See Peter, Here is the root of your problem. which so many people have tried to tell you over and over again for months now.
You see people say things they never said,, No one ever says we are always failures, We NEVER have victory, and deny the power of god in our lives.
That's what you THINK they said, which is the REAL reason why, as you said earlier,
Because you have selective hearing, and never get to actually understanding what people tell you.