I can understand what you are saying and I am still single. What God has been telling me is that He has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in Christ, that both singleness and marriage are a blessing, that it is important to trust Him to bless us, it is important to continue to believe that He will bless us beyond the nonbelievers, if we feel impatient at times that patience is a good thing, God can even use the feeling of impatience for good, and it is important to remember to enjoy the journey not solely celebrate the destination. God is good all the time far surpassing any human or people