I don't want to spoil any of the fun here, so please keep posting about crushes
, but I do want to warn people to be careful.
In my time on CC, I have had many, many people write me and say, "Hey, I used to be..." and sometimes, they would be a girl posing as a guy or vice versa. The number one reason they gave me for doing this was because they had a conflict with someone on CC and/or a CC relationship that went bad. Many times, you could guess who they used to be just from their style of posting or from what they said, even if the personalities seemed to be completely opposite.
For some reason, I've also found that it's very hard to convince people otherwise if they are seeing what they want to see. The person could probably be standing right there in front of them (though they wouldn't be, of course, because they are hiding their true identity) and they still wouldn't believe, or would readily believe any excuse.
As I said, I don't mean to judge anyone, I just feel it's wrong to deceive people about who you are, even if it's on the internet and seems harmless. It's not. People's hearts get broken here just as much as in real life.
All I can say is, friends, save yourself a world of grief.
Make sure you know who it is you're talking to.
I myself have thought of leaving for a while and coming back. But I'd either use this name again, if it wasn't being used, or I would publicly announce who I used to be so that if people remembered me, they would know who I am. This is just my own conviction though--I believe that God deals with me strongly about being honest, and that includes being honest about myself.
