IMO, the people that keep saying we are not under the law/ we are under grace/ not by works e.t.c do not understand. I could be wrong but their explanation doesn't make any sense. They themselves are on the fore front keeping the law than others.
For example; Being faithful to your husband/wife is the law. A law that targets the flesh.
Rom 7:
1Do you not know, brothers and sisters—for I am speaking to those who know the law—that the law has authority over someone only as long as that person lives?
2For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him.
3So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man.
So, these people that keep telling us we are not under the law, are they promiscuous or what?