I don't believe that at all.....the qualifications set are set for a reason...not to be bent, twisted and or looked to in bias....
the office represents Christ and the qualifications are not set and dry by underpinned by other truths....for example...the rebellious child thing...
If a man cannot take care of his house/children....how can he possibly take care of God's own house or a church if you will
The one wife at a time....sure...and qualified under the death of the spouse........
AGAIN...who are we to push the line on what God has set in his word....either Paul was inspired and the word is valid or almost half your N.T. needs to be ripped out and burnt or put next to the toilet.....
By the way...not mad or mouthy so don't take it that way.....just dia-logos
Yeah, but I don't believe this poster was trying to bend or rip scripture by sharing something he was struggling with that seems contradictory to him.
And I just can't make it work in my mind that rebellious teenagers disqualify a godly man from work the Spirit has called him to. This just turns into...Ammo for ambitious and ungodly men to demand he step down if his daughter runs away or his son gets arrested for pot, etc. I can understand Paul trying to help them with some guidelines but I think it's a problem if you follow Paul's guidelines as law rather than the new way of the Spirit guiding rather than law. You begin to edge toward yoking and away from the Spirit ruling and guiding. And you inch toward making men bear the sins of the child, which God told them to stop doing and they had the gall to say: what the Lord is doing is wrong but He said, no, you are doing what is wrong. If He commanded them to stop saying the phrase about the parents eating sour grapes and the children's teeth being set on edge, and that from now on each man was only to be held to account for his own sins, then I guess that to say the parents teeth are set on edge because the child ate sour grapes is also not good.
I see some things that appear to be contradictions too, as this poster does. But they don't really cause the problems I see unless you try to make them into laws to yoke men and women under law all over again. It's at that point that I think the Spirit must be grieved because men choose that heavy yoke again and begin to impose it on others.