Which I was doing. I was on dating site, joined Singles groups, going out dancing. I can understand one reason for m being single. In 2006 I became my mother's caregiver. GOD told me to take care of her. I realized if I had gotten married before, there would have been no way for me to take care of her. My own siblings could not or would not take care of her. I was the only one in my family who could.
After my mother passed away, I had one brother and one sister who were about to become homeless. I took them in to give them time to get their Social Security, pension and Workers Comp. GOD asked me to take them in, and I did. To my shock, once they got their money, they refused to help pay their share of rent or food. They expected me to continue to take care of them. GOD had blessed them with income and they squandered all of it. They were making more than me, while I struggled to find work. GOD showed me what they were like and to NEVER help them again.....they squarned his blessings. While I struggled to make ends meet. I'm now doing well financially, but it took a lot of work and GOD opening work opportunities.