Deal breaker, besides other then not being a Christian.

[preacher4truth]

The Bible says “outside are the dogs”. I believe animals should not live inside. I’ve experienced from other people’s pets- fleas, hair everywhere, druel, muddy paw prints, poop, pee, worms, vomit, bites, scratched and torn furniture, and watched them spend hundreds of dollars on shots, pet food, etc. and them treating them like they are more important than human beings. I seriously will not live like that. I will also not put up with smoke, drunkenness, easily angered, abusive, loud music, or eating raw / undercooked meat.

I'm pretty sure that Scripture saying "outside are the dogs" isn't referring to the subject of your misinformed diatribe. In fact I'm certain.

 

[polychoroprene]

I'm pretty sure that Scripture saying "outside are the dogs" isn't referring to the subject of your misinformed diatribe. In fact I'm certain.

not sure if the bible also means this as literal dogs, since dogs are also not viewed as favorable in the bible.
the certain thing is that the "dogs" there refers to unbelievers

 

[Tommy379]

Don't let the dog mammas see this, you'll never get a match on tender.

 

[pckts]

Don't let the dog mammas see this, you'll never get a match on tender.

I don't like when they talk to the animal like a person with complex sentences and act like the words register.

I had pets growing up and liked them, but they were never an emotional or social outlet/crutch. It seems immature and delusional. When they also have opinions like "I like animals more than humans" or "I don't like/want kids" it becomes disgusting and psychotic behavior.

If they just love everything including people and children, then it can be an endearing quality, but when the animals are above what matters it's repulsive.

 

[Tommy379]

I don't like when they talk to the animal like a person with complex sentences and act like the words register.

I had pets growing up and liked them, but they were never an emotional or social outlet/crutch. It seems immature and delusional. When they also have opinions like "I like animals more than humans" or "I don't like/want kids" it becomes disgusting and psychotic behavior.

If they just love everything including people and children, then it can be an endearing quality, but when the animals are above what matters it's repulsive.

I'm a Christian, who believes in the scientific method. Studies have been done, animals don't have empathy or emotions. They mimic what they observe in humans around them.

 

[pckts]

I'm a Christian, who believes in the scientific method. Studies have been done, animals don't have empathy or emotions. They mimic what they observe in humans around them.

Emotions or not, they aren't entities to invest time, energy, emotions in the proportions close to a human. There are some returns on the investment, but after those marginal amounts the rest is payed for by delusions.

It seems real to them though, and telling them they are delusional or unhealthily fixated on the animal will upset them and cause the human to be rejected because the animal never tells them the truth or judges. I don't pee on the carpet, but this isn't appreciated or taken into consideration when I judge them like the animal is incapable of. Animals flaws are overlooked, so they are perfect. Humans hurt feelings and require more connection then feeding for love, so it's out of the comfort zone and requires selflessness.

 

[pckts]

Emotions or not, they aren't entities to invest time, energy, emotions in the proportions close to a human. There are some returns on the investment, but after those marginal amounts the rest is payed for by delusions.

It seems real to them though, and telling them they are delusional or unhealthily fixated on the animal will upset them and cause the human to be rejected because the animal never tells them the truth or judges. I don't pee on the carpet, but this isn't appreciated or taken into consideration when I judge them like the animal is incapable of. Animals flaws are overlooked, so they are perfect. Humans hurt feelings and require more connection then feeding for love, so it's out of the comfort zone and requires selflessness.

And men's version of this behavior is probably the fixation on inanimate objects like a car, or investing large amounts of time following sports or playing videogames.

 

[polychoroprene]

And men's version of this behavior is probably the fixation on inanimate objects like a car, or investing large amounts of time following sports or playing videogames.

well, not just men. bible already warned about this, humans and their idols

 

[pckts]

well, not just men. bible already warned about this, humans and their idols

And not just women with the animal thing, I was speaking of men and women conceptually or in their extremes/on average. Seems there is a constant reminder in the liberal zone of society that men and women are not all the same whenever these topics are discussed. Of course.

