.
What. Complete. Rot.
 
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kaylagrl

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I agree with you, God is love, kind and gentle and patient.

But when God does get angry at His people, He corrects them using unbearable punishments.

People even during Lord Jesus' time were living biblical lives, correcting children and disobedient wives.

The thought of hitting a child seems absurd these days, because it is the world view.

God's scripture says it's better to beat a child to correct them and drive the foolishness out of them so that they don't grow up and bring shame and calamity on their family and people. That's the point, people would rather choose bruises than death if they had knowledge of the 2 options.

Nobody is advocating abuse, it seems people are misinterpreting beating to mean being cruel and abusive.

Here's a different example, would you feed someone close to you lots of food until they weigh 600lbs and get stuck in a bed? Feeding them more unhealthy food is abusive. Sure, it feels good and looks supportive when they cry and beg you for more donuts and KFC, but it's harmful.

Is a person who starves them for a month until they are light enough to stand up and visit a doctor a cruel and abusive monster?

Revelation 3:19
As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.


We are living in the age of grace,not under the law. God will reserve His punishments till judgment day. In the OT the men that steadied the ark were killed,that was under the Law. And even under the law,no right was granted to beat your wife,or your child for that matter. Your are twisting the Bible for your own purposes and you are dead wrong. Hitting your wife is abuse. Period,end of story. And no woman with a grain of sense would marry you if you were truthful about what you believe.
 
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[FONT=&quot] [FONT=&quot]When God created Adam he was both male and female in one body. He was essentially complete. Then Adam started whining. (men are good at that) so God took woman out of him Think about it. The woman part was taken out of Adam. To be complete now, man has to take woman for a wife. So in some areas a man is better than a woman. On the other hand, in some areas women are better than men. If you take one part (male) and put it together with the other part (female) you will have a whole. [/FONT][FONT=&quot][/FONT]


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[FONT=&quot]10. Women “grow” other human beings inside them[/FONT]
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Women have the capability to grow an entire new person inside them. Men on the other hand make sperms that look like tadpoles and don’t even know which way to go until they accidentally budge into an egg inside the female’s body. That is all the role they play while a woman carries a “moving”, “kicking”, “grown” baby inside her!

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[FONT=&quot]9. They can tolerate pain[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Like having a baby push through yourself is not enough once, they do it again and yet again. Women have a greater tolerance for pain as they would go on doing all their chores for the whole nine months. Men on the other hand would hide under the sheets if they have flu.

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[FONT=&quot]8. Multi tasking[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Women can reply to emails on the smartphones, cook, watch over the baby and listen to TV news at the same time. Men? hahaha!

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[FONT=&quot]7. Female brain has better healing ability[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Let’s say if both a man and woman met an accident at the same time, a woman would be up doing her daily tasks even before the man opens his eyes. That is because a female’s neurons are interlinked while the brain of a man is compartmentalized.

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[FONT=&quot]6. Communication experts[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Women can talk to anyone, anywhere. They know how to socialize with the bus driver, the teacher of their kids, the cleaner, the salesperson or anyone sitting with them in the bus. Advances in human life are because of communication and we owe that to women.

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[FONT=&quot]5. Women get things done[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
If men don’t find anything interesting, they will not do it. Likewise, they will not do anything again if they aren’t encouraged and appreciated the first time- even if it is something like washing dishes. Women on the other hand will get things done when they have to.

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[FONT=&quot]4. Women have super powers that get things done[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
The utility boy will leave the power on, the policeman will let the woman off without charging a ticket and she will get her way around any problem. This super power is tears!

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[FONT=&quot]3. Detail oriented[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Women can categorize things like task lists, birthdays, shopping lists, assignments and whole calendars in their brains while remembering smaller details like what their boyfriend likes for dinners and other basic facts. That is downright impossible for men.

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[FONT=&quot]2. Women live longer[/FONT]
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Women are stronger than men when it comes to nerves which is probably why they live on average, a year longer than men. Women are also better decision makers regarding their diet, duties and health check ups.

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[FONT=&quot]1. Psychic powers[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Not only can women tell why their baby is crying, they can also be absolutely sure if their husband is cheating or their friend is having a problem. She will already have figured you out so there is no point lying about it. A woman has strong intuition.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Top 10 Reasons Men Are Better Than Women

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[FONT=&quot]10. [/FONT]Technical abilities: Men, in general have better spatial reasoning skills than women (most likely due to evolutionary reasons where men did the hunting, which required an acute sense of location, time and space). Spatial reasoning is extremely important in the fields of Engineering, Physics, construction, design and innovation.
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[FONT=&quot]9. Men are stronger[/FONT]
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Their upper body is very strong as compared to women and to be very honest, even the world seems to be designed along this fact rather than the delicacy of women. This is probably why they make the lawn mower strings so hard!

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[FONT=&quot]8. The knowledge of tools[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Men can read instructions and decipher them easily. It is a part of their innate nature to understand the mechanics of how things work which is why they have DIY projects at home that women can’t do.

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[FONT=&quot]7. Men are solution oriented[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Men tend to move towards the solution of the problem instead of spending three hours crying, seven days worrying and three weeks talking about it to friends, parents and other people around them. Their mind immediately comes up with 12 solutions without thinking that it might be an insult to how they are feeling right now.

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[FONT=&quot]6. Less complicated relationships[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Because men don’t give a damn about what others think of them- they don’t worry about what they think of others either. A group of male friends can go out every weekend without worrying what the other person was wearing. This cool attitude comes naturally and makes things less complicated, including fashion!

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[FONT=&quot]5. The appeal in opposite gender is visual[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
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While many men will not admit it, their attraction to the opposite gender is based on looks most of the times. They will just look at the person and decide whether they want to date her or not. Women on the other hand will be unsure of this even after three years of knowing the person because they tend to find marriage material in each guy.

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[FONT=&quot]4. Programming electronics[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
Men and boys could program their VCRs and tape recorders in the 1970s when something went wrong. The same applies to gadgets and electronic devices in today’s time. Apparently these skills are inborn and just magically appear in every generation born.

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[FONT=&quot]3. Less time getting ready to go out[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
That is one point that we would definitely give them points on. They don’t need makeup, hair styling and they don’t need hours to decide what to wear. Honestly, who notices?!

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[FONT=&quot]2. Making babies is easy for them[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
For men the whole process of becoming a father involves three minutes of their time. On the other end, it is the ladies who have to face 9 months of trouble for the baby to come into this world.

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[FONT=&quot]1. Men are not social chameleons[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]
A woman can change herself according to any gathering within a few seconds like a cult. Men are somewhat consistent and persistent in their opinions and feelings regarding anything.[/FONT]
 

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10. Technical abilities: Men, in general have better spatial reasoning skills than women (most likely due to evolutionary reasons where men did the hunting, which required an acute sense of location, time and space). Spatial reasoning is extremely important in the fields of Engineering, Physics, construction, design and innovation.
Denadii, these lists are interesting, and generally I would concur. However, I would encourage you not to quote things that avow evolution, after claiming (rightly) that God created humankind. :)