Do Men and Women Like to be Complimented About Different Things?

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Do Men and Women Like to be Complimented About Different Things?

  • I am a man and like to be complimented for my strength (mental, physical, or both?)

    Votes: 6 42.9%

  • I am a woman and like to be complimented for my strength (mental, physical, or both?)

    Votes: 2 14.3%

  • I am a man and like to be complimented for my looks.

    Votes: 4 28.6%

  • I am a woman and like to be complimented for my looks.

    Votes: 4 28.6%

  • I am a man and like to be complimented for my intelligence.

    Votes: 7 50.0%

  • I am a woman and like to be complimented for my intelligence.

    Votes: 5 35.7%

  • I am a man and I like to be complimented for my skills (work, parenting, sports, etc.)

    Votes: 6 42.9%

  • I am a woman and I like to be complimented for my skills (work, parenting, sports, etc.)

    Votes: 4 28.6%

  • I am a man and like to be complimented for my faith/relationship with God.

    Votes: 6 42.9%

  • I am a woman and like to be complimented for my faith/relationship with God.

    Votes: 6 42.9%
  • Total voters
    14
theanointedwinner

theanointedwinner

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Nov 6, 2018
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when someone gave a complement with these few words in response to me sharing my prayers to them: your words and the bible verse you share, thank you, you have no idea what it means to me

and it's best when it's unexpected
 
ArtsieSteph

ArtsieSteph

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#47
Apr 1, 2014
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#47
I can say with definite assurance that guys do you like to be complemented in different ways than women.

I had a person that I was dating in the past called me “sexy“ and I absolutely hated it. Beautiful was fine or pretty but sexy to me is just objectifying someone. But I found out that he wanted me to “complement” him in the same way. And when I said I didn’t like it instead of saying “OK I’m sorry“ he would say “why not?“
 
Solemateleft

Solemateleft

Honor, Courage, Commitment
#48
Jun 25, 2017
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ArtsieSteph said:
I can say with definite assurance that guys do you like to be complemented in different ways than women.

I had a person that I was dating in the past called me “sexy“ and I absolutely hated it. Beautiful was fine or pretty but sexy to me is just objectifying someone. But I found out that he wanted me to “complement” him in the same way. And when I said I didn’t like it instead of saying “OK I’m sorry“ he would say “why not?“
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IMHO, he was not likely a genuine Christian man. Given his response sounds like a one track minded dog...
 
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