FIRST OFF: As believers before marriage (I am assuming, so correct me if I err), you two were involved in fornication with each other and you make no reference to that being disobedience to the love laws of Jesus. There ARE consequences for sexual sin outside of marriage. Do you see that you were walking in sinful behaviour by having sex outside of marriage?
Do you recognize that getting married before God and in the congregation of other believers (again an assumption on my part, worthy or correction) was a very reverent and solemn act of Covenant making with God and other believers and that making this Covenant while walking in sexual sin before marriage is a serious matter?
Let's start there...
Do you recognize that getting married before God and in the congregation of other believers (again an assumption on my part, worthy or correction) was a very reverent and solemn act of Covenant making with God and other believers and that making this Covenant while walking in sexual sin before marriage is a serious matter?
Let's start there...