What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

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wwjd_kilden

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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

1 Corinthians 3:16,17
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?
If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.






So you believe God decides to not abide by His own Word sometimes... which makes Him a liar?

They got that was by refusing to walk with the Lord. God says mankind is without excuse (Romans 1:20)
SO, you think that ALL people who EVER killed a Christian for ANY reason is going to hell then.
Even if it was during war and the Christian was an enemy soldier

?
 
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SO, you think that ALL people who EVER killed a Christian for ANY reason is going to hell then.
Even if it was during war and the Christian was an enemy soldier
Who said that???

I'm talking about people who kill themselves and/or backslide.
 

Dan58

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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

Nothing, if they truly believed OSAS... That's the danger of that ideology, its an assurance that leaves people feeling accountable for nothing... jmo
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Who said that???

I'm talking about people who kill themselves and/or backslide.
It doesn't say that in the bible though, that is just YOUR interpretation of it.
It talks about people destroying the temple. Is it not destroyed if you kill someone?
 
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wwjd_kilden

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About the original question "What would keep them form killing themselves?"

To be honest I find it a very weird question.
If the ONLY thing keeping person from killing themselves is fear of spending eternity in hell then that person must be going through hell already.

What would keep them from killing themselves?
- Compassion / Family and friends caring
- Professional counceling
- Maybe medicines
- The few good times in between the bad times
 
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Read it again...

God clearly says WE are His Temple... and if one destroys God's temple, God will destroy Him.

It says exactly that.

1 Corinthians 3:16,17
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?
If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.

You could always go test it out and see if that's what it means or not.

If ya do, meet me by the tree of life right after the Marriage Supper of the Lamb... if you are a no show, we'll know fo sho that's exactly what the Lord is saying here.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Yes, it says WE are his temple

SO if anyone kills anyone, they destroy the temple
If it applies to suicide, it applies to murder as well
 
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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

I have heard that said as well. " A True Believer in Christ would never contemplate suicide " My response to the person claiming this is more or less the same, namely, where does the Bible teach this? I am not aware of this being taught anywhere in the Bible. Often this person simply feels like this is true, sometimes they feel this quite strongly. How we feel about something doesn't make it any more or any less true. The primary question is always going to be, what does the Bible teach about this issue, We feel many things to be true and at times we feel them to be true very intensely, that however does not make the thing true, Truth stands separately from our feelings. With that said the book of Jonah comes to mind, in Jonah 4:8 Jonah is depressed and seems that he is considering suicide as he says that he begged with all his soul to die. I think its safe to say that Jonah was a believer in the Lord. In 1 Kings 19:4 Elijah has become depressed and wants to die, He was a true believer as well. Its also important to understand that Christ accepts everyone that comes to him. Sometimes people come to Christ who are deeply damaged and have severe mental health issues. Along these lines some people have very real mental heath problems such as bi-polar disorder, borderline personally disorder, clinical depression etc. At times these believers take their own life's, it doesn't mean they go to hell.
 
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bestbefore1973

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Not for nothing, but have always wanted to die right after the horizontal bop with my hubby -- both of us going at the exact same time. :eek: (I doubt I'll get that, but if what a great send off. lol)
I think I know what you're talking about.
 
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bestbefore1973

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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

Read it again...

God clearly says WE are His Temple... and if one destroys God's temple, God will destroy Him.

It says exactly that.

1 Corinthians 3:16,17
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?
If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.

You could always go test it out and see if that's what it means or not.

If ya do, meet me by the tree of life right after the Marriage Supper of the Lamb... if you are a no show, we'll know fo sho that's exactly what the Lord is saying here.
Well the temple of God is the body of believers, so one could argue that if you destroy your brothers and sisters then God will destroy you.

(It's how you look at it)
 

Johnny_B

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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

Hello Everyone,

I apologize if this is a topic that has already been debated to death. I did a topic search on both "Once Saved, Always Saved" as well as the subject of suicide, but I didn't find the specifics of what I was hoping people could answer.

I grew up in a church that does not believe in Once Saved, Always Saved, but several people whom I currently know and highly respect believe in this teaching, and their influence has led me to try to study it as in-depth as possible.

If a person believes that nothing they can do will compromise their salvation, what would keep them from committing suicide, if they came to that point? Would they refrain because God commands us not to kill?

