Do you guys ever worry that you're gonna be alone forever like me?
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Amen, Jimmy. As for whether I'll always be alone, I have always had the desire to be with someone, and I have prayed to God about it, asking Him that if I am meant to stay single, to take the desire away. After praying for a while, God confirmed that marriage is in my future, but until His perfect timing I am doing my best to remain patient and run after God, seeking Him and living for Him. I figure, if I'm going to meet someone, what better way than to end up beside someone else who is also running after God? 
Well, the majority of loneliness comes from a separation from God, though it can also partly be the longing for human interaction, and more strongly, for a meaningful and intimate relationship with someone. In response to your question, yes, many men worry about being alone. The thing is, you don't have to be. Loneliness was never meant to happen. And when God gives us the Holy Spirit, living both with and in us, we are never alone.
This of course I've just explained in short, but take heart and trust in the LORD. He can take your loneliness away. He took mine.
This of course I've just explained in short, but take heart and trust in the LORD. He can take your loneliness away. He took mine.
S
Loneliness is natural. Adam got to walk and talk with God himself...yet he was STILL lonely! (And God provided)
Just make it your prayer that God give you the desires of your heart...or that He change your heart. Seek Him first...everything else will fall into place.
And...don't worry about finding the right one. Just spend time making yourself BE the one, so that when God sends the right person, you're ready. you want that person to see something in YOU! =)
Blessings!
Just make it your prayer that God give you the desires of your heart...or that He change your heart. Seek Him first...everything else will fall into place.
And...don't worry about finding the right one. Just spend time making yourself BE the one, so that when God sends the right person, you're ready. you want that person to see something in YOU! =)
Blessings!
D
Sometimes, I regress, I think I will never actually marry. I've been in a lot of relationships, so I'm sure I will find the right girl eventually... but all those past relationships do jade you somewhat. I've been in a lot, and all of them failed to work out for one reason or another... so who knows? Maybe I will never marry.
You know what scares me more? Marrying, and then getting divorced when I'm 40 and unable to realistically meet anyone new. Divorce scares me more than anything else. I know a friend's dad whose wife just left him after 20 something years of marriage. At his age, I have a feeling he will never meet someone new. His wife decided to go out and whore around with new and younger men. That scares me, because women are simply not very honorable nowadays.
50% of all marriages end in divorce in this day and age. 90% of those divorces are brought on by women. Women divorce the men, not the other way around, in most cases. I know all the women in here will strongly disagree, and state that all the men are bad and blah blah, but that simply isn't the normal case according to statistics. It's been proven... that ever since the women's sexual revolution in the 60s... the one where it made it OK for women to go out and sleep around... where it's OK for women to become cougars... etc etc... women have abused that power over and over again. Nowhere in history have women had so much sexual freedom... and it's been bad ever since.
Anyway... I feel you dothackzero Keep your head up bro! You will meet someone.
If it's any consolation prize for the rest of you... my one grandmother... she was divorced for over 40 years... and then she met a man. She is now married to him... and she married him at the age of... 65? She is very happy, and I'm proud and happy that she finally met another spouse. I'm happy she has another person to share her life with. If she can do it at her age, then everyone else here can do it at yours as well. Just have faith, and... BE PROACTIVE!
You know what scares me more? Marrying, and then getting divorced when I'm 40 and unable to realistically meet anyone new. Divorce scares me more than anything else. I know a friend's dad whose wife just left him after 20 something years of marriage. At his age, I have a feeling he will never meet someone new. His wife decided to go out and whore around with new and younger men. That scares me, because women are simply not very honorable nowadays.
50% of all marriages end in divorce in this day and age. 90% of those divorces are brought on by women. Women divorce the men, not the other way around, in most cases. I know all the women in here will strongly disagree, and state that all the men are bad and blah blah, but that simply isn't the normal case according to statistics. It's been proven... that ever since the women's sexual revolution in the 60s... the one where it made it OK for women to go out and sleep around... where it's OK for women to become cougars... etc etc... women have abused that power over and over again. Nowhere in history have women had so much sexual freedom... and it's been bad ever since.
Anyway... I feel you dothackzero
Keep your head up bro! You will meet someone.If it's any consolation prize for the rest of you... my one grandmother... she was divorced for over 40 years... and then she met a man. She is now married to him... and she married him at the age of... 65? She is very happy, and I'm proud and happy that she finally met another spouse. I'm happy she has another person to share her life with. If she can do it at her age, then everyone else here can do it at yours as well. Just have faith, and... BE PROACTIVE!
D
As far as meeting people? A lot of times, it just takes you just talking to someone, be it in college, work, the grocery store... anything. People come and go in your life all the time, but none of it matters unless you strike up a conversation. I don't even know how half my relationships start though. I just meet girls randomly, and it goes from there. Whereever you are, just try to talk to someone if you are attracted to them. I never said it was easy... but it works!
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