What you do not know, makes it OBVIOUS that you know almost NOTHING about a Jewish Wedding. I covered all of that in detail in my Post #22 on Page 2, so re-read that PLEASE, and I will keep this short.
A Jewish Man and Woman, are called Bride and Bridegroom, from the very moment she drank from the Proposal Cup. The man proposed at a family sit down supper, by pouring a cup of wine, and handing it, or sitting it down in front of the woman he wanted to propose to. That is a JEWISH PROPOSAL, totally NON-VERBAL. The Wedding Contract would have been made prior to the Proposal, and Bride Price was supposed to paid, the following day, IF SHE DRANK FROM THE CUP, which was the ACCEPTANCE OF THE PROPOSAL. THAT MOMENT is NOT THE WEDDING CEREMONY, but it is TOTALLY BINDING and they are considered Husband and Wife, from that moment on. HOWEVER they were required to remain apart until AFTER the Bridegroom finished the NEW DWELLING PLACE (Bridal Chamber) in His Father's House. He would say to Bride after she drank from the Proposal Cup, "I GO TO PREPARE A PLACE FOR YOU." That frequently took a YEAR or More. There is an example of it taking Seven Years in the Bible. ONLY WHEN THE FATHER DETERMINED HIS SON had made everything RIGHT FOR HIS BRIDE, would the Bridegroom's FATHER say, "It is GOOD, go get your Bride". That final inspection of the New Dwelling Place was frequently late at night near Midnight. Remember the Bride and Bridegroom were considered Husband and Wife all that time the Bridegroom was building the NEW DWELLING PLACE, and it would take a DIVORCE TO BREAK IT, and NEVER DID THEY SEE EACH OTHER DURING THAT ENTIRE TIME.
THEN with His Father's Final Approval of the New Dwelling Place, the Bridegroom would gather His Wedding Party, and appoint one of them to SHOUT and call out the Bride, because He was not permitted to set foot in the Bride's old dwelling place, even then. Thus Christ has Appointed the Archangel to SHOUT and Call US OUT. The Wedding CEREMONY Traditionally takes place in the Bridegroom's Father's House. Just before the Bride and Bridegroom enter the Bridal Chamber in the New Dwelling Place. They may or may not stay in the Bridal Chamber the ENTIRE Seven DAYS, while their guests continued celebrating the Wedding, but it is Mandatory that they attend the MARRIAGE SUPPER the evening of Seventh Day. IMMEDIATELY on the 8th Day the Bride and Bridegroom returned to the OLD DWELLING PLACE OF THE BRIDE, to REPEAT THEIR VOWS, and have another MARRIAGE SUPPER with her Relatives who could not make it to the WEDDING CEREMONY. THAT WOULD LITERALLY BE THE FIRST TIME THE BRIDEGROOM HAD SET FOOT IN THE BRIDE'S OLD DWELLING PLACE since the EVENING SHE DRANK FROM THE PROPOSAL CUP.
The Disciples Drank from the Proposal Cup, the THIRD CUP of the Passover, accepting HIS PROPOSAL FOR ALL OF US, making our relationship with CHRIST, BRIDE and BRIDEGROOM; but the Wedding Ceremony will take place IN HEAVEN, someday, perhaps soon. I believe with my whole heart, the NEW CITY JERUSALEM, IS THE NEW DWELLING PLACE CHRIST HAS BUILT FOR US.
Matthew 25:1-13 (HCSB)
[SUP]1 [/SUP] “Then the kingdom of heaven will be like 10 virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the groom.
[SUP]2 [/SUP] Five of them were foolish and five were sensible.
[SUP]3 [/SUP] When the foolish took their lamps, they didn’t take olive oil with them.
[SUP]4 [/SUP] But the sensible ones took oil in their flasks with their lamps.
[SUP]5 [/SUP] Since the groom was delayed, they all became drowsy and fell asleep.
[SUP]6 [/SUP] “In the middle of the night there was a shout: ‘Here’s the groom! Come out to meet him.’
[SUP]7 [/SUP] “Then all those virgins got up and trimmed their lamps.
[SUP]8 [/SUP] But the foolish ones said to the sensible ones, ‘Give us some of your oil, because our lamps are going out.’
[SUP]9 [/SUP] “The sensible ones answered, ‘No, there won’t be enough for us and for you. Go instead to those who sell, and buy oil for yourselves.’
[SUP]10 [/SUP] “When they had gone to buy some, the groom arrived. Then those who were ready went in with him to the wedding banquet, and the door was shut.
[SUP]11 [/SUP] “Later the rest of the virgins also came and said, ‘Master, master, open up for us!’
[SUP]12 [/SUP] “But he replied, ‘I assure you: I do not know you!’
[SUP]13 [/SUP] “Therefore be alert, because you don’t know either the day or the hour.