brother you Don’t need to do anything to impress a girl. they would probably be into you, but I believe that yhis can be your goal, instead of trying to be someone impressive to her, try to be someone who can help her too, not to just absorb her “love”. be someone who can be a blessing to her as cinder said. Instead of impressing her, be someone who can be loving her like Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. The reason we say draw near to Christ. is because 1 you definitely need a better relationship with Christ, 2. Is because you can’t love the girl if you don’t draw near to Christ, you can’t manage her, or be an example to others, and be helping others with their own issues. the reason why we can’t help a lot is also because we are here online which makes it harder, but you can go to church instead of going there to find a girl, go there to get advice or get advice from your parents, and you can go there for you need to be having a better relationship with God. a girl isn’t God, who will satisfy you with her love. But God’s love is better than life as David said, and it is impossible to understand too great to understand, it is perfect. So what type of doubts do you get? In drawing close to Christ? Its the first thing you should do. The answer to how is simple, you dont need all the answers but you have the Bible, search the Bible on what it says about marriage, but first get to know God more. Pray, which means communication, a talk, a sincere talk with God, then worship, which means Praising God, for the things He has done and who He is. Be in the church with believers, which means to not being lonely, but learning about God, being encouraged, prayed for, whom you worship with, and a place to get strenghtened, the Bible has all the answers you need. Brother and don’t be like there is a high statistical chance that I won’t find one, what did God say to Elijah? “Yet I will preserve 7,000 others in Israel who have never bowed down to Baal or kissed him!” its a little out of context but you have gotten the point, me and you don’t know all the girls in Finland, but there is definitely one that can be attracted to you, and you too Being attracted to her. and dont worry, you don’t know what you will do or be or where you’ll be tomorrow, so focus on havijg a better relationship with God today, you Don’t know what you will be or how things will be In even the next 5 seconds, so don’t worry about a girl, yes you are lonely, and it is hard, but you have brothers and sisters and a church to go, and also most importantly God so be around community get advice, and don’t worry. Things will go well, but you need a better relationship with God.
don’t idolize a girl, than who she normally is,
don’t idolize a girl, than who she normally is,