And what about, what I personally call, "The Saul Dilemma"--in the Bible, King Saul opted to commit suicide rather than fall into the hands of his enemies and be subjected to their torture (1 Samuel 31).

If you had the option of killing yourself vs. falling into the hands of your enemies (or, let's say, a long-term, painful, and terminal illness), what would you do?

Am I understanding correctly, or would someone who believes in Once Saved, Always Saved be at peace with the thought of killing themselves, and yet still making it to heaven?

(I'm asking because this is the complete opposite of what I was taught as a child--we were told that suicide was pretty much a guaranteed ticket to hell, although they did say that in the end, only God knows.)

I am very new to the Once Saved, Always Saved teaching, so I apologize if any of my questions seem naive or out of place. However, I have not found a clear answer to these issues in my studies and would appreciate any input you may have.

Thank you, and God bless.
What would stop any Christian from committing suicide, if a person get that far. I've known of people that believed that they could lose their salvation that took their own life.

I'd like to clear something up for you. OSAS is not a very go description of what has happened as a Christian. Once we are justified, we are always justified, justification declares us not guilty for our sins, if God were to judge us for the same crime (our sin) that would be double jeopardy. Here's where the problem starts is that people think that someone saying a prayer saves them automatically, it doesn't can it, I hope so. We must be born again or born of God read 1 John and you will see all the fruit of a person born of God. If you are read a translation that has "will not sin" keep 1:8-10 in mind. It would just be easier if you read the ESV.

Answer to your question, I don't know if any doctrine would stop anyone that has got that far in life to consider taking their life.
 

notuptome

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The evil one is always seeking to destroy us. Before we are saved he wants to destroy us so we are lost for eternity. After we are saved he wants to destroy us to ruin our testimony for our Savior Christ.

The Holy Spirit is the person who holds back the evil one from doing what he does according to his nature.

Mt 10:28 And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.

For the cause of Christ
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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

Hello Everyone,

I apologize if this is a topic that has already been debated to death. I did a topic search on both "Once Saved, Always Saved" as well as the subject of suicide, but I didn't find the specifics of what I was hoping people could answer.

I grew up in a church that does not believe in Once Saved, Always Saved, but several people whom I currently know and highly respect believe in this teaching, and their influence has led me to try to study it as in-depth as possible.

If a person believes that nothing they can do will compromise their salvation, what would keep them from committing suicide, if they came to that point? Would they refrain because God commands us not to kill?

And what about, what I personally call, "The Saul Dilemma"--in the Bible, King Saul opted to commit suicide rather than fall into the hands of his enemies and be subjected to their torture (1 Samuel 31).

If you had the option of killing yourself vs. falling into the hands of your enemies (or, let's say, a long-term, painful, and terminal illness), what would you do?

Am I understanding correctly, or would someone who believes in Once Saved, Always Saved be at peace with the thought of killing themselves, and yet still making it to heaven?

(I'm asking because this is the complete opposite of what I was taught as a child--we were told that suicide was pretty much a guaranteed ticket to hell, although they did say that in the end, only God knows.)

I am very new to the Once Saved, Always Saved teaching, so I apologize if any of my questions seem naive or out of place. However, I have not found a clear answer to these issues in my studies and would appreciate any input you may have.

Thank you, and God bless.
I want to pose another question. What would prevent a person who didn't believe in original sin from killing their babies in the womb? It seems like the most merciful thing to do, as it would prevent the possibility of this infant from losing his salvation.

My point is I don't think we always rationalize every decision. This is especially true in dire circumstances.

Regarding committing suicide, generally if one is considering that, they are at a low point spiritually, and in such a state, they are not going to have assurance of salvation. It is my experience that assurance of salvation declines as one sinks to a lower state of spiritual condition. So, I doubt if a person who is considering suicide will possess a strong sense of assurance of salvation, even if they are secure.

If I were thinking that way, I'd wonder if I was saved, if Jesus isn't enough to help me in that situation. I think suicide is more of a reaction to fear of the future many times, and fear is antithetical to faith.

Just some thoughts.
 

valiant

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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

Nothing, if they truly believed OSAS... That's the danger of that ideology, its an assurance that leaves people feeling accountable for nothing... jmo
Tell that to Paul Rom 6.1. Because he believed in OSAS (or better, in God's unfailing promises') he was accused of that too

His reply is that they HAVE DIED with Christ and been raised with Him That is why they don't even think like that.
 
