Well getting on a forum and telling others about how they need to obey God is no evidence of obedience , its just words! Now if you really was obeying God you would not be acting as if you obey and are the one to lecture others, you would be making your boast in the Lord.
In fact many that get one here and lecture others in obedience are often porn addicts etc... very ungodly people. Are you a godly person?
Through the power of the Holy Spirit, I have overcome willful sin. I still sin of course from time to time in my thoughts and once in a while by my actions, but as soon as I recognize them, I submit the thoughts to Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit. I set my mind on the Spirit and things to come, instead of the flesh
I am not trying to boast in myself but in the Lord. There is not willful sin running rampant in me. I do not have the desires to be sinful anymore, but only desires to be obedient to God. This was not always the case, in fact it was not long ago that I was a slave to sin. But one day when reading Matthew 4, the temptation of Christ I realized something.
The thing that immediately preceded the beginning of Christs ministry was His temptation. I didn't understand the importance of the temptation, why would He possibly go out to the desert to purposely be tempted?
Then the Holy Spirit made the reason known to me... Before we can begin our ministry on this earth, we must first be able to stand against the temptations of our flesh, the world and the devil as well. Overcoming the flesh is basically the foundation of the faith. The prerequisite for being truly useful to God.
I began to look at all my fleshly desires as enemies, trying to separate me from the love of God and trying to destroy me and the people in my life.
Once I took on that view of sin, it was no longer appealing to me. I began to hate sin.
I began to see the commands of God as things to be praised and loved, because they are all good and bring life into the world.
I want the people in my life to know God and have salvation, so I must be obedient to God, His ways are perfect and good.
If we are disobedient to God then we are workers of lawlessness and death.
It didn't take long before I had matured spiritually, and I was no longer a slave to my flesh.
Once we get past our willful sins and fleshly reactions and motivations, then we are conformed even more to Christ. By loving others when they do not deserve love. By repaying evil with good. And so on