Stop beating the kids! Spiritual abuse of Christians

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Changing how we say things does help the situation. So does letting of of the idea that just because someone disagrees with you or speaks harshly they are your enemy and are automatically attacking you.

We are all imperfect people and we learn from one another how to interact.

If someone is yelling at you and you don't like it. How will yelling back teach the other person there is another option besides yelling?

Jesus told us to turn the other cheek and bless those who view themselves as our enemies. It is hard to bless someone you still hold anger and resentment towards. We have to forgive people who don't deserve it because God forgave us even though we did nothing to deserve it.
Yes.................
 
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being able to turn to a one chapter in the bible is painful to someone with many name names.

you could over look why this chapter is in the bible. the question to all is how to define the difference between spiritual and worldly.


1 Corinthians 12: Spiritual Gifts
1 Now concerning spiritual gifts, brothers, I do not want you to be uninformed.2 You know that when you were pagans you were led astray to mute idols, however you were led.3 Therefore I want you to understand that no one speaking in the Spirit of God ever says "Jesus is accursed!" and no one can say "Jesus is Lord" except in the Holy Spirit.
4 Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit;5 and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord;6 and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who empowers them all in everyone.7 To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good.8 For to one is given through the Spirit the utterance of wisdom, and to another the utterance of knowledge according to the same Spirit,9 to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit,10 to another the working of miracles, to another prophecy, to another the ability to distinguish between spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, to another the interpretation of tongues.11 All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills.
One Body with Many Members
12 For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ.13 For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body---Jews or Greeks, slaves or free---and all were made to drink of one Spirit.
14 For the body does not consist of one member but of many.15 If the foot should say, "Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body," that would not make it any less a part of the body.16 And if the ear should say, "Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body," that would not make it any less a part of the body.17 If the whole body were an eye, where would be the sense of hearing? If the whole body were an ear, where would be the sense of smell?18 But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose.19 If all were a single member, where would the body be?20 As it is, there are many parts, yet one body.
21 The eye cannot say to the hand, "I have no need of you," nor again the head to the feet, "I have no need of you."22 On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable,23 and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, and our unpresentable parts are treated with greater modesty,24 which our more presentable parts do not require. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it,25 that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another.26 If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together.
27 Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it.28 And God has appointed in the church first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, helping, administrating, and various kinds of tongues.29 Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles?30 Do all possess gifts of healing? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret?31 But earnestly desire the higher gifts.
And I will show you a still more excellent way.
 
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I did. U just choose not to listen. So why repeat myself?
who are you kidding. you need to mash a rusk in to milk, before you start the weaning process.
not listen to twisted words that prove the poster, cannot answer or give a strait answer to your own post.

because the time frame cannot be taken in to account, to either doctor or evil definitions. etc
 
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Let's go with Lauren's definition.

has spiritual abuse been defined?

let me define it for you


spiritual abuse is destroying the TRUE image of God and replacing it with a god that is not God

some of the effects of spiritual abuse are withdrawal, anger, coping mechanisms, distrust in God, confusion, deep emotional pain, and a loss of meaning in life and more of the same
 
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I try and be respectful and understand what you are saying royalscot, but I have to admit most of the time. Your statements don't make much sense. I really wished someone who does get what you are saying would translate for me.
 
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You are so silly. John hardly goes five minutes without speaking pure Bible. And you are sitting there, waiting for some book names and numbers to be quoted. Do you know that Jesus would be absolutely howling at foolishness like that?

And I can hardly believe the nonsense of saying the word "cosmic" being "New Age."
I'm silly? You didn't even catch what he said about ministering in the fleshly realm first, then in the spiritual , or cosmic realm second.

A five point program with no biblical backing or biblical emphasis. A carnal plan to bring spiritual results.
I understand it's nothing for some people to be so gullible to listen to a whole sermon without having to open their Bibles, but I have to have Biblical evidence to be a Berean to check & see if it's true. No verses means no evidence, Period!

And you have the audacity to call me silly.
:rolleyes:

 
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spiritual abuse of Christians yet the originator of this thread puts people on ignore....don't get it. Lol
 
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The word "cosmic" means different things to different people.

There is a biblical use as the word cosmic is from the Greek word "cosmos" which means "an order or arrangement". It is also used as defining the world system.

kosmos indicates the presence of “order” and “arrangement,”


Complete Biblical Library Greek-English Dictionary, The - The Complete Biblical Library Greek-English Dictionary – Zeta-Kappa.

Here is how we today can define the word "cosmic" according to the dictionary.

adjective
1. of or relating to the cosmos :
cosmic laws.



2. characteristic of the cosmos or its phenomena:

cosmic events.



3.
immeasurably extended in time and space; vast.


4.
forming a part of the material universe, especially outside of the earth.

Just because some New Age people used the word "cosmic" sometimes does that make everyone else that uses the word a New Ager? Of course not. Why do we let other people hi-jack words? That's just religious nonsense.

They also use the word "meditate" - should we call every minister a New Ager now if they mention the word "meditate". It's time for all of us to give our religious heads a shake and come out of the fog of religion
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Child abuse triggers | Pannone



I believe that Satan has placed his demon posssessed minions among the church that abuse young Christians so that they have "triggers" that cause them remember the abuse and do a 180 whenever they hear a word or phrase.

His purpose is to divide and isolate people so that they can't be a fully functional parts of the True body of Christ. He uses this tactic to make people avoid churches because of their past negative experiences.

