I really appreciate all of the comments that have been made, and I have definitely gained a lot of insight from what has been shared. Honestly, I shared what I did because I was feeling overwhelmed, but now I see that I'm part of the problem and more so than I originially thought. In all actuality I saw it while I was posting what I did. I let my fear (My family disrespecting me) and my reaction paint that post. In actuality whether my family respects or disrespects me is not for the public, but rather for me to shoulder. Everyone has a cross to bear, and me pointing my wife out like I did in this post was horribly wrong. So what about my feelings of inferiority, I have to let them go! I am in God's hands, and I needed advice at the time. Yet at the same time I need to trust when things don't go so well. Respect is earned! This is truth. Jesus was loved and respected because love begets love. If I'm not begetting love to those around me, I must be doing something wrong. I need to spend more time with Jesus and what He thinks about me and less what society at large thinks (Including my extended family). I feel like everyone brought something good to this discussion. Thank you everyone for your comments. Again I apologize about talking about my wife and children like that. May God richly bless you all!
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