Could you date a girl taller than you?

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CarolSampaio

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Lynx said:
AAAAAAARGH! Why are there no girls like this around HERE?!

*Lynx curls up on his perch and sulks.
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Lynx...there are girls like that around you... ;) you'll just need to find them!! :)
 
violakat

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Mitspa said:
Not sure that makes sense..because the closest kinsman redeemer was not Boaz... I think clearly she wanted Boaz and his kindness toward her won her over?
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Actually, if I remember correctly, Naomi told her Boaz was her kinsman redeemer and encouraged her to go to him, and told her exactly what to do. Ruth, didn't know there was one even more closer to her husband then Boaz, since this was not her native country.
 
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ServantStrike

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MollyConnor said:
What's annoying is that Christian women are usually told not to ask a man out because it's not their place, then Christian men don't want to make the move. I'm sorry that I'm old-fashioned and won't go with the world's views on this.

I've told two boys in the past that I had feelings for them and I swore I would never do it again. Not only did I feel desperate but I felt I had lost some respect for myself. I also lost them as friends.

Also, if a guy really likes me, he will ask me out. If I have to ask him out, it just shows me he wasn't really interested.
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Judging from your profile picture there, you're pretty attractive.

So shy guys are going to be even more intimidated than normal. It doesn't make it right, it's just how they're going to think.

And I cannot conceive why a man would be upset if you asked him out. If you lost men as friends because you asked them out, count yourself lucky that you aren't wasting your time with them any more.

Tintin said:
Thanks, brother. Actually, I don't think girls like nice guys. Sure, as friends, but nothing more. Girls seem to like guys who exude confidence, who have integrity and are respectful. Guys who are passionate and fun-loving, but still guys. The confidence aspect is always the killer for me. Work In Progress here.
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They do want nice guys!

Pick something that you do that boosts your confidence, and think about it when you're feeling down. It works.

melita916 said:
but i don't have dem skillzzzz!

i really don't lol
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Very few people with those skillz are still in the dating pool.

Just fake it until you make it.



Send clear signals.. talk about something that a reasonable human being might invite you to go partake in together - like food, or a movie, or such.
 
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Mitspa

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violakat said:
Actually, if I remember correctly, Naomi told her Boaz was her kinsman redeemer and encouraged her to go to him, and told her exactly what to do. Ruth, didn't know there was one even more closer to her husband then Boaz, since this was not her native country.
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don't feel like looking it up right now but that sounds right?
 
Lynx

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Not actively searching, no. But I never said I wasn't keeping an eye out...
 
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MollyConnor

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zeroturbulence said:
So Ruth was taller than Boaz? :confused:
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Yes, that's why she had to ask him out first. He was way too self-conscious about his height. But it all worked out in the end. :)

Lynx said:
AAAAAAARGH! Why are there no girls like this around HERE?!

*Lynx curls up on his perch and sulks.
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Aw, I'm sorry! I can't find guys like that around here. :confused:
 
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MollyConnor

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ServantStrike said:
Judging from your profile picture there, you're pretty attractive.

So shy guys are going to be even more intimidated than normal. It doesn't make it right, it's just how they're going to think.

And I cannot conceive why a man would be upset if you asked him out. If you lost men as friends because you asked them out, count yourself lucky that you aren't wasting your time with them any more.
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Well thank you ServantStrike! That's very kind of you.
 
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melita916

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Since the gents say to just "go for it", maybe I shall!

And maybe I'll let yous know. Maybe not. I haven't decided yet. Lol
 
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Mitspa

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melita916 said:
Since the gents say to just "go for it", maybe I shall!

And maybe I'll let yous know. Maybe not. I haven't decided yet. Lol
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Don't do it Melita.....they are trying to get you into trouble :(
 
melita916

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Well, I really don't wanna take the lead. I just need to find a way to let the dude know he has a chance :D
 
Mo0448

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use morse code! or leave little notes in at his desk at work saying...you have a chance YOU HAVE DEM SKILLZZZ...wait he might know it's you then lol
 
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Mo0448 said:
use morse code! or leave little notes in at his desk at work saying...you have a chance YOU HAVE DEM SKILLZZZ...wait he might know it's you then lol
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I agree about leaving little notes to drop little hints. This might require the use of her skillzzz.
 
melita916

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Lol he's not from work, but thanks for the tip :p
 
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