- Jan 30, 2016
Soulmates are a myth, in my opinion. I believe God gives us guidelines for spouses, like being equally yoked, but there is a lot of freedom to choose who we want to spend our lives with. I agree with the statement that God has the best plan in mind and sometimes we choose different but the term "soulmate" indicates that if you don't choose that one perfect person your marriage won't be as good or fulfilling as it could have been. I disagree with that wholeheartedly. With God at the center of any relationship and some work you can have an extremely fulfilling marriage. People have this idea that "if I find my soulmate everything will work out" and I think that makes us lazy about a marriage relationship. If you're not proactive in a marriage relationship it will fall apart. It takes work.
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