You will find more men obsessed with their vehicle or investing too much time in sports than women. You will find more animal lover women than men. You know this, yet have to make sure that I'm not stereotyping indiscriminately.

 

[polychoroprene]

And not just women with the animal thing, I was speaking of men and women conceptually or in their extremes/on average. Seems there is a constant reminder in the liberal zone of society that men and women are not all the same whenever these topics are discussed. Of course.

You will find more men obsessed with their vehicle or investing too much time in sports than women. You will find more animal lover women than men. You know this, yet have to make sure that I'm not stereotyping indiscriminately.

haha, just wanna make sure that the women's shortcomings are not "forgotten". with all these bashing on men, cant help but developing certain sense of sensitivity when gender is discussed......

 

[pckts]

haha, just wanna make sure that the women's shortcomings are not "forgotten". with all these bashing on men, cant help but developing certain sense of sensitivity when gender is discussed......

I have to discuss gender any the differences of men and women any chance I get. Society is trying to destroy gender and blur the line by spaying and neutering everyone. They want us to think the line was "man-made", when it's actually a natural line with a good purpose.

Race and nationality are man-made lines, gender's isn't. It's complex and people want to subscribe to simply "everyone is the same", if you say otherwise you can be grouped into being racist or a nationalist by public opinion.

 

[toinena]

Emotions or not, they aren't entities to invest time, energy, emotions in the proportions close to a human. There are some returns on the investment, but after those marginal amounts the rest is payed for by delusions.

It seems real to them though, and telling them they are delusional or unhealthily fixated on the animal will upset them and cause the human to be rejected because the animal never tells them the truth or judges. I don't pee on the carpet, but this isn't appreciated or taken into consideration when I judge them like the animal is incapable of. Animals flaws are overlooked, so they are perfect. Humans hurt feelings and require more connection then feeding for love, so it's out of the comfort zone and requires selflessness.

I happen to be a human, and I happen to be the owner of two dogs. I am also brought up in the countryside with a veterinarian for a father. I have seen more butchered animals, dead dogs and cats than most people would think healthy for a child. I am also a person that loves serving as a teacher and always putting humans first. Because humans have a special place in the creation. I know animals die and don't come to Heaven. I know they are just temporary companions. And I will never love my dogs over my son or a student or even a future spouse. Yes. Words and actions and truth might hurt, but to say that "women prefer animals because they don't tell the truth or judge" is beyond ridiculous.

That, my dear brother, is not only a deal breaker, it is prejudicial and judgmental and so far fetched.

 

[toinena]

I happen to be a human, and I happen to be the owner of two dogs. I am also brought up in the countryside with a veterinarian for a father. I have seen more butchered animals, dead dogs and cats than most people would think healthy for a child. I am also a person that loves serving as a teacher and always putting humans first. Because humans have a special place in the creation. I know animals die and don't come to Heaven. I know they are just temporary companions. And I will never love my dogs over my son or a student or even a future spouse. Yes. Words and actions and truth might hurt, but to say that "women prefer animals because they don't tell the truth or judge" is beyond ridiculous.

That, my dear brother, is not only a deal breaker, it is prejudicial and judgmental and so far fetched.

And now I go to my chamber shivering with emotions weeping those soft, helpless tears and seeking comfort in my dogs.

SERIOUSLY! LET'S GET THIS THREAD BACK ON TRACK!

 

[pckts]

I happen to be a human, and I happen to be the owner of two dogs. I am also brought up in the countryside with a veterinarian for a father. I have seen more butchered animals, dead dogs and cats than most people would think healthy for a child. I am also a person that loves serving as a teacher and always putting humans first. Because humans have a special place in the creation. I know animals die and don't come to Heaven. I know they are just temporary companions. And I will never love my dogs over my son or a student or even a future spouse. Yes. Words and actions and truth might hurt, but to say that "women prefer animals because they don't tell the truth or judge" is beyond ridiculous.

