Paradoxdown,
Your question reminds me of this event in Luke 13 (something I found while on my quest to try to figure out answers to the very same things you are asking):
Luke 13:1-5 -- At that time, some people came and reported to Him (Jesus) about the Galileans whose blood Pilate had mixed with their sacrifices. And Jesus responded to them, "Do you think these Galileans were more sinful than all Galileans because they suffered these things? No, I tell you, but unless you repent, you will all perish as well! Or those 18 the tower in Siloam fell on and killed--do you think they were more sinful than all the people who live in Jerusalem? No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all perish as well!"
In other words... Even when God was here in the flesh, among human beings in the form of Jesus Christ, He still did not directly answer your question... which I know, is neither comforting nor satisfying, nor does it, in our human minds, appear to be "right".
People have been asking, from the beginning of their existence, "Why does God let innocent people die, and even seem to kill them on purpose? How could a supposedly good, let alone perfect God, do such a horrible, evil thing?" One of our fears is that we don't want to believe it could ever happen to us (especially since we believe we serve God), or to anyone we love. We don't want to believe some random, or worst of all, God-directed, or even permitted, event could cause pain or loss in our lives.
Therefore, we either like to believe the person whom it happened to did something wrong... Or else God Himself is doing something wrong. Humans don't like it when we don't have supposedly clear explanations that exclude us from being in danger of suffering.
But even when God was here on the earth, the answer seemed to be the same: "I'm not giving you an answer. The most important thing is that you put your focus on repentance and Me as your Savior."
Unfortunately, this side of heaven, that appears to be the only answer we will ever receive to such questions.
I've found something that's even more intriguing is the reason as to why people even ask these questions. I've read about many atheists (I'm not saying you're an atheist, I'm just using this as an example, and I'm sorry if I missed what you said you believe in--or not--in one of your posts) who became that way because they saw a parent die because of cancer, lost a child, went through abusive households, etc.
In other words, they felt God had let them down and/or had done something evil, and because of that, they saw no reason to believe in Him.
I'm just curious, what's your reason? There is always a reason, and usually a deep hurt, behind someone stating and/or asking the things you're asking. What's yours?
Is it the fact that He seemingly doesn't, and won't, directly answer what you see as being simple questions you believe you should have an answer to?