You are taking the verse that is frequently taken out of context and saying that it what it means by not judging. That is not what Jesus is saying this is what that verse says in context.
Matthew 7:1-5
Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
It is not about judging others and we as Christian know it, you do not. He is not pretending he does not get the meaning, you do not get the meaning. Thanks. God bless.