That, my dear brother, is not only a deal breaker, it is prejudicial and judgmental and so far fetched.

I never said "women" prefer animals, I'm talking about the people that do, who more often than not are women over men.

Dear sister, read my posts again instead of reacting to what you think they said.

I'm talking about people who put animals over humans, it's clear in the posts.

 

[pckts]

And now I go to my chamber shivering with emotions weeping those soft, helpless tears and seeking comfort in my dogs.

SERIOUSLY! LET'S GET THIS THREAD BACK ON TRACK!

When they also have opinions like "I like animals more than humans" or "I don't like/want kids" it becomes disgusting and psychotic behavior.

If they just love everything including people and children, then it can be an endearing quality, but when the animals are above what matters it's repulsive.

I'm talking about women I attempt to date who value animals more than humans and treat them like humans. It's a deal breaker thread, this is a deal breaker for me. If I was a woman and men were more inclined to this behavior I'd complain about it the same.

You thought you saw something and reacted without looking closely.

 

[toinena]

I never said "women" prefer animals, I'm talking about the people that do, who more often than not are women over men.

Dear sister, read my posts again instead of reacting to what you think they said.

I'm talking about people who put animals over humans, it's clear in the posts.

OK. You might say so, but the fact is you are implying it to be women, as this thread is all about, if you don't seek to find a male companion, there is.

And to rest my case. My dogs are trained to help me in every day life. They are more helpful and obedient than a husband or a wife would ever be. Would I consider them as a replacement to a husband? No. Do I prefer them to human company telling me the truth? No. But do they show me a true servant's heart? Yes. And for me. If we only could serve my Lord with such joy, willingness and meekness as the dogs do, CC and the Christian community would be a much better place.

 

[pckts]

OK. You might say so, but the fact is you are implying it to be women, as this thread is all about, if you don't seek to find a male companion, there is.

And to rest my case. My dogs are trained to help me in every day life. They are more helpful and obedient than a husband or a wife would ever be. Would I consider them as a replacement to a husband? No. Do I prefer them to human company telling me the truth? No. But do they show me a true servant's heart? Yes. And for me. If we only could serve my Lord with such joy, willingness and meekness as the dogs do, CC and the Christian community would be a much better place.

I'm not implying anything, I'm directly stating women are more prone to elevating animals over humans then men are.

And I never said that you were one of these people I'm referring to, that is where this reaction is coming from.

You like people, you like kids, and you don't love animals more than humans. You don't have to defend your love of animals, I also said this:

If they just love everything including people and children, then it can be an endearing quality, but when the animals are above what matters it's repulsive.

I'm not looking for you to concede, because I would never get that. I just want the accusations against me to have no justification.

 

[toinena]

I am sorry. I just got extremely provoked by your statement. I don't like to argue and of course you are entitled to your opinion as I am to mine. I am pulling out of this thread now. I guess my word war was not very lady like, and sure to be a deal breaker by most men. I shut my mouth and tape on my mittens to prevent me type any more rants.

God bless you, brother. We shouldn't pick a fight over this. It is pure folly. (NOW. I put my mittens on and rest my fingers).

 

[LightBright]

I think it's kinda weird making a bunch of deal breakers when God made marriage to make us more Christ like so that we can love people even though they have characteristics or habits that we hate lol. I mean standards should exist but this just seems like we are just trying to find someone who we can love easily because they don't have any real problems we haven't gotten used to dealing with, at least that's what i think i could totally be wrong cx

 

[toinena]

I think it's kinda weird making a bunch of deal breakers when God made marriage to make us more Christ like so that we can love people even though they have characteristics or habits that we hate lol. I mean standards should exist but this just seems like we are just trying to find someone who we can love easily because they don't have any real problems we haven't gotten used to dealing with, at least that's what i think i could totally be wrong cx

I think we should make a thread " How God can make annoying traits in our significant other into a blessing"