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Desdichado

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Bahahaha. Yep, still have the genetic samples somewhere.

I'll tell ya though. The younger one is who I miss. Being with her was the best month of my life. So sad it had to end.

She would still be with me too if it wasn't for her father. The bloody Papist.

You Carbon-Dated her, right?;)
 

Desdichado

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This OP doesn't get it. Losing a girl you barely know is one thing.

The girl you saw a good quarter of the country with. The girl you read quirky Shakespeare with. The girl who respected and understood your professional goals. Who shared your dreams. That's a real kick in the backside.

But I've moved on...mostly. Wasn't meant to be.

Bahahaha. Yep, still have the genetic samples somewhere.

I'll tell ya though. The younger one is who I miss. Being with her was the best month of my life. So sad it had to end.

She would still be with me too if it wasn't for her father. The bloody Papist.
 
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SigP226

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I will say this as diplomatically as I can. To be so focused on 3 messages from 18 months ago, may very well be hampering your own personal growth in the dating world. You may also be bordering on obsession. I'd seek some genuine counsel on this.
 

seoulsearch

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Lanolin

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yeah, that really narrows it down.
yep its up to you.
You just said finding her, never said a name.
all you have to do is email the church, get the pastor to make an announcement (or prophetic word) and Bobs your uncle.

BRAINS man.
 

Lanolin

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Hey let us know when you done it or do you need help writing an email as well.

You have to do it, Nobody gonna do it for ya.

Use your brain!
 
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Godsgirl83

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DANG!!! Ya'll are some chatty cathy's in here :LOL: when I last read it was the top of pg 8 :LOL::LOL::LOL::LOL::LOL:
oh wait..... @seoulsearch has been here..... THAT explains it :)
Glad to know I'm not the only who gets long winded when it comes to answering........


I will say this as diplomatically as I can. To be so focused on 3 messages from 18 months ago, may very well be hampering your own personal growth in the dating world. You may also be bordering on obsession. I'd seek some genuine counsel on this.
oh look! A new friend! Hi SigP... welcome to CC.

pretty sure we already had this conversation this week (oh wait different thread)
BUCK is the uncle........
BOB is the patient turned phyciatrist.......
:LOL::LOL::LOL:
(had to watch both after that convo)
 

Encouragement

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I will say this as diplomatically as I can. To be so focused on 3 messages from 18 months ago, may very well be hampering your own personal growth in the dating world. You may also be bordering on obsession. I'd seek some genuine counsel on this.
yes it feels unhealthy somehow and hes's made no comments that this lady showed any romantic interest in him in the 1st place..
Even if he did track her down...what's he expecting her to or one say??
Sounds like he is the one seeking to find her with the notion that some kinda romantic connection is gonna take place..when the was no evidence to suggest the was to begin with..
 

Desdichado

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I like the username. 226 is a classic and I'm not even much of a DA/SA guy.

I will say this as diplomatically as I can. To be so focused on 3 messages from 18 months ago, may very well be hampering your own personal growth in the dating world. You may also be bordering on obsession. I'd seek some genuine counsel on this.