Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?
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Change that mindset of yours!
This is how, you can find a good Christian girl: ,1 first let your relationship with God be number one and have a relationship with God a faithful one, spend time with God for a couple of weeks without rush, or your marriage with that Christian girl will become an idol,2ask God according to the promise in 1 John 5:14-15. 3 trust in His timing, 4 don’t be like i want the girl to be like this like that, ask God who He has in mind for you, 5 go To church, NOT TO SEE IF THERE IS ANY CHRISTIAN GIRL OUT THERE but to get advice and to be around a community of believers so that you won’t be deceived, and they will help you keep your focus on God more, 6 expect and trust God, to do it. brother change now, that’s better. 7 keep on asking God. you may ask why do I need to put God first again? the answer is here 7 If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. John 15:7 Jesus said this, remain in fellowship, with Him by prayer and spending time with Him, Jesus talks and teaches and where are His words? In the Bible, how do you remain in Him? Remain in fellowship with Him, be with Him, live close to Him, the living part is important, live close to Him be with other believers, read scripture, pray, fast, worship. Brother so first get the foundation right, Matthew 7:24-27 “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. 27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.” It is also for your own safety that you put God first. then you can start thinking of how to find one Christian girl.
You see a problem.
People have told you why you are wrong about the problem. You have argued with them.
People have told you how to fix the problem, if there really is a problem. You have argued with them.
People have told you how to work around the problem, if there really is a problem. You have argued with them.
So you're not here to find a new perspective, find a fix for the problem or find a way to work around it.
Why ARE you here? Just to complain about how pitiful your situation is?
People have told you why you are wrong about the problem. You have argued with them.
People have told you how to fix the problem, if there really is a problem. You have argued with them.
People have told you how to work around the problem, if there really is a problem. You have argued with them.
So you're not here to find a new perspective, find a fix for the problem or find a way to work around it.
Why ARE you here? Just to complain about how pitiful your situation is?
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I mean, if you are just here to complain, that's fine. We get complainers here all the time. Some of them are real hardened veteran complainers, experts at complaining, and no amount of reasoning will shake them from their gripe.
But at least be straight about why you're here. If it's only to complain, be honest about your purpose.
But at least be straight about why you're here. If it's only to complain, be honest about your purpose.
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He is just a big time waster and nothing more..So I am personally done with this dude.His true motive is not honourable and he has sought to disquise it with seeking to draw us into meaningless conversations which just go round and round in circles..😡
There comes point whenyiy just stop bothering because it just a trap to waste everybody's time.
Plus there no point anyone seeking to be the hero of the day and give him exactly what he wants because this will never happen.They will find themselves going round in circles again and again.
I suggest everyone else just quit trying..
So much time has been spent doing our very best to advise him..provide empathy and much more..its like hitting our heads against a brick wall.🤷.
We have thrown enough of our precious peals toward him and I think you know how the rest of the bible verse goes..🤦🏼♂️
There comes point whenyiy just stop bothering because it just a trap to waste everybody's time.
Plus there no point anyone seeking to be the hero of the day and give him exactly what he wants because this will never happen.They will find themselves going round in circles again and again.
I suggest everyone else just quit trying..
So much time has been spent doing our very best to advise him..provide empathy and much more..its like hitting our heads against a brick wall.🤷.
We have thrown enough of our precious peals toward him and I think you know how the rest of the bible verse goes..🤦🏼♂️
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The problem is nobody has answered my original question.
Your most repeated advice is "dont get married, you will have lots of problems". When I said I WANT TO AND I WANT TO and asked for advice on how to find a good virtuous girl so that she doesnt divorce and dump me. But you keep shouting things like "its a dead end, dont marry" "marriage is for the rich" "if you marry, your life will be trash forever". In some aspects you sound like you are even more gloomy and negative than me. Did you read the thread title ?
Your most repeated advice is "dont get married, you will have lots of problems". When I said I WANT TO AND I WANT TO and asked for advice on how to find a good virtuous girl so that she doesnt divorce and dump me. But you keep shouting things like "its a dead end, dont marry" "marriage is for the rich" "if you marry, your life will be trash forever". In some aspects you sound like you are even more gloomy and negative than me. Did you read the thread title ?
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Can you distinguish between different people? I never said any of that.
Many gave you good advice on how to find a lady. Some even gathered statistics about conditions in your area.
All you gave them for their trouble was more arguments.
So yeah, you're only here to complain. They gave you solutions and you just complained about their solutions.
Many gave you good advice on how to find a lady. Some even gathered statistics about conditions in your area.
All you gave them for their trouble was more arguments.
So yeah, you're only here to complain. They gave you solutions and you just complained about their solutions.
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