Defining Homosexuality

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jsr1221

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No I hear what your saying..I have heard it dozens of times by those who have been deceived by the gay propaganda that has entered into the faith...maybe you don't know that what your saying is not biblical and is counter to helping any sinner?
You've yet to show me where I said homosexuality is okay. You haven't, because no where did I say such a thing nor did I say sin is okay. I treat the gay community the same because they are not monsters. They are human beings. God looks at all sin as the same. So I do too. Why would I treat a gay person any different than I would a friend that isn't a Christian and sleeps with girls? I don't. I do my best to tell them about Christ, and pray that they let Him in their lives and repent from their ways. I've said it before and I've said it again. There's a reason why there's a strong divide between the gay community and the Christian community. Remember, Christ ate with the worst of people back then. How many of us are willing to do that in today's world. In this case, I'm guessing most Christians would think the gay community is the worst of all people. So how many people, including you, would be willing to eat dinner with the gay community. And talk about Jesus?
 
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Mitspa

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Lets try the bible and see if it classifies this sin in a different way than a girl who flirts at IHOP?

Ro 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly,
and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

Ge 13:13 But the men of Sodom were wicked and sinners before the LORD exceedingly.

Ge 18:20 And the LORD said, Because the cry of Sodom and Gomorrah is great, and because their sin is very grievous;

Jude 1:7 Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.
 
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You've yet to show me where I said homosexuality is okay. You haven't, because no where did I say such a thing nor did I say sin is okay. I treat the gay community the same because they are not monsters. They are human beings. God looks at all sin as the same. So I do too. Why would I treat a gay person any different than I would a friend that isn't a Christian and sleeps with girls? I don't. I do my best to tell them about Christ, and pray that they let Him in their lives and repent from their ways. I've said it before and I've said it again. There's a reason why there's a strong divide between the gay community and the Christian community. Remember, Christ ate with the worst of people back then. How many of us are willing to do that in today's world. In this case, I'm guessing most Christians would think the gay community is the worst of all people. So how many people, including you, would be willing to eat dinner with the gay community. And talk about Jesus?
You sound to me as if you are trying to justify this sin or equate it with the girl who flirts at IHOP... The fact is this sin is clearly defined in scripture as an abomination and the sin of a reprobate mind against God...Now that just a honest reading of the scripture ...and how I witness to sinners is based on how Gods love and Spirit direct me...but I know that only sinners know they need a Savior and lying to these folks or making a trying to point to other sin to excuse their sin, is not helpful at all.
 

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Lets try the bible and see if it classifies this sin in a different way than a girl who flirts at IHOP?

Ro 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly,
and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

Ge 13:13 But the men of Sodom were wicked and sinners before the LORD exceedingly.

Ge 18:20 And the LORD said, Because the cry of Sodom and Gomorrah is great, and because their sin is very grievous;

Jude 1:7 Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.
Yeah.. Not sure what the point of posting those verses were. I asked you to point out where did I say homosexuality was okay and sin was okay. Numerous of times, in fact. But you haven't. I'm going to go to sleep now. Maybe you can point out where I said it come next time I log on. Or maybe you'll still be thinking I'm pro gay. Who knows. But again. You continue going on in threads about homosexuality on a Christian. Because that surely reaches those that aren't on a Christian site and those that are gay and lost in sin...
 
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Yeah.. Not sure what the point of posting those verses were. I asked you to point out where I did homosexuality was okay and sin was okay. I'm going to go to sleep now. Maybe you can point out where I said it come next time I log on. Or maybe you'll still be thinking I'm pro gay. Who knows.
Well meditate on them and you might understand why many of us have a real problem with the gay agenda and the actions of our government to try and impose this abomination on our society.
 

