Ok, well if that's true, then please tell me how an infant can learn a lesson from suffering when it's going to die within minutes? I don't think God's the one allowing ANY of this to happen, btw, I think it's the parent's fault, not God...
But hey, maybe I'm wrong about everything and you are right. Maybe we can all agree to think more deeply about all of these subjects and try and find the answers God wants us to find.
Also, you asked if I accept evolution, yes I do. I am currently studying all about it in school as we speak.