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psychomom

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cmarieh said:
I don't have the desire to want to change a man. God created him a certain way and have to learn to tolerate it and only him can want to have that desire to change not from me.
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hang onto that. :)

my Gram said men had to be civilized....idk...my husband was pretty civil when i married him. ;)

Gram also said no couple grows up till they have children,
because there can only be so many babies in the house at once. :rolleyes:

so much for your logic, Gram. lol

(honestly, almost every couple tries to make changes in one another.
silly rabbits---GOD does the changing!)
 
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p_rehbein said:
first year when you have dinner, get him to help you set the table. Get him to help you to clear the table and help wash the dishes. Ask him to take out the trash


but, men learn too.............setting table, OOPS, dropped her mama's favorite gravy bowl.....splatter......clearing table....OOPS.......leftover mashed 'tatters all over the floor..........as for dishes?

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Now the real question IS WHY would one want him to do the dishes? (In my case if I were ever to be married I would prefer him to deal with the various woodland varmints) :p
 
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skylove7

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Its thundering here! My grandma claimed when I was 3, I would say God's tummy was hungry lol
 
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skylove7

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Lol...I love you so much Ellie! :)
 
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psychomom

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SarahM777 said:
Now the real question IS WHY would one want him to do the dishes? (In my case if I were ever to be married I would prefer him to deal with the various woodland varmints) :p
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*shudder

and jumping things. ugh.

i texted our daughter last week to tell her i wished she had been here,
there was a frog on the deck.

she texted back to say if she was there, she's kiss it and bring it home.
wonder what her husband would have thought about that! haha
 
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SarahM777 said:
Now the real question IS WHY would one want him to do the dishes? (In my case if I were ever to be married I would prefer him to deal with the various woodland varmints) :p
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I personally would want to help around the house, like I do to help my parents. I help them with dishes, laundry, cleaning. It is a great time to talk and it makes the task more enjoyable. We can do both. One night when I was sick and totally out of it, I went downstairs to get a drink....I saw flashing lights in one room and heard talking...good thing it was only a tv, my father forgot to turn it off....I thought for sure I was going to be facing two guys, who broke into the house, while I was sick.
 
SarahM777

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psychomom said:
*shudder

and jumping things. ugh.

i texted our daughter last week to tell her i wished she had been here,
there was a frog on the deck.

she texted back to say if she was there, she's kiss it and bring it home.
wonder what her husband would have thought about that! haha
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UMM Well I do have a woodchuck in the back yard that really needs to be dealt with,but,but,but she's just way too cute. :p

 
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I watch a girl on youtube. She does makeup tutorial vids..she sings the sassy song..

sassy, sassy sassy, so sassy, sassy sassy :eek:

She's a riot to watch and listen to. She did a video on a furby she bought..omgosh so hilarious. :eek:
 
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skylove7

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Dear Lord I pray California gets our Indiana rain!
 
SarahM777

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kodiak said:
I personally would want to help around the house, like I do to help my parents. I help them with dishes, laundry, cleaning. It is a great time to talk and it makes the task more enjoyable. We can do both. One night when I was sick and totally out of it, I went downstairs to get a drink....I saw flashing lights in one room and heard talking...good thing it was only a tv, my father forgot to turn it off....I thought for sure I was going to be facing two guys, who broke into the house, while I was sick.
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There are some men that are good at helping around the house,but then there are the others. Always let them go with their strength. :)
 
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VioletReigns

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As I said, my husband was a biker and sometimes an ornery one at that. But he met his match with me. :D We were eating in a restaurant and he ticked me off so badly and stubbornly refused to own up to it. So I called rather "audibly" to the waiter and requested to be seated one table over without my husband. The restaurant was pretty crowded and my husband was too mortified to leave. HAHAHA!! He finally leaned over and apologized softly and I promptly moved back to his table and everything was cool again. :rolleyes:
 
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psychomom

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SarahM777 said:
There are some men that are good at helping around the house,but then there are the others. Always let them go with their strength. :)
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and if that don't work, teach 'em how to clean?? :confused:
 
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