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You sound to me as if you are trying to justify this sin or equate it with the girl who flirts at IHOP... The fact is this sin is clearly defined in scripture as an abomination and the sin of a reprobate mind against God...Now that just a honest reading of the scripture ...and how I witness to sinners is based on how Gods love and Spirit direct me...but I know that only sinners know they need a Savior and lying to these folks or making a trying to point to other sin to excuse their sin, is not helpful at all.
I brought the girl from IHOP as a way of showing how many Christians ignore everyday things that go on in our own back yard. Please don't tell me you're okay with someone flirting so she can make more money. Would God be okay with that? Just because IHOP and the word waitress isn't listed in the Bible, we should ignore it and it's not a big deal?
 

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Well meditate on them and you might understand why many of us have a real problem with the gay agenda and the actions of our government to try and impose this abomination on our society.
And you'll just let society glamorize men and women for sex appeal. I guess since that doesn't have anything to do with the government, you don't want to do anything about it. But your call. You continue fixated on just one sin. I'll continue to reach out to people in general.
 
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And you'll just let society glamorize men and women for sex appeal. I guess since that doesn't have anything to do with the government, you don't want to do anything about it. But your call. You continue fixated on just one sin. I'll continue to reach out to people in general.
When the government makes laws calling adultery or fornication a protected civil right as they have this sexual perversion...be sure you will hear from me...but people being pretty or attractive is not a sin.

But I often speak out against the sexual content that is being promoted to our society...read some of my threads
 
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When the government makes laws calling adultery or fornication a protected civil right...be sure you will hear from me...but people being pretty or attractive is not a sin.
Using that attractiveness for personal gain is? A waitress leaning in a little too close while serving a customer, or being a little too touchy feely to get a few extra dollars in tips is okay?Magazines like playboy and the SI swimsuit edition are okay? Attractive people, after all. Or are those totally different?
 
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Using that attractiveness for personal gain is? A waitress leaning in a little too close while serving a customer, or being a little too touchy feely to get a fee extra dollars in tips is okay?
Like I said...when the government tries to make me approve immoral behavior...you will hear from me...
 
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Using that attractiveness for personal gain is? A waitress leaning in a little too close while serving a customer, or being a little too touchy feely to get a few extra dollars in tips is okay?Magazines like playboy and the SI swimsuit edition are okay? Attractive people, after all. Or are those totally different?
And again I think we can agree that our society is full of sin...so should we approve more sin...that's insane
 

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Like I said...when the government tries to make me approve immoral behavior...you will hear from me...
Can't answer a few basic questions I see. I got my answer. Society has already made that decision for you. But you continue focusing soley on the gay community. Because that is the only thing wrong with our country.
 
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What you see as myopia is really genuine Christians acting as salt and light rather than the tasteless acceptance you advocate for as you berate us for sharing what Jesus Christ taught which is that people are to be either single and celibate or married and faithful to a spouse of the opposite gender (and if they find themselves in sin to repent of it). Jesus considered any other expression of sexuality sinful and this includes same-sex activity.

Now homosexuality is presently the topic of the day and so we discuss it from a biblical viewpoint correcting error and misunderstanding as we would with any other topic of the day (despite your obvious discomfort with us doing so).

Furthermore, as Mitspa pointed out, though scripture teaches that all sin can separate one from God without appropriation; sin gradients in severity as seen all through the Old Testament Mosaic Law and the New Testament. Homosexuality is treated harshly in scripture and for very legitimate reasons.

From a sociological perspective, socio-historical scholars have established in published studies that when civilizations turn from what social anthropologist Dr. J. D. Unwin termed "absolute monogamy" between men and women to homosexuality (and other negative sexual deviations), it marks the beginning of the end for that civilization. Replacement eventually follows.

There's a lot wrong with our country today; however, this serious and severe negative deviation away from God's design for human sexuality into wholesale homosexual immorality (and other sexually immoral practices such as adultery and fornication en masse) may be the worst of them.

Scripture patently warns that societies which unrepentantly immerse themselves in the level of immorality that Western Civilization has again embarked upon will suffer God's holy judgment (e.g. punishment followed by replacement) just as occurred the last time and people who unrepentantly immerse themselves in it face the danger of reprobation then hell.

Biblically, it's very serious and you're treating it as if it's not.