How do you recognize the wolves? The Bible tells us. (will post scriptures when I get a chance)

How do you heal from the abuse or help others heal?

I am not sure. Perhaps you could tell me. I only know God healed me through prayer and love of true born again believers.

I thought if we looked at how physical, emotional and mental abused survivors recover, might help us learn how we might help those who are spiritually abused also.

I’m sorry but to me that just doesn’t ring true. People run from Y-shua because their deeds will be shown in the light and who can know the heart the heart is deceitfully wicked beyond measure according to Y-shua. The Bible does not back up this claim; it’s your fault I’m going to hell!!!
 

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I'm not sure I would have leap-frogged over hundreds of more basic lessons, and gone right to his suggestion of 5 steps of healing before you even discover what he thinks healing is, why he believes in it, and how it may affect our lives and walk. At one point you would have learned that after years, and he first began to pray for healing, he and a team of people prayed with absolutely NO RESULTS for more than eight months, straight. In fact, they sometimes actually caught the illnesses they were praying for with people.

This man is more straight forward and down-to-earth, unpreachy, and flat-out human than probably any preacher/teacher you have ever met. It infuriates a lot of people who expect a preacher to have practiced how to properly say "Thou" and "Lawarddd" with the appropriately acceptable KJV tremor and thunder in their voice before they get in a pulpit.

Did you know he was confused that he couldn't find an ashtray the first time he was invited to church?
what would you consider good first listens? I finished his personal testimony. it was a decent laugh..haha.
 
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It's no wonder those that will listen to anything & anybody don't know what the Bible says. I'm beginning to wonder how many of them actually read it.
 
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what would you consider good first listens? I finished his personal testimony. it was a decent laugh..haha.
Maybe just try to go by the dates, if it shows.... or go by the age he appears in the thumb nail. Many of them are number series videos.
 

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what would you consider good first listens? I finished his personal testimony. it was a decent laugh..haha.
And I mean that he is legit funny....not that he is biblically a joke. As a person he is or was really decent.
 
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spiritual abuse of Christians yet the originator of this thread puts people on ignore....don't get it. Lol
What is your beef with me today potters? As Willie pointed out.,,you don't really have anyone on ignore if you actually read their comments.

Do you have a problem with me saying an extra prayer before posting to people who intentionally insult, belittle or misunderstand anything I post?
 
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I’m sorry but to me that just doesn’t ring true. People run from Y-shua because their deeds will be shown in the light and who can know the heart the heart is deceitfully wicked beyond measure according to Y-shua. The Bible does not back up this claim; it’s your fault I’m going to hell!!!
Who is claiming that it's someone else's fault they are going to hell?

I don't see how you can seriously get that out of my post.
 
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Random Google search of his name popped up with that video...gotta start somewhere and they aren't by date preached.
That's cool. But for future information, that video was an advanced seminar given to Pastors and Leaders who wanted to hear about some way to minister to people when neither they nor the people really knew how to even comfortably approach the subject being taught about. This was just a suggested way of giving some sort of reasonable order and format to what they were learning to do, so they didn't just stumble around, and to also help the people coming for ministry to feel there was a purpose they could understand.

We all do the same thing with our Sunday morning worship services.
 
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Child abuse triggers | Pannone


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I believe that Satan has placed his demon posssessed minions among the church that abuse young Christians so that they have "triggers" that cause them remember the abuse and do a 180 whenever they hear a word or phrase.
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His purpose is to divide and isolate people so that they can't be a fully functional parts of the True body of Christ. He uses this tactic to make people avoid churches because of their past negative experiences.
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How do you recognize the wolves? The Bible tells us. (will post scriptures when I get a chance)
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How do you heal from the abuse or help others heal?
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I am not sure. Perhaps you could tell me. I only know God healed me through prayer and love of true born again believers.
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I thought if we looked at how physical, emotional and mental abused survivors recover, might help us learn how we might help those who are spiritually abused also.
Okay let's break it down....

1. Satan has planted wolves and tares among the sheep and wheat...can provide bible verses as needed.
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His purpose for those people is to abuse the sheep and make them run away from home. Not grow in Christ and become functioning members of the Body of Christ.

Do folks need Biblical proof that this is true?

3. How to recognize wolves. I posted scripture early, can repost if needed.

4. Honest question, topic of the thread
How do you heal from the abuse or help others heal?

5. Admit I am unsure but that I was healed by prayer and love of my brethren.

6. Suggestion see how people suffering from other types of abuse HEAL and learn from it.

Why am I being attacked for posting this again?
 
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Dear God we pray for all the people undergoing or recovering from abuse. Please lead them to safety and help heal their hearts, minds and souls with the overpouring of your forgiveness, mercy and grace. In Jesus Holy name we pray, amen.
Then I posted abuse helplines because i have meet people on this forum who have been or still,being abused.

They didn't see a way out.

I am not on here all the,time but figured if you saw someone telling you that they were being abused you could,pass on the,helplines...

Then I said a prayer.

I still don't understand why it has caused such anger in folks.
 
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And I mean that he is legit funny....not that he is biblically a joke. As a person he is or was really decent.
NP. I knew what you meant. Yes, he always did try to simply have a conversation with his audiences, and help them enjoy their time with him as much as he enjoyed being with them.
 
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what would you consider good first listens? I finished his personal testimony. it was a decent laugh..haha.
This is part 1 of 4 of one of his more informative series. It is more "teaching" and is not as really revealing of his personality.

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