What I do is read the word, find love as Jesus sees it, and try to live like He did. I don't simply chalk it up to 'God made me do it'. God gave me the word, I took the step to actually do it. That's the point. I am meant to become good-hearted in that I CHOOSE to do the good things set out in the book. God doesn't bring me to heaven and say 'I made you do that'. God doesn't give me everything I ask for. He gives me the means to go and get it myself.