Is it wrong to masturbate ?
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I have been getting some answers from God lately, not spoken, but minor punishments for minor offenses. I used to be oversexed and masturbation had gotten habitual before marriage. Being oversexed got me into trouble with the marriage, so after the divorce, it got bad again and then there was a point in time that I was ill and I stopped. Since then I have lost most of my desires and have been coming back to God much more honestly than before.
My sister has Alzheimer's and is now wetting the bed at night if I don't get up with her every 2 or 3 hours. If I don't, I have to wash her up and change the bed. Occasionally she will wet the bed whether I get up with her at the normal time, that I have devised. or not. This is where the answers are coming in at. I do my big prayer at night before I go to bed normally. I have found that if I let my body tell me not to bother praying, because I am too tired, that I will forget to set my alarm or even if I get up at the right time, sis has wet the bed. As long as I pray the bed stays dry.
On the masturbation question, it seems to have a lot to do with what you are thinking about while doing it. Since understanding the communication coming from God, I have masturbated twice, with different results. The first time I was thinking of women while I was doing it and I was greeted the next day with poop in various places in the house. I had been in another room while she was in the living room. The next time I tried to avoid thinking of girls, but my mind went there seemingly of it's own accord at the end, and I had a wet bed to change, even though I got up at the time when she was usually dry. Thus far it seems that the masturbation itself isn't bad, but it is the thoughts of sex with another at the time that seems to bring the punishment. On the other hand I may be punished in the future for doing it even without the girl thoughts, simply because God wants us to have will power to control ourselves. I am going to try to avoid it altogether so that I don't have to find out.
My sister has Alzheimer's and is now wetting the bed at night if I don't get up with her every 2 or 3 hours. If I don't, I have to wash her up and change the bed. Occasionally she will wet the bed whether I get up with her at the normal time, that I have devised. or not. This is where the answers are coming in at. I do my big prayer at night before I go to bed normally. I have found that if I let my body tell me not to bother praying, because I am too tired, that I will forget to set my alarm or even if I get up at the right time, sis has wet the bed. As long as I pray the bed stays dry.
On the masturbation question, it seems to have a lot to do with what you are thinking about while doing it. Since understanding the communication coming from God, I have masturbated twice, with different results. The first time I was thinking of women while I was doing it and I was greeted the next day with poop in various places in the house. I had been in another room while she was in the living room. The next time I tried to avoid thinking of girls, but my mind went there seemingly of it's own accord at the end, and I had a wet bed to change, even though I got up at the time when she was usually dry. Thus far it seems that the masturbation itself isn't bad, but it is the thoughts of sex with another at the time that seems to bring the punishment. On the other hand I may be punished in the future for doing it even without the girl thoughts, simply because God wants us to have will power to control ourselves. I am going to try to avoid it altogether so that I don't have to find out.
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It's exactly the same thing, you just don;t want to admit it. Touching yourself to the point of spilling seed in a Kleenex, a tube sock , the floor or the shower drain is exactly the same as chewing your fingernails or picking your nose - a filthy habit.
Now, maybe I speak from a different position because I am not a slave to my impulses and I haven't touched myself like a pervert in over 20 years, but what does that really matter? Masturbation is disgusting. It's shameful. It demonstrates that men have no willpower over their hormones, and that is really sad..especially from guys who think they are so tough or strong. Not having control over one's hormones means you're a weakling. A sissy. A girly boy. I feel sorry for men who have to arm wrestle themselves in private to the point of orgasm. I wish they had some kind of strength. But, we men can't all be the same, and a lot of you are just betas.
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This rubbish has got to stop, there must be a way for the administrator to be able to stop this person getting back on here time after time no matter what they call themselves. Why cant their IP address be linked to an alarm or something?
We will never be able to stop fools from coming on and making a fool of themselves, but we should all now how not to support their efforts and have a little wisdom (I mean, Mr administrator, on here since 3rd and 52 posts, come on please!).
We will never be able to stop fools from coming on and making a fool of themselves, but we should all now how not to support their efforts and have a little wisdom (I mean, Mr administrator, on here since 3rd and 52 posts, come on please!).