Ok bush what about all the verses that say to kill people?
Hi Shakes, welcome to cc! Your questions are interesting, although many people before you have had similar questions. In regard to your specific post quoted above, even several verses either side of a given passage may not give adequate context to "justify" the stated behaviour. Context is MUCH more than the verses either side. Consider this: To whom was the Law given? In what historical period? What was the nature of the people Israel was to kill? What kind of people were the Israelites? What were God's long-term plans, and how do these commands fit into those plans?
No Bible-believing Christian would rightly interpret that passage as justification to go and kill anyone today. It was written to Israel several millennia in the past. We continue to read it because it is part of the whole story of God's redemption of mankind. Unfortunately, you are unlikely to get the gist of the Bible by pulling out specific verses and dogging on them. Better to try for a broad understanding and, when you have the big picture in mind, look closer at the details; they will make more sense. Start with John 3:16.
You find these passages offensive; fair enough, but I'd also suggest that your concept of right and wrong is without any foundation other than God. Right/wrong = moral law, which requires a giver of moral law. If the giver is man, there is no objective right and wrong, as one man's murder is another man's hunting for meat. If the Giver is God, then the definition of right and wrong comes from Him, not from us. God is good (Matthew 19:17 and others) and what He does, or commands to be done, is ultimately good, even if we do not see how.
Keep asking these hard questions, and keep your heart open to seek the truth.
Blessings,
Dino