Your supposed to be a light to them to draw them to Christ. However you are new here. Yet you judge one as if you know them personally. Maybe try to get to know them first and love them before you judge then
Chapter 21
21Peter seeing him saith to Jesus, Lord, and what shall this man do?
22Jesus saith unto him, If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that to thee? follow thou me.
Concern yourself of nothing I do and pick up your own
cross and deny thyself(in this case you did not)
and follow Jesus.