Can't answer a few basic questions I see. I got my answer. Society has already made that decision for you. But you continue focusing soley on the gay community. Because that is the only thing wrong with our country.
 
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Read this post of mine here: http://christianchat.com/christian-family-forum/116920-defining-homosexuality-5.html#post2178249

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"Paul's use of arsenokoitai in 1 Timothy makes homosexual behavior a legitimate target of proscriptive legislation for it is inappropriate for societies to sanction homosexual "gay rights" or validate homosexual marriage. If society validates homosexuality, the karet penalty remains. For its failures in moral leadership, Western society is now open for divine judgment..."

You're fully within your duty as a Christian to socially and politically advocate for God's normative morality for people, society, and the world at large regardless of what any non-Christian or professing Christian says, thinks, or feels. Do it with a right heart and this IS a form of acting as salt and light.

And it's really immaterial whether or not it makes people uncomfortable to be reminded that God exists, is holy, and has very real expectations for their personal and societal conduct when you actively engage in discourse with a right heart and manner.


Lets try the bible and see if it classifies this sin in a different way than a girl who flirts at IHOP?
 

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Read this post of mine here: http://christianchat.com/christian-family-forum/116920-defining-homosexuality-5.html#post2178249

Note:

"Paul's use of arsenokoitai in 1 Timothy makes homosexual behavior a legitimate target of proscriptive legislation for it is inappropriate for societies to sanction homosexual "gay rights" or validate homosexual marriage. If society validates homosexuality, the karet penalty remains. For its failures in moral leadership, Western society is now open for divine judgment..."

You're fully within your duty as a Christian to socially and politically advocate for God's normative morality for people, society, and the world at large regardless of what any non-Christian or professing Christian says, thinks, or feels. Do it with a right heart and this IS a form of acting as salt and light.

And it's really immaterial whether or not it makes people uncomfortable to be reminded that God exists, is holy, and has very real expectations for their personal and societal conduct when you actively engage in discourse with a right heart and manner.
Okay so we want to put secuality on a different level on sins. Okay. Where's all the uproar then on masturbation and pornography? Both damage a person's purity. I'm not seeing an equal pounding my fist on the table, stomping my feet on the ground, yelling "I'm not going to take if anymore" posts and threads like I am seeing with homosexuality. Can't pick and choose sin you want to gripe about. It's all or none.
 
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Can't answer a few basic questions I see. I got my answer. Society has already made that decision for you. But you continue focusing soley on the gay community. Because that is the only thing wrong with our country.
Well you might not understand now, but one day you will.
 
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If the rules of the site are to not promote anything ungodly, why do we allow people who divorce and re-marry (while their ex spouse is still alive) to continue to fellowship on here while justifying the sin of adultery? If that issue were dealt with on the same level as homosexuality, nearly half of straight heterosexual married couples in the church would be condemned to hell if they don't change their ways, reconcile with their true spouses or separate and remain single.

Instead most are silent and plead the grace of Christ -- because otherwise they come face to face with a personal sin from which they have no escape if they wish to remain in a committed relationship with their current spouse. No escape because they made a bad choice the first time around, committed sin the first time around, were abused the first time around, yet "chose" to re-marry someone new out of personal desire, forgiveness, or Christian goals with a more compatible partner.

If one can find an exception clause (not always the case in every divorce), it is clearly only meant to protect the victim of unfaithfulness, and not the perpetrator should that person later repent and return to Christ, only to find their ex-spouse has moved on and married someone else. How is adultery any different from homosexuality in this context? The one we come face to face with every day in our churches, with fellow believers?

Maybe that's a good place to start in learning how to deal with homosexual sinners in love. Because while sexual immorality is clearly a major sin, one that Jesus commanded to "go and sin no more," no such command was given for minor sins. The ones of the mind and heart that we struggle with every day as a result of our fallen condition. If we were truly able to go and sin no more from every sin tendency that affects as us humans, we would be perfect and never sin again. Which is not possible as long as we are in this earthly body. We strive for perfection in Christ, but fall short daily.