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valiant

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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

Hello Everyone,

I apologize if this is a topic that has already been debated to death. I did a topic search on both "Once Saved, Always Saved" as well as the subject of suicide, but I didn't find the specifics of what I was hoping people could answer.

I grew up in a church that does not believe in Once Saved, Always Saved, but several people whom I currently know and highly respect believe in this teaching, and their influence has led me to try to study it as in-depth as possible.

If a person believes that nothing they can do will compromise their salvation, what would keep them from committing suicide, if they came to that point? Would they refrain because God commands us not to kill?

And what about, what I personally call, "The Saul Dilemma"--in the Bible, King Saul opted to commit suicide rather than fall into the hands of his enemies and be subjected to their torture (1 Samuel 31).

If you had the option of killing yourself vs. falling into the hands of your enemies (or, let's say, a long-term, painful, and terminal illness), what would you do?

Am I understanding correctly, or would someone who believes in Once Saved, Always Saved be at peace with the thought of killing themselves, and yet still making it to heaven?

(I'm asking because this is the complete opposite of what I was taught as a child--we were told that suicide was pretty much a guaranteed ticket to hell, although they did say that in the end, only God knows.)

I am very new to the Once Saved, Always Saved teaching, so I apologize if any of my questions seem naive or out of place. However, I have not found a clear answer to these issues in my studies and would appreciate any input you may have.

Thank you, and God bless.
It amuses me that people judge God's eternal promises to His own (John 6.39) by how it could affect the thinking of someone who didn't truly believe in Christ. God didn't begin His eternal purposes with that in mind. He began His eternal purpose of grace only with a view to saving men and women. And having chosen to do so, and having written their names in the Lamb's book of life from the foundation of the world, He called, justified and glorified them.

He then, having eternally saved them, changed their lives so that having died with Christ they might 'rise' with Him and thus be no longer under the dominion of sin. This is what we are in Christ. He has changed us utterly. Now He is working in us to will and to do of His good pleasure. To suggest that He will fail to carry out His purpose is monstrous.

We observe only a tiny part of His great work. Who are we to say He will not keep His promises to save to the end all who truly believe into Him?.
 

blue_ladybug

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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

Personally, I am a true believer in Christ. A believer who has not only thought about suicide throughout my life, but also a believer who has attempted it a few times. Believers and unbelievers alike, think about committing suicide at some point in their lives. I must admit, the fear of going to hell has kept me from going through with it. When a Christian has suicidal thoughts, it does NOT make them any less of a Christian, nor does it make them an unbeliever.


I should also add that I have also met people who have told me that no "true believer" in Christ would ever contemplate suicide, and anyone who does is "not a true Christian."

What conclusions have you drawn about these matters as a result of your own personal studies?
 
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I support liberals committing suicide.

There, I said it!
You are a cold man.
 
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Nothing, if they truly believed OSAS... That's the danger of that ideology, its an assurance that leaves people feeling accountable for nothing... jmo
Actually, it's assurance we don't have to waste our lives constantly checking out who we are, and, therefore, we can use our life to serve God out of love.
 
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eternally-gratefull

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Because I am watching someone who is in such a situation threaten suicide on a daily basis, and I am at a point where I'm so torn for them that I can't keep food down, and finally decided to talk about it here, hoping that others have similar experiences to share that I can learn from.

I most certainly agree that suicide is not an automatic conclusion for everyone.

But it happens to be so for the people I'm thinking of as I write this thread.

I always appreciate your wisdom and thoughts, Angela. I hope the people I am thinking of can come to a similar conclusion as you, and find that there are other choices out there, as well as reasons to make them.
People who have lost hope here on earth for whatever reason. And sees no hope of getting better. And if Satan sees they are weak in spirit, Then he will keep pushing and pushing And if a persons faith is weak. He can and does at times win.

It does not mean God will kick a true child out of his family. To try to determine a persons salvation in this case is just pride. No one can know. Only God knows.
 

notuptome

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Re: What Would Stop a "Once Saved, Always Saved" Believer From Committing Suicide?

1Pe 5:8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:

All we can do is lift up the hands of those who are weak.

Heb 12:12 Wherefore lift up the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees;

For the cause of Christ
Roger