I say this because there seems to be a disproportionate response on this topic compared to other sins a Christian commits -- in spite of still being saved. The Bible is clear that only the Father can draw a sinner to repentance (John 6:44), and that each will be brought "in his own order" (1 Corinthians 15:23). If it is not time for that person to come to the fullness of Christ, no amount of preaching or persuasion will convert them. I don't see that truth proclaimed as much in the arguments here. Instead I see immediate condemnation without much thought to how the present may in fact be leading to a future reconciliation.
I didn't condemn anyone here, I was just pointing out what the Bible tells us about homosexuality and that it is a sin. Someone promoting homosexuality or adultery or any other kind of sin should be dealt with in a similar manner by the mods. I have seen people who have committed adultery and wanted help here, but I have not seen anyone promoting it. There's a huge difference in those two kinds. Even if someone was promoting such a sin I'm not sure if he would get banned all of a sudden, maybe brothers and sisters here would try to talk to him first and try to get him to understand that it is a sin. Then if he gets all offensive and all that, that's when he'll probably get banned. I'm not sure, not a mod here. If someone wanted help with a sin like homosexuality or any other kind of sin I'm very sure that everyone here would be glad to help. I'm guessing you have seen someone promoting adultery? Has he been offensive or has he understood his sin?
 
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Mitspa

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Okay so we want to put secuality on a different level on sins. Okay. Where's all the uproar then on masturbation and pornography? Both damage a person's purity. I'm not seeing an equal pounding my fist on the table, stomping my feet on the ground, yelling "I'm not going to take if anymore" posts and threads like I am seeing with homosexuality. Can't pick and choose sin you want to gripe about. It's all or none.
Don't do those things or approve them...and when the government makes them a protected class of citizen and starts to promote these sins in our society...then more folks will point out the errors of these sins as well.

By the way do we have folks marching around demanding that other accept their masturbation pride? Or do we use terms like the masturbation community?
 

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Don't do those things or approve them...and when the government makes them a protected class of citizen and starts to promote these sins in our society...then more folks will point out the errors of these sins as well.

By the way do we have folks marching around demanding that other accept their masturbation pride? Or do we use terms like the masturbation community?
Sitting on a Christian site repeatedly saying homosexuality is bad isn't constructive. The gay community actually go about in the streets trying to get what they believe is their right. No matter how wrong that is. Do you actually want to save these people? Then go out to the gay community and minister to them. As far as a masturbation and pornography community, are such things going to have to come to existence for you to want to do something about those?
 
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Hello MadeInDodsImage :)
Its a bit tricky being banned for ungodly acts. If you read the threads here about the amount of christians committing adultry or spousal abuse or a whole string of other shameful (albeit it totally human) acts, then half the people here would be banned. I do take your point though and I dont really see that anyone is PROMOTING homosexuality... its just there is mixed opinion on how to respond to those who are gay (ie whether to spurn or embrace them). Discussing is fine but its not so fine when the opinion turns to villifying people, and I think thats what some mean here when they talk of homophobes... that the point is made with hate and intending to ridicule or shame. To me thats just as bad a sin.
Hey Zoii. :)

Yeah, there would be Christians who have committed such acts, but there are a lot of them here? I have always been on either the teens forums or on the young adults one. Then maybe a bit here and there on the music and poems forum, recently I thought I'll join the Bible discussion one. So I don't really know much. If someone has committed such sins and come here and tell them out and ask for help it is fine, totally fine. But coming here and promoting them and offending others is not right. That's what I think. Neither have I seen anyone promoting any kind of sin here so far. I have seen the offending part happen from both sides, Christians must not offend even if the other person talking to them is doing so. Making points with hate and intending to shame will only get others aggressive. :/

Why do we have mixed opinions on how to respond to gay people? We should love everyone, even our enemies, we must embrace them. Homosexuality is a sin, we all have our share of sin, what makes us so special not to embrace gay people? By embrace I don't mean to support homosexuality, but to love that person.